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Family / What Causes Babies To Cry In Their Sleep by Skaylite(m): 9:24pm On Apr 27, 2022
We’ve all heard it before. The middle of the night, and you’re fast asleep only to be jolted awake by the sound of an infant crying its lungs out right beside your ear. What causes babies to cry in their sleep? More importantly, what can you do about it? Read on to learn more about the causes of baby crying during sleep and what you can do to help.

Let’s dive in right now.

<b>Babies cry because they are having a nightmare or a bad dream.<b/>
Night terrors are believed to be a psychological disorder more than anything else. Also called sleep terrors, they are episodes of extreme fear while sleeping that lead one into a state of partial or complete arousal.

The child may sweat and/or breathe heavily and make sounds such as grunting, yelling, or crying.

In some cases he may sit up and wander around. Most children do not remember these episodes upon waking, so talking about them after an episode does little good.

Night terrors are frightening for parents because they cannot comfort or wake up their child.

It’s recommended that you just stay calm, reassure your child that he is safe, and then wait until it passes. If you need to, try tapping your child lightly on his shoulder or rubbing his back until he calms down.

Do not shake him as doing so could make him worse. Then help him get back into bed and stay with him until he falls asleep again.

Remember that night terrors are common and tend to be outgrown by a child’s late childhood or early teens.

If they persist, or if your child begins having them regularly after he has been past it for a while, talk with his doctor. The cause may be deeper than you think.

<b>Babies cry because they are uncomfortable.<b/>

They may have a dry mouth, or be thirsty. They may be gassy or have an upset stomach. Or they might just be missing you.

Babies can’t tell us what is wrong when they wake up crying, so it’s important to learn how to calm them down and figure out why they are waking up so you can find ways of preventing future nights of being woken up with your baby screaming bloody murder at 3am!

Babies need a certain amount of sleep, but they will often wake up before they are fully rested.

Sometimes they’ll go back to sleep easily, and other times it may take awhile. If your baby wakes up frequently at night, one way you can make them feel more comfortable is by swaddling them in a thin blanket.

This works especially well for breastfed babies because nursing can sometimes cause their stomachs to feel full when there is actually room for more food.

<b>Babies cry because they are scared.<b/>
Babies are not born with full brains, so they learn from experience. What babies need is reassurance that everything is okay, and then you need to make sure that nothing really is wrong.

Babies have a strong instinct for self-preservation and self-interest, so when they sense danger or feel threatened by something, it’s all over.

Babies will always cry when they are in need of something. Many babies startle themselves awake or wake up from nightmares and begin crying before they even realize what’s going on.

Whatever it is that’s scaring them, they want you to help protect them from it.

There are two steps involved in stopping your baby from crying: discover what’s wrong, and solve it!

Click the LINK for more details
https://childupbring.com.ng/babies-to-cry-in-their-sleep/
Family / Crying: Is It Harmful To Your Baby? by Skaylite(m): 3:00pm On Apr 06, 2022
It’s not uncommon to find yourself asking why your baby cries so much, particularly when you first bring them home from the hospital. Babies cry for all sorts of reasons; some more comforting than others! It can be hard to tell whether your baby’s tears are cause for concern or just the result of teething or a minor illness like the flu.

Use this guide on crying to help you decide whether you should be worried about your baby’s tears and what steps you can take to alleviate any discomfort they might have if they are in pain or distress.

<h2>What is crying<h2/>

Crying is a baby’s way of communicating with his or her parent. Babies often cry when they are hungry, wet, sleepy, sick or in pain. Crying is a healthy part of a child’s development, but crying too much can be harmful for babies.

Babies can cry loudly and for long periods of time. As frustrating as a crying baby can be, never spank or shake your child. Doing so could cause brain damage or other injuries.

Instead, provide comfort by holding and rocking your child until he or she is calm. If you are worried about your child’s crying, contact his or her doctor for advice.

The doctor may recommend speech therapy for an infant who cries excessively due to an inability to communicate her needs effectively.

<h2>Why babies cry<h2/>

Babies cry because that’s how they communicate. They have no other way of saying I’m hungry, I need a diaper change, or Don’t pinch my cheeks! Some crying is normal and to be expected, but babies can also cry for a number of other reasons. Read on for more information about why babies cry and what you can do about it.

Crying is an important part of baby development, so it’s not a good idea to ignore your baby when he or she starts wailing.

Instead, figure out what may be causing your baby discomfort. If you can solve his or her problem, you might be able to stop him or her from crying.
When are babies most likely to cry?: Infants cry more often in their first three months than they do after that time.

