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Crime / Re: Bandits Kidnap 90 Passengers In Edo, Intercept GUO Luxurious Bus by Sibtygarr: 8:12am On Oct 21, 2021
xpressionx:
Insecurity is on the increase daily ,and Baba still has about 2years left before his tenure ends.


Shame on all of you supporting this wicked and evil administration.

My family and I are exempted from this blood thirsty evil regime,we will not be victims.
He does not have up to 2 years left, if we bear responsibilty as Nigerians to take him out, he would be out

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Career / Re: What Challenge Are You Facing In Your Current Place Of Work? by Sibtygarr: 5:18pm On Sep 10, 2021
JayB11:


If those privileges you mean? BTW, clearly outline your points, superficial things like what?
Don't think what I said too much.

All I am saying is don't make the mistake and say it where your employer would hear you.
"A rare privilege job", that sounds like you're not qualified to be there in the first place.

whatever sha just act it and don't say it.
Career / Re: What Challenge Are You Facing In Your Current Place Of Work? by Sibtygarr: 1:51pm On Sep 10, 2021
JayB11:


Yes of course.
it's fine if those privilege are not based on superficial things. A word is enough for the wise.
Career / Re: What Challenge Are You Facing In Your Current Place Of Work? by Sibtygarr: 4:29pm On Sep 09, 2021
JOYOSITA:
Lucky?
How?
less work more extra curricula activities
TV/Movies / Re: BBNaija: "I’m Jealous" – Queen Confronts Whitemoney Over Closeness With Jackie B by Sibtygarr: 1:47pm On Sep 09, 2021
jawalis:
I’m still wondering how these ladies fall for men they knows absolutely nothing about in just 2 month. And they’ll be forming hard to get to guys in reality. You met someone in just 7 weeks inside *A HOUSE* and you’ll are claiming love.
These ho”es are damn lose. Reason why I will never commit myself to any b!tch in the name of relationship
The last line was very unnecessary. EOD
Career / Re: What Challenge Are You Facing In Your Current Place Of Work? by Sibtygarr: 1:44pm On Sep 09, 2021
JOYOSITA:
I’ve not even started my PPA yet, and my supposed oga is already inviting me to a hotel this weekend.
you're lucky. wow cool

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Career / Re: What Challenge Are You Facing In Your Current Place Of Work? by Sibtygarr: 1:41pm On Sep 09, 2021
JayB11:
Firstly, i really thank God for this rare privileged job i am into.

Secondly, my job is demanding a lot of hard work at all times. You resume early and close late, no assured weekends. I love the job but it doesn't give me much space to plan my future, so all i am struggling for is how to create a balance.
privileged job. hmmmm
Crime / Re: Nigerian Man Forced His Kenyan Girlfriend To Perform MouthAction On Him by Sibtygarr: 10:39pm On Aug 17, 2021
yuping:
Some one threatened you with knife but also give you his dick, I don't understand because mouth have � teeth or you can bite the dick,
The story is not adding up.
But of need to come out with the truth.
But if found guilty hang the guilty party.
Never thought of that LOL grin grin grin
Celebrities / Re: 2Baba And Blackface Reunite At Sound Sutan's Night Of Tribute (Photos, Video) by Sibtygarr: 10:36pm On Jul 25, 2021
EdoFirstBorn:
No one cares
speak for yourself

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Family / Re: Help! An Unwanted Pregnancy Is Ruining My Life. by Sibtygarr: 10:42pm On Jul 24, 2021
Sleyk:
You didn't keep to your promise...
this story is LONG and not short.
Savage
Family / Re: Married Men In The House Please Advice Me by Sibtygarr: 10:18pm On Jul 21, 2021
Golden147:
Good afternoon everyone..
Please I'm kindly in need of advice... ignore my typing ERROR..
There's this girl I love and I want to settle down with her. She's still in school while I'm still in school too. She's 22 while I'm 24 nd also in final YR and we both love each other..my mum has supported me to marry her.
I proposed to her and she said yes...I plan going her house next month next to start official martial rites but I'm afraid.
Here is my reasons

She's the only girl and the last daughter in a family of 5boys. Ever since we started dating, she's in 100l then, all her school burdens are on me..I take care of her and mine own...with this people around who knows about our RELATIONSHIP ask me to marry her to avoid story that touches the heart..which he has accepted , her mum nd dad have accepted it too.
My major concern about this girl is that those his brothers are not willing to do anything, istead the came asking me for small small money when I'm back, knowing fully I'm just dating thier sis....most times the my girl always feel ashamed of her brothers nd keep cursing them. The can't even call her on phone unless she calls them...nd the will keep asking why she didn't call them all this while knowing fully thier sister is in school nd not working.

