Well here it is as dry as possible she was only a friend that is married her husband in Iraq. When i first met her she was already having problems with her husband. Quick story on her husband army reservist and law enforcement. He is on his 3rd deployment volunteer for this one she said she told him if he volunteer she is done he went ahead and went. Wait let me finish she says they were having problems already and he still left and she cant do this anymore. Look i know it is wrong i know i was not expecting this but it happen now what do i do she is still married she is still lives in their house. He is coming back soon and I would never make her pick me over her marriage. what should i say its not that I'm scared but she is married and I'm prepared if she dumps me the second he gets back and i will deal with that. Yet i have that thought in the back off my mind what if she is really in love the way she say she is with me I'm in my early 30's divorced once after i got back from Iraq yes so i know what she is going through maybe. Don't reply and tell me its wrong cause i know already but put urself in my shoes and what if you were in love with someone like this what would you do and she tells you she loves you to.