Click HERE to read more:
https://childupbring.com.ng/crying-is-it-harmful-to-your-baby/
Family / How To Discipline A 2 Years Old Toddler: Simple Guide by Skaylite(m): 10:00am On Mar 27, 2022
The best way to correct the negative behavior of children, you have to discipline them. But how do you discipline a 2 years old toddler? In this post, I have complied together a simple guide that will help you discipline your 2 years old toddler.

Let’s dive in right now.

Imagine this: you are at home and working at your desk. Your 2-year-old daughter approaches you with her favorite book. She wants you to read to her. You sweetly tell her you can’t right now, but you’ll read it to her in an hour. She starts pouting. Next, she is sitting cross-legged on the carpet, crying uncontrollably.

Many parents are at a loss when it comes to controlling their toddler’s tantrums. It seems like you’re getting nowhere because your child isn’t listening to you.

So, what should you do?

Tantrums are a normal part of growing up. They are the 2 years old toddler way of expressing their frustrations when they don’t have the words or language to tell you what they need or feel.

It’s more than just the “terrible two”.

In this way, your toddler learns to deal with new challenges and disappointments.

There are ways to respond to outbursts or bad behavior without negatively impacting your 2-year-old toddler and his or her development.

Here are some tips on how to effectively discipline your toddler.

#Ignore her is a way to discipline a 2 years old
This may seem harsh, but one of the most important ways to respond to your child’s tantrum is to not engage in it.

Once your 2-year-old toddler throws a tantrum, their feelings will have got the best of them and talk to them or try other disciplinary measures that may not be working at that moment.

Make sure they’re safe, and then skip the tantrum. When they are calm, hug them and get on with the day.

Two years old toddlers don’t typically throw tantrums on purpose unless they learn that tantrums are the easiest way to get your attention.

You might want to let her know firmly that ignoring her tantrum because this behavior is not the way to get your attention. Tell them sternly but calmly that if they want to say something to you, they have to use their words.

They may not have the full vocabulary to tell you, even if they know the words. So encourage them in other ways.

You can teach your toddler. Sign language for words like “I want”, “hurt”, “more”, “drink” and “tired” when they are not yet speaking or not speaking clearly.
Finding other ways of communicating can reduce outbursts and help you form a stronger bond with your child.

Check out the full details here:

https://childupbring.com.ng/discipline-a-2-years-old-toddler/
Family / Re: Positive Ways To Discipline A Child by Skaylite(m): 9:53am On Mar 27, 2022
IniUbom:
Good day gents!!!!
What's the topic again? J\k! R. Kelly once said'he is not an angel, yet no monster'!!! A chill didn't need to be beaten! He or she should be brought up with correction+love!!!! Excuse my English, I'm only a fresher, oh!♥️����♥️

Thank you very much.
Discipline a child does not always mean beating, flogging and so on.

As you have read above, disciplining a child need rules before anything else, so that when they go against the rules they need to face the consequences of their action. And these consequences don't have to be beating or yelling.

Kindly check this link for more info on discipline a toddler
https://childupbring.com.ng/discipline-a-2-years-old-toddler/
Family / Positive Ways To Discipline A Child by Skaylite(m): 4:09pm On Mar 25, 2022
You’ve been probably struggle with your child behavior, and you want some positive ways to discipline your child. But why do children need to be discipline? Because they misbehave a lot and that need to treated and replace with right behavior.

You’ll want to read this article. By the end of reading, you’ll have 5 specific ideas that will help you to discipline your child. The research in psychology has been very clear about this.

Now, let’s dive in.

Kids need 2 things to be well-adjusted and happy. And those 2 things are love and discipline.

Sometimes researchers use different terms for that. Like warmth and structure.

Well, does that sound like love and discipline to you?

So, finding healthy ways to discipline your children is really essential to their development. And it helps you feel better as a parent, too. Because don’t you get tipped over sometimes when you end up doing something that wasn’t so healthy? Yes, you do.

What I’ve found is that most parents get frustrated or confused when they’re trying to deal with a child who’s on stage 1 in their moral development. If you’re not familiar yet with the stages of moral development.

The confusion that you have or the frustration that you feel is usually because these children should be doing something more mature, but they’re not.

That means that you as a parent have to step up and take a higher level of control.

Here are 5 tips that will help you to have a more healthy approach to discipline.

Tip 1: Separate The Emotion From The Discipline.

You get tipped over sometimes when you’re disciplining your child. This is counterproductive because it gives the child a false sense of control over a big person who should be in control of their emotions.

