Ayomide11111: Should I consider what happened yesterday? Nairaland pls advice.
I came back from the studio yesterday's afternoon and I met my girlfriend in my house, yes she has one of my spare keys, I entered the house and I went straight to the kitchen.
I met her washing plates in the kitchen and I greeted her that she has done well but when I was about to leave the kitchen I observed that the kitchen walls were wet because anytime you cook in my kitchen the tiles on the walls gets wet due to the heat. Then, I asked her "babe what did you cook?" She said nothing that she only boiled water. I believed her and I did not suspect her because of the response but I was kind of thinking the water must have boiled over 100°c for those tiles to get wet.
I left the kitchen and I went to the bedroom when I got to the bedroom I saw some trashes she left undisposed and I was irritated and I decided to go and disposed them but when I got to our refuse bin I saw a fresh egg shells and some fresh noodles' pieces, I was kind of confused that which of my neighbors would have left his/her waste bin and come to used mine. Yet, I never thought too much because I knew it was my girlfriend, maybe she just wants to pull my legs that was why she lied at first, I concluded.
When I got inside I found her inside the bedroom, she's done washing plates, then I put it to her jokingly "babe next time you cook noodles and eggs make sure you dispose the nylons properly because you didn't do it well today." As if I ignited a flame she took it up with me angrily that why should I be saying that, that she never cooked anything since morning and I was accusing her wrongly....bla..bla..bla..bla... And she acted so real and dry like as if truly she didn't cook.
Mind you, that she cooked wasn't my problem, why would I get disturbed that my girlfriend cooked and ate in my house? But every evidences I was seeing were making me to ask her if truly she cooked but she kept denying and not that I got angry at this point.
I told her to forget about everything that not that I'm suspecting her but I just felt all what I have been seeing showed me that you cooked and not that I will kill you if you did. You're my woman why would you lied to me if you do things in my home. We shut the chapter and everyone was fine.
After like 5 minutes I went to the kitchen to cook beans, personally I don't like it when my gas cooker is dirty but my girl is a messy lady she doesn't care and I have been fighting over this on how to sort her out. I decided to clean the gas cooker and immediately as I raised the stand I saw enough fresh noodles at the angle corners of the gas Cylinder. I stood up and gave it a thought. After, I decided to show her so that she would not deny it. I called her to come to the kitchen and when she got to the kitchen I showed her and she could not say anything.
Then I asked her "as little as cooking noodles and you lied. Why did you lie on this very little matter? Why babe? " Not that that I will quarrel with you why you cooked and eat. Why? When I was coming from the studio I have already bought things that we are going to eat. Why such a big denial and lie on a little matter? Why?
Pls Nairaland I suggested this is one of the RED FLAGS. Isn't it? Pls advice.
DyshApp: @freshyonly_: A leaked chat between a Nigerian man and his girlfriend, showcasing the man’s response to her demand for N250k monthly from his N800k salary, has gone viral.
The couple’s private conversation, which surfaced recently on social media has since sparked widespread discussion.
In the leaked chat, the girlfriend, whose previous monthly allowance was N80,000, demanded an increase to N250,000 after discovering that her boyfriend, Kunle, earns N800,000 a month.
Expressing her frustration with the current allowance, she wrote:
“I’m very angry. Kunle you get N800k monthly. Out of N800k it’s only N80k that you give me monthly Kunle. Is that fair? I want increment. That N80k does not do anything in my life.
“Try and increase it for me. At least N250k maybe. I am not negotiating. It’s 250k no reduction. I don’t blame you. You disgust me.”
In response, the boyfriend angrily replied:
“Tell your daddy to give you N250k monthly or any of your brothers. Or wait, they can’t. You are so inconsiderate and your sense of entitlement is crazy. Tell me what you have done in my life. Your overblown sense of entitlement and lack of intelligence is annoying.”
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Ha! Una de talk oo!! Someone is giving you 10% of his salary, for doing nothing and you're ranting.
What madness of entitlement is that?? Too funny for me to comprehend really
RuddyFusion: I'm planning to resign from my full time role tomorrow Monday 5th of August....