I have thought about this over and over again, how do I marry from a family that can't even assist in anything...I know marriage is not always Rosy, what if something happens tomorrow nd I needed thier financial support..the can't render to me.
I discussed with my mum nd she told me I'm marrying thier sister who is well trained nd not the brother..that I can decide not to give them money again... But I'm very sad over this.
It's only the father and mum that acknowledge I hay been trying to see their sister through school expenses, including food and wears.
I discussed with my woman, she started crying, saying she knows her brothers are such a disgrace, telling me how she may commite sucide if I didn't marry her... She cried that she can't visits her house again... that her only hope will be to start prostitution which she can't see herself do that nd that's why she is going to commite sucide if I eventually leave her, all her social media handle is full with my picture, including her profile pictures.

Please what advice do you have for me.... should I let go of this girl, I don't mind letting go all I have already spent...I just want to make sure I won't regret the marriage tomorrow...I have already discussed with my mom nd we plan on going her house officially by August ending..but I'm still very worried.


Matured advice please
Oga build some spinal cord and tell them you don't have when you truely don't, give on your own wills. You owe them nothing for wanting to marry their sisters. Let that sink into their brains and let them say what ever they like, when you have and they ask give.
And give in a wise way, help in a way that means help and don't fund their frivolities nor fantasies.

Goodluck
Celebrities / Re: Obi Cubana Mother's Burial: List Of Donations So Far by Sibtygarr: 11:44am On Jul 16, 2021
kponkedenge:
Sometimes it's good to be in an association.... You don't really have to be extremely rich....just be comfortable to an extent and be in an association.

My friend, a spare parts dealer who is also into their association was telling me back then how he made x2 of the money he spent on his wedding...because the association took care of it.
Be ready to take care of the association tooo
Romance / Re: REDPILL: Pondering Questions I Have by Sibtygarr: 10:40am On Jun 09, 2021
nwaezeemmanuel:
TRP doesn't say you should not get married. Rollo Tomassi in his redpill-themed book is married and gave advice for men planning to settle down. One of which involves always maintaining a masculine frame.

If you knew enough of TRP, you would know good partners are not found but made.


Then I can make wife from olosho and runs girls then.

Even Rollo Tomassi said himself - There are no right one(e.g soul mate), only good ones
Infact you're contradicting Rollo Tomassi

He agreed good women exist and he didn't advise to carve good women
Romance / Re: REDPILL: Pondering Questions I Have by Sibtygarr: 9:43am On Jun 09, 2021
wagzy37:


The problem so that you wanted to give your input without reading through and trying to understand what was being said. Most Women ARE manipulative. That’s what Redpill is about. Understanding the nature of women so you don’t fall for their tricks.
Get this, women being manipulative isn’t a bad thing. It’s inbuilt in them - the same way babies are manipulative to their parents. At the end of the day, women want a strong, assertive and competitive man. A man who fits this description won’t have a problem getting a woman’s attention.

By the way, I’m a feminist too. Not that crap that the females talk about. I believe in females making a choice. They can choose to stay single too and die alone. The problem is, it’s worse being an old lady, single and dying alone. Women thrive on companionship, commitment and security.
Saying women are naturally manipulative and men are not is a slap on our face. It means were born dumb, makes no sense at all at all.
Also how can you say you're a feminist(special kind of one) and support the redpill at same time? which is everything against women standing and representing anything at all.
That is a whole lot of confusion. it is best you label yourself another kinda pill and just state your own perception.

And to conclude I am still looking for a redpill to help me identify a good partner, none yet
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Sibtygarr: 12:15am On Jun 09, 2021
Born2winnx:



Yes bro


They all objects either regular girls or olosho...

I soon remove that pic.




Wetin just de touch me...na when this self acclaimed repillers de belittle niggas when de pay for sex.. for fun and entertainment.like for real... calling emm simp and all...

Dude ingest all the redpills you can lay your hands on.... another nigga right there dey drink ordinary water follow shortcut.... with that same girl.





He ain't no simp.






What's even the definition of a simp.
Women being an object seem like a play word to you to buy some warm likes for yourself.
But it is an exceedingly strong word.