Separating the emotion from the discipline puts you in a powerful position as a parent.

So, it’s all business. We take the emotion out of the discipline. It’s all cool. It’s all calm. I’m going to maintain a calm face, voice, and body as I engage in the discipline for the children.

This is easier said than done, because our emotions get sucked into it.

Notice that your emotions become relevant when you are feeling frustrated, angry or resentful about what your child is doing.

Those 3 feelings: frustration, anger and resentment are really great indicators that you need to get into control.

And it’s distracting to feel those feelings because it seems like somebody else needs to get into control.

Well, even though that might be true, your frustration and anger is because you are out of control. That’s why you need to focus on what you can control instead of what you can’t.

And that’s going to help us to remove the emotion from the discipline.

Tip 2: Think versus fight.

Think versus fight. What do you want your kids to do? Think or fight? You want them to think. Because when they’re thinking they make pretty good decisions.

When they’re fighting, not so much.

This rule goes for everyone, including you as a parent. Think not fight. If you’re feeling like fighting, you’re off.

Get back focused on thinking so that you can come up with some strategies for how to approach the discipline in a completely business like way because you’ve already separated the emotion from the discipline.

Keep thinking and let’s encourage the kids to do the same.

Here’s a little insight about that. When mom’s smiling, kids are thinking. This goes for dad too.

It freaks him out a little bit at first. Because if they’re used to tipping you over, and we’ve got the emotion all tied in to the discipline still.

Then they’ve got you. They know that they’re in control. When you separate the emotion from the discipline, and you’re smiling, they wonder what you’re up to. And they start to get nervous. Think not fight.

Tip3. Let consequences and empathy do the teaching.

A lot of times as a parent, you get into the old 3 R’s of parenting. Do you know what those are? They are Rant, Rave, and Rescue.

It’s where you ball them out, and we bail them out. Instead of doing that, we’re going to allow the consequences to fall.

Recommendation: How to Handle Difficult Child Behavior:https://childupbring.com.ng/handle-difficult-child-behavior/


Emotional
Now, a lot of times you get all emotionally tied up in your kid’s choices because you really don’t want them to have the consequences, do you? No.

You’re trying to protect their little Souls.

So, you, instead ball them out for whatever it is that you’re trying to discipline them over. And then you bail them out and let them have the privileges that they haven’t earned through their choices.

Can you connect with this at some level?

When you do this, you teach your kids inadvertently that the only thing that matters is that they have to put up with a little bit of noise.

And for kids, bad breath is better than no breath at all.

So, they’ll do that all day long. It also tells them that what really matters here is mom or dad’s mood.

If they’re in a good mood, then I can get what I want. If they’re in a bad mood, then I have to put up with a little bit of noise and then I’m still going to get what I want.

Really? Is that what you want to teach your kids? Let’s let the consequences fall. I can guarantee you, your kids can handle whatever consequences they are developmentally bringing on to their plate.

They can handle it. They might not send you the message that they can handle it.

That doesn’t mean that they can’t handle it. So, let the consequences fall. And then let’s add that second part.

Empathy
You let empathy be the emotional response that you give your kids. Empathy has 2 important components. It means that you understand and care how someone else feels. And you do. You already do. You care how your child feels, that’s why you’ve been bailing them out. Instead of bailing them out, join with them in that feeling.

Understand and care how your kids feel. Use consequences and empathy to do the teaching.

Tip 4: Control and Maturity
You balance control with maturity. Control and maturity are inextricably tied together. You have control because of maturity. This is what you want to teach the kids.

The more mature they are, the more control they get to have. And it’s all business because you’ve separated the emotion from the discipline.
You see how these tips are tying together?

Tip 5: Focus on Choice and Accountability.
Always give your kids 2 choices. Both of which you are okay with.
And one of which you control without getting into all of the details about how to do that particular skill. This is a really powerful way to have a healthy approach to discipline, because you’re focusing on choice.

You can do this or you can do that. Either way is okay with me.

Make sure you’re okay with both ways, because if you give your kids a choice that you’re okay with and one that you’re not okay with, guess what’s one they’re going to pick?
I’m okay either way. And then you’re smiling. When parents are smiling, kids are thinking.

The accountability part of this particular tip is where they get to receive the consequences for their choice. Whether it’s positive or unpleasant.

They get to own the consequences. That’s the accountability part. And you don’t bail them out as a parent.

Hopefully, those tips will help you to have a healthier approach to discipline.

https://childupbring.com.ng/ways-to-discipline-a-child/
Family / Re: Ways To Discipline A Child Without Hitting.... by Skaylite(m): 3:54pm On Mar 24, 2022
Kingpin1000:
I no even read the post..

