If my babe asked me for money consistently - I would look at him for the stranger he just became in my sight

helpmate - HELPMATE - I am helpmate NOT CAPTAIN

Captain guides, controls, drives, steers the ship

If I have to take care of you financially - you better have popped out of of my Va-j-j, weighing under 10lbs and ready to be breast-fed.

It's that simple

MAN - especially MY MAN - you are showing me things, teaching me, guiding me - leech is nowhere in that instruction

Imari:

Everyone here thank you for your time in replying.

Shy-One

A special Thanks to You.

I think being alone and lonely at my age got the better of my sense, BTW he is suppose to be a God fearing person when he tells it, finding this place and reading what others in and from his country has to say has helped I knew NOTHING about Nigerians or Nigeria outside of what he would tell me.

Sister (if that is ok) pray to God to give me the strength to grow stronger in this.

Thank You
Imari 

You are welcome - I'm sorry if I came across abrupt and brusque
Sometimes we need to be extremely direct when directness is called for,
There are times that ALL OF US are weak, and unsure and insecure - NO ONE IS EXCLUDED
That is when we reach out and if we don't reach out - we need to

Yes, you can call me Sister as I will call you too

Remember - when they are of God - you will know them from their words, acts and deeds

God doesn't trick us, God is direct and easy to read - God told us that we would "know them - that is of him"

So ask yourself this question - why would God encourage a young person - 20 years younger
To consistently and gradually rid you of your resources as you age?  Is that your God - cause I know that's not mine.

What God does that?  Does God undermine you as you grow in grace?  Does God send you someone to tear down your house?

Because he said he is of God - if his actions aren't reflective - that is God TELLING DIRECTLY that this Man is not behaving in a God-like manner

wow I got banned - I don't know what I did - I have emailed them to request my ban to be lifted - I don't know what I said