So if for example you killing a woman would get you want you want, you will not give a blink to do it right?
After all you see them as an object

Becareful with words incase you say them in real life

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Romance / Re: REDPILL: Pondering Questions I Have by Sibtygarr: 12:03am On Jun 09, 2021
wagzy37:


The redpills don’t want to get married… And rightfully so based on different reasons. However, if you decide to settle down, here are a few advices:
I see the above as a blatant lie covered in falsehood, it's all a fantasy world until most this so-called get to that stage of marriage. it is easy for teenagers to rant they don't want to


1. Get on your purpose. Perhaps this is the most important advice of them all. There’s almost nothing more attractive to a woman than a man who is on his purpose. Grind, go to the gym, get a hobby and be disciplined. These keep the kind of woman you’d like to have in the feminine frame.
in other words, grind, go to gym and get a hobby, it makes my woman be the woman and make me the man. Why not just see the good in doing those things and everyone is happy with it rather than seeing it as making me be the man?
I can avoid doing this as still be the man as much as I don't run away from responsibilities as a man and I don't bare responsibility which aren't mine, I see nothing can go wrong.


2. Character trumps looks: A hot and extremely beautiful girl comes with a lot of baggage. This is what you are not told until you get into it. If you get a really beautiful girl, you will have more headaches than you’d normally have when you settle for a moderately decent girl. You’ll fight with insecurities, jealousy, attitude issues and high maintenance problems. Look for character and personality. Looks should come last when settling down with a woman because it fades away with time and use.
This is a point I was looking for but you messed it up when you said I have to fight with insecurities, jealousy, attitude issues and high maintenance just because a lady is "really beautiful" but instead will get same from a fairly decent girl. So in other words "really beautiful ladies are out of my league??


3. Lead: Lots of men these days are so feminine and they can’t lead. This has made women very masculine and difficult to deal with. Women aren’t hardwired to lead. So, learn to be a leader and master of yourself before you decide to get a woman to settle with. Women’s love and respect go hand in hand. A woman can’t love who she doesn’t respect.
Respect is on a different level, girls can respect me and still don't love me, at least we all have people we respect at either point of our live and yet do not love. A lady may not love the man she don't respect but loving the man she respect is also another rabbit hole. which means for a lady I must stay with she either would love and respect me or she don't at all. Respect me as what? as a husband or as a suppressor?
Are you talking about the Stockholm syndrome kinda love or a love born of long term of understanding?


Redpill is about understanding the nature of women in general. While there are exceptions (due to upbringing and societal pressures), there are general guides. You understand them, and you won’t have problems with women.
Well I am still finding it extremely hard to this hard to understand. I take it you understand manipulative women or the feminist counterpart

Thanks for your not so clear point but was kinda ok
Religion / Re: Pastor Adeboye Defies Twitter Ban Because Of UN Charter On Human Rights by Sibtygarr: 3:46pm On Jun 07, 2021
Skiloloplc:
He is not communicating to people in Nigeria only.
In other words?

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Romance / Re: Misogyniisttt In The Making by Sibtygarr: 3:41pm On Jun 07, 2021
Abba114:
you are a MANgina fvcking blowdy SIMPanzee
“Arguing with anonymous strangers on the Internet is a sucker's game because they almost always turn out to be—or to be indistinguishable from—self-righteous sixteen-year-olds possessing infinite amounts of free time.”
― Neal Stephenson, Cryptonomicon
Romance / Re: Misogyniisttt In The Making by Sibtygarr: 3:19pm On Jun 07, 2021
Abba114:
in short i need candid advice on how to stop chasing girls because its making me to hate them i have been chasing girls for so long in my life the only thing i get is different kind of insults and blockings from social media accounts just today a girl said to me may thunder fire u. 3days ago 5girls rejected my sexual advances. it appears to me like i wont get sex in my life unless i have money or i wil accept the bad treatments from girls before they let me. a guy told me to work on myself and girls will chase me but the problem is that even i made it and girls started chasing me i wont forget what they did to me when i was broke. how can i stop becoming a misogynist because right now i hate every girl on earth
You don't have to stop being a misogynist. There are many before you and the world did not end
Romance / Re: REDPILL: Pondering Questions I Have by Sibtygarr: 12:14am On Jun 05, 2021
Still waiting for my answers, is there any redpill still standing??
Romance / Re: REDPILL: Pondering Questions I Have by Sibtygarr: 11:58am On Jun 04, 2021
sapientia:


Well, it can't help since it's obvious you were not asking

You just needed an argument

I don't know where I mentioned weakness

I don't know where I said all you posted

Since you know all these, why not start creating threads and be teaching them?

Is anyone holding you?
I am doing so by exposing the lie redpill promises
it claims it knows the truth, it actually doesn't

It is only find way to corrupt men in a bid that it is getting bad to the female.

If guys have problems with the female gender let them cure it for themselves and stop telling other guys what to do.....