The old school spare the rod and spoil the child has proven to be the best.
Too many spoilt brats these days.

I suggest you read the post, because kids operate on instructions and attention.

Rules and regulations must be set for a child and stack it with consequences when they fail to obey.

You don't beat for almost everything your child do.

A child should not be beaten for break a cup
Family / Best Ways To Correct A Child’s Bad Behavior With Positive Parenting by Skaylite(m): 3:47pm On Mar 24, 2022
There are many ways to handle bad behavior in children. Some parents go for the tough approach, some just ignore it, and others rely on reward systems. However, there is one tried-and-true method that has been shown to be more successful than any other: positive parenting. This article will help you find out what works best when it comes to correcting child bad behavior with positive parenting.

Now let’s dive right in.

A subtle but Importance Different
Find a Way as Often as Possible
Avoid Critizing
Become a Monitor of Good Behavior
Think or Fight


Positive parenting is a parenting style that focuses on reinforcement of good behavior rather than punishment of bad behavior.
Positive parenting is maybe the opposite of bad behavior by the parent. Right, and if there’s only 2 options positive or negative then let’s pick the positive.

So, now we’ve got some bad behavior, how are we going to handle that with positive parenting?

I think one of the important starting places is to polish our language.
How do we phrase something? Instead of saying no all the time, what if we could redirect or steer them in a positive direction. So, trying to find ways to redirect their activity or their behavior is a really great first step.

A Subtle But Important Difference.
Let’s say that you’ve got a toddler who’s starting to get into something that they shouldn’t get into. Instead of saying don’t or stop, you simply say, “Hey, we do this, this way instead?” Which is in a positive way?

As Often As Possible. Find A Way.
How to correct child bad behavior with positive parenting
You know, as a parent to get to say yes. You’ll notice that you’re constantly saying no. What if you can get to say yes? That’s more positive than simply saying no.

I’ve even heard of kids having kind of jokes like, “Mom, can I drive the car?” as a parent just simply say “Yes, when you get a license.” You understand. Say yes as often as possible. Because there are times when we have to say no, that no carry more weight.

And, to get to yes as often as possible. That is a good point, Sometimes we say no so often that it doesn’t mean anything anymore. And this will increase the value of the no when you have to use it beautiful.

Avoid Criticizing
How to correct child bad behavior with positive parenting
Another really important step is to avoid at all costs criticizing your child in public. There may be times that you need to correct them, and you need to do so with full openness. But let’s not do it in front of their friends, or maybe even in front of a sibling. Just not in public.

Take care of all of that correction in a little bit more private way. And be aware of criticizing at any time. That’s really important.

I was just thinking, even when it’s not in public.

Are there ways that we can approach this in positive language with positive energy? The answer is YES

Positive parenting is all about keeping it on the up side. And you can correct a child using positive language.

Exactly, like you have read earlier, if you can redirect rather than “Don’t do that”, it’s simply “What if you were to try this instead” or taking them in a positive direction.

A lot of times kids are going to get our attention the most when they’re out of order, right?

We don’t see them doing the good. So, it actually takes more energy from us to catch them doing something good and give them some positive feedback.

You know, especially for that child that seems to need redirection a lot. Try to find the times that they’re doing good. Or even right as you’ve redirected them, go ahead and praise them as soon as they’re engaged in it, so with that you have something positive to go forward.

Become A Monitor Of Good Behavior.
How to correct child bad behavior with positive parenting
See, if you can catch it happening, reinforcing it. Helping them to see, this is something that can get mom’s attention. This is something that really pleases dad.

Instead of always getting the attention when they’re doing something that’s wrong or against the rules or disruptive.

Kids operate on attention. Would you agree with that? Definitely.

And bad breath is better than no breath at all. So, they’re going to go for whatever kind of attention they can get.

Even if it’s negative, unfortunately and that has becomes a difficult dynamic to change. So, watch for the good behavior.

Now, if there is a bad behavior and you need to correct it through some way, let the consequences be the guide.

Let the consequence do the teaching. As opposed to “Moms mad or dads really upset about this.”

They start to connect cause and effect. So, if you’re always upset when they do something wrong, they’re going to feel like, the consequence for this behavior is that my parent gets really upset. As opposed to, my life is better when I make better choices. That’s what we want them to learn.

Remember that when a child is in stage one, consequences are the guiding force, right? So, you’re going to want to be near your child with the poor behavior. And you’re going to want to help them have that consequence.

