well mine is showbeezzy@yahoo.com am male and ol enough and am expecting a cool lady that loves chatting

no long thing when it comes to ladies

You've managed to break the ice with the beautiful woman sitting beside you at the local bar. The conversation is interesting and you're under the impression that she's attracted to you. Now how do you get past the introduction stage and straight into bed? You've tried all the approaches for seducing beautiful women: the nice-guy routine, the shy-guy routine and the mysterious-guy routine. But none of these techniques have worked and your dream girl is still timid about making love with you. It's time to try the Latin Lover routine. One of the best techniques for picking up women and seducing them is to talk sexy. Simply spice up your conversation with a few seductive phrases.

Verbally letting women know that you are sexual is great for hinting that you're the fun, exciting, hot lover that they've always fantasized about -- their Don Juan. This may sound insane, but it's true. Of course most girls will never admit to liking crude men. Many of them even pretend to be offended by sexy talk, but that's often just a front to camouflage their naughty desires. If you didn't tickle their fancies with sensual conversation, they'd probably be bored out of their wits.
women get excited
Women get just as excited about sex as men do. This shouldn't come as a shock because women have come a long way sexually. They have learned that they have the same right to sexual freedom that men have. Do you think they sit around on Friday nights thinking of what type of sweater they should knit and wear to the weekly book club meeting? Of course not, they sit at home and think about how terrific it would feel to have sex with a hot lover. Here are just a few examples of the comments I received from women I interviewed:

# "A few months ago, I hadn't dated a guy for a long time. I was very excited. In fact, I was dying to have sex. If a nice man had approached me, I would have gone to bed with him right away. It's a shame no one approached me."


# "What men don't seem to realize is that most girls are looking for a good sexual relationship just as much as [men] are. If a man is honest, sincere and shows an interest in me as a woman, then I feel like having sex with him."


# "Sure women get Hot. Sometimes, I go home and read a sexy romance book because I don't have a sexy man around. But believe me, I'd much rather be having sex than reading about it!"


You see, women also have strong sexual urges. They love sex just as much as men do. And if they don't have it for a while -- especially if they've gotten used to it -- it makes them extremely antsy. So the next time you're wondering whether or not to pick up a certain woman, remember that it may have been a long time since she's been to bed with a man. She may be Hot and if you play your cards right, you might be the lucky duck she decides to unleash her sexual frustrations on!
the routine
If you talk like a Sunday school teacher, you'll only impress nuns and grandmothers. The rewards of sexy talk are far greater than the risks. Being sexy and provocative with women really turns them on. It will get them excited about you. So use your sexual lingo and believe me, you'll get slapped a lot less than you think.

Think of it this way: if a woman told you that you had a sexy walk, sensual shoulders or great legs, it would really turn you on. Well women are sexual creatures too. Why do you think they wear skin-tight, revealing clothes? Just to look pretty? Don't be gullible. Women show men their cleavage and behinds to stimulate them because they know that if their bodies are well packaged, men will try to get their hands all over them.

A word of caution: not all women will respond to this type of talk with sexual passion. Some of them have to be warmed up first, while others are as cold as ice and just cannot be thawed. This means that you must discriminate whom you talk sexy to and how quickly you start. Don't be a prude, but if a woman doesn't show any interest, stop pestering her. Respect her decision; you don't want to be accused of sexual harassment.

Talking sexy doesn't mean pulling out the script from Debbie Does Dallas and acting it out. Remember that women are soft and sensitive creatures so you can talk dirty, but in a sexy, romantic manner.

The Rules

# Make her feel comfortable and safe.
# Compliment her on the less obvious body parts such as her ears, neck, arms, hair, hands, and lips.

# Notice the little things about her and let her know what you think.

# Give her all the attention and make her feel like she's on top of your world. Don't look at other women.

# Silence is golden. Don't talk too much about yourself and concentrate on her.


Starting Sexy Lines

# "Last night I had the best dream of my life and you were in it, " Make it sound like it really happened.

# Talk about each other's fantasies.

# Imply sex; "Cooking breakfast for her."

# Talk about her favorite sexual position.


Of course, actions definitely speak louder than words, so be prepared to back up your sexy talk if she's into the conversation.

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