I am exposing the hate
Romance / Re: REDPILL: Pondering Questions I Have by Sibtygarr: 11:55am On Jun 04, 2021
AstroG:




I don't really delve into meaningless threads these days,but lemme clear ur mind abt redpills


There's a big broad line between Redpills and misogyny ,people mistake a redpiller for a misogynist and vice versa.

Back to your topic,self identification of a good woman for marriage is dependent on how you play ur cards while u observe her manipulative characters,most women tend to camouflage during courtship and reveal their through colors during marriage. So redpills doesn't deal with how you identify a Good woman,it's your job to use ur God's given natural instincts.


My Two cents cry
You shouldn't have gotten here in the first place and still write the bolded.
meanwhile no one need AstroG here.

And you have answered my question, it has not solution for a good woman.
Thank you
Romance / Re: REDPILL: Pondering Questions I Have by Sibtygarr: 9:22am On Jun 03, 2021
sapientia:


They will never reply you because a redpiller can never ask this.

So I will just help you a bit

I doubt if redpill is about hating women or not getting married

Nope

It's about understanding women

And when you understand women, you will know what you need from them

If it's marriage, because you know how they work, you will enter and be prepared for anything

If it's a one night stand, you will know without crying for love after a lady who actually needed just a fling dumps your sorry a*s

Redpill is not the wickedness I see in Nairaland just like the wickedness christened feminism in Twitter.

Could have asked you to learn about women from anywhere but it's even better you learn it from redpillers

Read up redpill threads here in nairaland and add humanity to it but never emotion

I'm not one, just a normal person

Hope this helps
It doesn't actually,
Why not start helping men find their kinda of partner,
how is pointing me to all the weakness gonna help men?

A guy in search of a female partner fell into the hands of manipulative female,
The next thing is to tell him all of them are this and that.

I have read alot of redpill thread but basically most lament about women

Rarely do they define the right woman at all?

This kind of mean redpill can't solve problem they keep discovering, which makes it a nagging theory, if you stay with such for a long time, then only things to complain about would stay in your mind.

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Romance / REDPILL: Pondering Questions I Have by Sibtygarr: 10:14pm On Jun 02, 2021
After all the bashing and endless list of all shades of bad ladies

I have a question for the redpill

I want to marry,
I need kids,
I want wife material,
I want good mother for my children

How can I identify this woman?
What are the qualities?

This question are what guys with broken heart and failed relationships needs.

A challenge to the redpill

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Politics / Re: Herdsmen Kill 50 People In Ebonyi Communities by Sibtygarr: 10:06am On Jun 02, 2021
Cherub001:

Keep fighting for what you believe; yet doesn't stop God from doing what He would do through any process. What about if the whole process takes away all the evil people, who would be talking of one Nigeria? It would be one Africa.
God don't fight evil people in a coward way.
It is clear the evil crawling everywhere is what me, you and everyone has refused to tame or do something about and now it is fully grown and coming for everyone
The country is crumbling, going into auto-pilot mode
The highest amount of death rate is on the innocent.
The ones who caused the damage are still unscratched.

If a man allow a lion out of the cage, the lion does not attack just the man, everyone within range is in danger, including you!
Politics / Re: Herdsmen Kill 50 People In Ebonyi Communities by Sibtygarr: 12:54pm On Jun 01, 2021
Cherub001:
The death toll continues,people still crying to the government (E-warriors). Me I just see this period as judgement day for every nation. Some, Na corona fire them to repentance(India and their likes),some Na air strikes,go awaken their senses (Palestine one side). Some Na hunger strike and other natural disasters. Nigeria own;
Na them go just fight kill themselves, bad people comot for road, make good people live.
Me just watching as this Noah's cleansing wan take end,while the Remnants are been Preserved, Amen and Amen.
so innocent children killed during this struggle are bad people too?
You better behave yourself
Celebrities / Re: Yeni Kuti Celebrates Her 60th Birthday (Photos) by Sibtygarr: 2:05pm On May 24, 2021
AfroBeatDiary:
Blogger werey, wey d cleavage?
it is not the blogger o, na mod handwork

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Celebrities / Re: Yeni Kuti Celebrates Her 60th Birthday (Photos) by Sibtygarr: 2:05pm On May 24, 2021
inoki247:
ok...

I no get issues with Female going to studio for birthday photoshoot Na Male own I neve understand....
what is wrong with it?

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Crime / Re: How They Sell Girls For Prostitution Using Night Clubs And Hotels by Sibtygarr: 10:48pm On May 09, 2021
GeneralPula:
I always wonder how they do recruit girls across to Libya..

This op may be right..

If you’re a runs babe seeing this, you need to be careful of all these audio rich guys..

Don’t let them take you no where..
The lost soul won't hear word of advice

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