If you’ve told them to stop jumping on the couch, you’re going to get near them physically when you ask them to stop jumping on the couch, so you can assist them to stop. Because it’s all about outward outside reinforcement.

And again, going back to what we talked about earlier. What do you want them to do instead of jumping on the couch?

Taking it back to that positive, here’s what I would like to see. Focusing on what you want and the desired outcomes rather than what you don’t want or what you want them to stop doing.

Now, a child who might be in stage 2 or 3, you can buy yourself a little time. I think one of the things that we get stuck in so fast is we think that we have to provide consequence right away.

Children who are behaving in stage 2 or 3, you’ve got time. You’ve got communication, you’ve got consultation.

So, buy yourself a little time and you can talk about it when they are no longer in the fight or flight. Because a lot of the times bad behavior is from a fight-or-flight mode.

Going back to one of positive parenting tools, think versus fight.
And just remember: Every interaction you have with your child, you are inviting them to either think or fight. When you buy time, it invites them to think. Consider what effect this might have with your child. If you were to say, “You know what, sweetie? We need to talk about that. We’ll do that after dinner.”

Now, they get to think about it. And that’s the point. They might try to fight with you.

And you’re simply going to defer and say, “You know what? That’s really important. We’re going to talk about that after dinner or some future time.

But you’re buying some time. That allows you to think too. Which might be really important. A really important distinction to make is between behavior and the child himself.

Brene Brown is a really great resource for understanding this difference between behavior and the child. Now, we’ve got to be really careful when the child’s behavior is out of the ordinary or out of what we expect, we need to make sure that we focus on the behavior versus the child himself.

So, she talks a lot about shame and guilt. Have you heard or read anything by her about that?

She has some really great stuff. But the difference between shame and guilt is it’s comes up from self-talk.

So, let’s say I broke my mom’s plant. You know, her favorite vase that she planted and like, right?

So, shame is “I am so stupid. I am such a klutz.” it usually talks about me, about the person, personalized. While

Guilt which is, Ugly, I really should have been more careful. That was a bummer. I wish I would not have done that. Or you talk about the behavior.

So, what I’m saying from the Brene Brown work is that we make it about the behavior not about the person.

This is a real key to positive parenting. That’s something that will help your child have different self-talk as well. So, you’re modeling the kind of self-talk. So, it might be that, you made a mistake.

But sometimes it is seeking attention, right? So, I think one of the things you can do is try to increase the time you give to your child to have a voice, to have your attention.

Maybe on a particularly difficult day, maybe just increase time reading by an extra 15 minutes at night. So, that you can debrief, have some time to interact.

Give them a voice to describe or to talk about what’s going on inside them. This is something that has done so nicely through the years as the kids are settling down to bed.

Things that happen that we’re awesome. Or ways to go and ways to grow.

What did you encounter that was difficult today? Or what would you like to see happen differently in the future? And this is what you’re talking, giving them a voice, a time to talk about a different thing. To talk about express and debrief what’s going on in their life. That also increases your influence as a parent.

Because it’s bringing you closer in that relationship, you get to create a bond with them that is based on roll as a parent who is benevolent and generous and loving and that increases your influence as well.

Positive parenting is probably the answer to all the world’s problems, don’t you think? I’m sure you think so. I’m glad that you think so. And that’s why we created a positive parenting platform (Child Upbringing). Come and connect with us where we’re putting this positive parenting together so that we can support each other in the most important job in the world.

Now I’d like to hear from you:
Which point appeal to you the most?

Or maybe I didn’t mention some points that are your favorites

Either way, let me know by leaving a comment below right now.

https://childupbring.com.ng/correct-a-childs-bad-behavior/
Family / Ways To Discipline A Child Without Hitting.... by Skaylite(m): 8:19pm On Mar 23, 2022
Disciplining a child without hitting is possible. I know it’s difficult, but here you'll get 12 ideas that will help you to discipline a child without hitting him/her.

Let’s dive in right now.

Being parents is not an easy task, and although we have not yet found a recipe that works for all of us, there are some things that will help you enjoy your family more and maintain order at home.

For that, here is a guide to discipline a child without blows.

1. Behave as you want me to:
A child learns what is okay and what is not by watching their parents. If we have bad habits, such as being messy, lying, or unpunctual, let not expect the opposite of such behaviors.

We can repeat to him: “Do what I say and not what I do!”, but he will follow the example of what we do. Regardless of the behaviors you want to instill, we need to incorporate them into our lives first.

2. Distinguish discipline and punishment.
Although the first can carry an implicit punishment, its goal is higher: to prepare the long-term behavior, on the other hand, the repression by itself is immediate and does not mark changes. Your goal should be to teach him to have control over himself and to differentiate between good and bad.

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Family / 5 Simple Rules Of Financial Education For Children. by Skaylite(m): 8:17pm On Mar 22, 2022
About half of the world population admits they don’t understand anything about finance. Many sign documents almost without looking, and one in ten cannot say how much they spend per month. So, in this article, you’re going to get 5 simple rules of financial education for children.

Click HERE: https://childupbring.com.ng/financial-education-for-children/
Family / How To Raise A Financially Responsible Child by Skaylite(m): 4:24pm On Mar 20, 2022
The relevance of financial education lies in the fact that a “correctly” formed attitude to money in children significantly affects the process of their economic socialization and the formation of the foundation of “mental health”. In this article, you’re going to know how to raise a financially responsible child.

Parents often level the problem of financial education of the child. This question is most often either hushed up (because the child is still too young to manage money), or parents form the wrong attitude of the child to money.

It should also not be forgotten that parents are the main standard that influences the child in the perception of money.

Therefore, it is the latter who are responsible for the correct and justified presentation of this economic category to their pupils.

In general, financial education comes down not only to talk, but also to real actions. Trusting a child with money at that age.

Unfortunately, parents are often sure that children are only a burden for the family budget: i.e. children are an expense item.

Children who “absorbed” such relationships from childhood will also not be the best examples of parental behavior and thinking.

A child is an investment in your old age. The sooner the parents begin to instill in him a healthy attitude towards money, the sooner the parents will be freed from custody of the child.

Full Info
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Family / Re: 11 Parenting Mistakes That Ruin A Child’s Growth by Skaylite(m): 9:05pm On Mar 19, 2022
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Family / 11 Parenting Mistakes That Ruin A Child’s Growth by Skaylite(m): 8:54pm On Mar 19, 2022
All parents have their own unique way of bringing up their kids. They do their best to raise them, but nobody’s perfect. That’s why, when they look back, they all want to fix some of the mistakes they made in the past. So, in this post, you’re going to get 11 parenting mistakes that ruin a child’s growth.

Let’s dive in right now.

Here are some of the things they regret:

So, you can avoid making the same mistakes.

1. They Scolded their Children too Often
Reprimanding a child for something they did wrong is totally normal. But sometimes parents go overboard, and it turns into nitpicking.

Some parents believe that the higher their expectations are for their children, the more successful the kids will be in the future. But it surely doesn’t work this way.

Scolding a child for every little mistake can lead to behavioral problems.

Punishments for bad grades are also harmful. They can kill off the desire for learning in any child. And, of course, being too strict can have another huge downside, a poor relationship with your child.

That’s why you should only punish your kids for things that actually matter.

A broken cup shouldn’t be on that list.


2. They Missed Out on the Most Important Moments in Their Children’s Lives.
Of course, every parent has a lot of commitments, and juggling all of them is no easy feat.

But children desperately need parents to be there for them.

Some occasions that might not seem that important for an adult, really mean a lot for kids.

Children need to have someone close to them at moments like these. Even if you think you have a good reason to miss your child’s school play, do your best to be present.

Find time to visit grandma, go to the theatre, and decorate your house for the holidays, because your bond with your children gets stronger by creating memories together.

Otherwise, in the future, you’ll feel bad about how many great moments passed you by.

Full details

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https://childupbring.com.ng/parenting-mistakes/
Family / Parenting Tips: Ways To Discipline A Child Without Hitting by Skaylite(m): 9:56pm On Mar 17, 2022
Disciplining a child without hitting is possible. I know it’s difficult, but in this article you’re going to get 12 ideas that will help you to discipline a child without hitting him/her.

Let’s dive in right now.

Being parents is not an easy task, and although we have not yet found a recipe that works for all of us, there are some things that will help you enjoy your family more and maintain order at home.

For that, here is a guide to discipline a child without blows.

Full details:
https://childupbring.com.ng/discipline-a-child-without-hitting/
Family / Re: How To Handle A Child That Argues About Everything by Skaylite(m): 10:47pm On Mar 15, 2022
Is like you have no pikin. Slap is not the answer to solve that.
Family / How To Be A Parent Who Does Not Spank Kids by Skaylite(m): 10:00am On Mar 13, 2022
We scream at children, and we spank sometimes. Then we suffer from guilt, give ourselves a word not to do this again, and even ask for forgiveness from the child. So, in this article you’re going get information on how to be a parent who does not spank, yelling or screaming at their kids.

Click here to get the full details
https://childupbring.com.ng/parent-who-does-not-spank-kids/

Family / How To Handle A Child That Argues About Everything by Skaylite(m): 9:51am On Mar 13, 2022
Do your kids argue about almost everything you said? All right. Here you’re going to get the reason children argues and how to handle a child that argues about everything.

Let’s dive right in now.

Why do kids argue?
Why do parents argue?
What do I do when my child argues about everything?

https://childupbring.com.ng/how-to-handle-a-child-that-argues-about-everything/

Family / What To Do If Baby Is Crying Continuously? by Skaylite(m): 9:03pm On Mar 09, 2022
Research shows that slowly letting your child cry out for longer and longer stretches of time before you check on them helps them learn, while baby crying continuously could be that something has happened to the baby that need to be treated with urgency.

So, in this article you’re going to get all the cause of continual crying by baby and how to solve them.

Full details click here
https://childupbring.com.ng/baby-is-crying-continuously
Family / Children Protection (marion County Children Services) by Skaylite(m): 11:47am On Feb 03, 2022
How can we protect our children from the problems of abuses children are facing in our community and society at large.

Children are facing challenges from people they knew and those they don't even know.

Parents are afraid of leaving their daughter with adult when they are going out. Why?

Because of issues of a child abuse of all kind, like Raping and so on.

Read this article to help you get great information on how to tackle issues of child abuse, children face from known and unknown people in the community and society at all.

https://childupbring.com.ng/marion-county-children-services/
Family / Marion County Children Services: Child Protection by Skaylite(m): 9:06pm On Jan 31, 2022
One, among the various children service is the Marion county children service.

Marion county children believes that all children have the right to grow and develop within their families in a safe home.

Marion county children services also provides protection of abused and neglected children; supporting and strengthening families has the greatest impact on the prevention of child abuse and the neglect resulting in safe permanent families.

Here on this article you will get tips strategies to child teach your child, to help them be very vigilante of all this child abuses from relative and unknown people in the society.

Read full article here:
https://childupbring.com.ng/marion-county-children-services/
Family / How To Raise A Well Behaved Child: All You Need To Know by Skaylite(m): 8:55pm On Jan 31, 2022
Parenting is hard, especially for first time parents, to raise a well behave child is a dream of any parent, but most parent don’t learned how to go about it.

But if all you’re after is a calm and happy household, read this article.

I’m going to guide you through six really easy yet effective ways to raise and manage well behave children.

Full article here: https://childupbring.com.ng/raise-a-well-behaved-child/
Family / How To Deal With Stubborn Child: 5 Best Ways by Skaylite(m): 9:27am On Jan 30, 2022
Some parents are struggle with stubborn children worldwide and why some neglect their them, they don't bother to take good care of them.

As a parent your basic and advanced responsible and roles is to love your child unconditionally not matter what they done wrong, how stubborn he/she is.

Here I get you a 5 effective yet easy ways to follow as parent to deals with a stubborn child.

https://childupbring.com.ng/deal-with-stubborn-child/
Family / Best Ways To Correct A Child’s Bad Behavior With Positive Parenting by Skaylite(m): 10:43pm On Jan 28, 2022
There are many ways to handle bad behavior in children. Some parents go for the tough approach, some just ignore it, and others rely on reward systems. However, there is one tried-and-true method that has been shown to be more successful than any other: positive parenting. This article will help you find out what works best when it comes to correcting child bad behavior with positive parenting.

Now let’s dive right in.

A subtle but Importance Different
Find a Way as Often as Possible
Avoid Critizing
Become a Monitor of Good Behavior
Think or Fight
Positive parenting is a parenting style that focuses on reinforcement of good behavior rather than punishment of bad behavior. Positive parenting is maybe the opposite of bad behavior by the parent. Right, and if there’s only 2 options positive or negative then let’s pick the positive.

So, now we’ve got some bad behavior, how are we going to handle that with positive parenting?

Full details here
https://childupbring.com.ng/correct-a-childs-bad-behavior/
Properties / Do You Spend Money On The Go, As A Realtor? by Skaylite(m): 1:58pm On Aug 10, 2021
```There is a popular saying that "the easiest way to go bankrupt is by not paying attention to your expenses". There is nothing that captures the importance of keeping track of your expenses better than that saying.

The responsibility of taking care of our own finances doesn't happen when you start making money from your business or job, but it is very important pertinent at this stage.

If you don't learn how to manage your finances earlier in life, you may find it more difficult to adopt proper monetary habits later when you begin to earn from your business/employment.

It is important to monitor your spending and what you spend your money on so as to avoid falling into a nasty financial situation.

Keeping track of your financial operations in a business will be challenging. That is why you need to have to tool that allows you to monitor your cash-on and cash-out of money.
One of the tools used for this situation are daily cash reports. Cash reports are excellent tools in tracking your cash management since it reflects all payouts, credits, revenues, and sales for the day. It does not only help you monitor but as well as keep transparency and increases your business integrity.

Keeping track of your record on a book is not adviceable, rather a cloud base software or document.

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Business / Where My Business Money Goes To? by Skaylite(m): 1:40pm On Aug 10, 2021
```There is a popular saying that "the easiest way to go bankrupt is by not paying attention to your expenses". There is nothing that captures the importance of keeping track of your expenses better than that saying.

The responsibility of taking care of our own finances doesn't happen when you start making money from your business or job, but it is very important pertinent at this stage.

If you don't learn how to manage your finances earlier in life, you may find it more difficult to adopt proper monetary habits later when you begin to earn from your business/employment.

It is important to monitor your spending and what you spend your money on so as to avoid falling into a nasty financial situation.

Keeping track of your financial operations in a business will be challenging. That is why you need to have to tool that allows you to monitor your cash-on and cash-out of money.
One of the tools used for this situation are daily cash reports. Cash reports are excellent tools in tracking your cash management since it reflects all payouts, credits, revenues, and sales for the day. It does not only help you monitor but as well as keep transparency and increases your business integrity.

Keeping track of your record on a book is not adviceable, rather a cloud base software or document.

Now, here is what I have for you to keep a proper SIMPLE DAILY CASH REPORT for your business.

DFY (Done For You) ready to use.

* Cash record tracks
* Bank record tracks, and
* 40 categories of Expenses

All on Google spreadsheet.

And I will show you how to keeping save and use it to track your sales and expense.

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Education / All School Owners Should See This. { Are You Afraid Of Losing Your School Info} by Skaylite(m): 1:44pm On Aug 09, 2021
Dear, School owners

I can't overemphasizes on the important of keeping good school records.

The keeping of school records is critical to efficiency in human management in general and school administration in particular. How school records are kept can make or mar the success of the whole system. The challenges found in the literature facing the keeping of school records in Nigeria includes fire outbreaks, flooding, pest and rodents, improper storage among other. Implications for guidance counselling, which among others include poor discharge of their jobs, having to train school officers and regular supervision of records were advanced.
Among other things that there should be adequate time and space allocated to record keeping in schools and that school records should be kept away from both natural and artificial hazards and that there should be training and retraining of human resources designated with the responsibility of keeping records in schools.

This is why you should consider securing your school documents:

* Manual documents are not save
* Automated are easy to acess
* Manual documents are prone damage and being misplaced
* They took up space
* lack of security of information
* It is difficult to make changes etc...

All you need to access your records are Computer Laptop and Internet Connections.

If you're interested in transiting (convertion) your documents from manual to automated Cloud base storage.

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Best regards.
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Agriculture / Kegs Available In Large Quantities by Skaylite(m): 9:21am On May 10, 2021
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Business / Kegs For Sell In Large Quantities by Skaylite(m): 12:03am On May 10, 2021
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My location is Kano @1200 per keg.
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Fashion / All Business Owner Should See This. by Skaylite(m): 10:28pm On Jan 03, 2021
Yeah All business owner that want to increase their sales in 2021.


Designing fliers of your business and other products for your customers is what you can use to catch attention of clients/customers, with a catchy headings which would lead to increase in sales.

Having a good design for your business can help to receive better opportunities and prospects. Designs has made its mark in so many ways that you cannot imagine.

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The saying -- The first impression is the last stand true. 4 out of 10 customers can be impressed easily with good design.

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Properties / All Business Owner Should See This. by Skaylite(m): 10:18pm On Jan 03, 2021
Yeah All business owner that want to increase their sales in 2021.


Designing fliers of your business and other products for your customers is what you can use to catch attention of clients/customers, with a catchy headings which would lead to increase in sales.

Having a good design for your business can help to receive better opportunities and prospects. Designs has made its mark in so many ways that you cannot imagine.

Did you know?
The saying -- The first impression is the last stand true. 4 out of 10 customers can be impressed easily with good design.

I want to help just 10 business owner to design an eye catchy flyer designs for just #1000.


I will use holistic and clever communication that will be unique and appeal to your target audience.


Contact me on WhatsApp to take a slot NOW!
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