This role pays me #300k net alongside data and other few allowances. But over the last couple of months more stuffs have been dump on my table without adequate compensation...
I have tried to have a conversation with the management to further review my take home to match the additional responsibilities but it's failing on deaf ears with no commitment to my request all I get is more work...
I have delayed this to accommodate the fears of friends and family but I do have another hustle that pays me in dollars that actually meets my needs so I'm thinking of leaving this Naira one to focus on that one and use my extra time to prepare for something better......
My resignation letter is ready and I will drop it after our weekly meeting tomorrow morning except a divine intervention stops me....
So my people do you have any words for me? I will that if any......
@Bolded... He has another job that pays him in dollar. So he has two jobs, the reason it's easy for him to leave. But I'd jump on that your 300k job bro. Link me up!
RuddyFusion: I'm planning to resign from my full time role tomorrow Monday 5th of August....
This role pays me #300k net alongside data and other few allowances. But over the last couple of months more stuffs have been dump on my table without adequate compensation...
I have tried to have a conversation with the management to further review my take home to match the additional responsibilities but it's failing on deaf ears with no commitment to my request all I get is more work... I have delayed this to accommodate the fears of friends and family but I do have another hustle that pays me in dollars that actually meets my needs so I'm thinking of leaving this Naira one to focus on that one and use my extra time to prepare for something better......
My resignation letter is ready and I will drop it after our weekly meeting tomorrow morning except a divine intervention stops me....
So my people do you have any words for me? I will that if any......
@Bolded... He has another job that pays him in dollar. So he has two jobs, the reason it's easy for him to leave. But I'd jump on that your 300k job bro. Link me up!
tgmservice: Hello nairaland Fam need you input on this.
I am a married man going to 3 years now. I was scrolling on Facebook when a Saw a video of man exercising in a Gym.
This man wore a short nicker and you could see the shape of his joystick dangling. His thing was really big The issue is that when I scrolled down the comment section I saw a comment from my wife since we are friends on FB and this is exactly what she said in verbatim (guess she is not so smart I would see her comments)
" I love to eat this kind of Food" yea including the smiley face
From her profile pic you can clearly see she is a married woman even other people responded to her comment calling her all sort of names like Olosho and the rest, one even said I pity your Husband.
I saw this when I was in the Office and it clearly spoilt my day I could not concentrate at work anymore. When I got home I challenged her regarding this comment and she said its nothing that its just a joke comment.
I have been angry as she seriously disrespected me and I am considering a divorce from the marriage.
Edited: File photo used for illustration
This post isn't just about your wife's comment. Somehow, just somehow I feel they is more to it. Look at her at say 'she's the best woman you married' and everything will just be fine.
they don't know how much goods can be transported using trains if Portharcourt sea port start working
No doubt!
But the point is that we have the financial power to secure a befitting train. If you check, you will see that the contractors of this project would have siphoned so much money, all in delivering this train system to work. This is our anger!
Jennyclay: Let assume it was the other way round, this thread would have been on fire, by now it would have been on page 80 with the latest derogatory words in town
You would read stupid advice like “go and do DNA test on all your children” “women are this, women are that…” bla bla bla
Since he’s a man, suddenly everyone wants to know why What happened How manage Rubbish!!
I pray the phone he swallowed causes more complications in his body system
I have learnt that as long as you are not married to a man or planning towards that direction, don’t invest too much emotions, be open minded and you will live a happier life as a single lady.
Don’t weigh yourself down with overthinking, just allow things flow natural.
This kinda makes lot of sense
As far as you're not married, if you like date 200 men/women... You're single abeg!
MisterBanny: I really feel for this guy. He must be Emotionally downcast at this time. Be strong my man
Baba is in pain!
He must have thought that this is really his last bus stop in finding a suitable partner.
It's sad!
Like I used to say, real and true lived and died in our secondary school age. All these adulthood so claimed love is just gambling. You maybe lucky to find a good and suitable partner
Darlingme: There's a lady cleaner in my office, who recently lost his eldest brother. They live in the same city, where she has no meaningful job, no accomodations, but his big brother is a multi millionaire. Who can fix her up in a jiffy, but according to the story, he wouldn't because they're step siblings and past record from her mom towards his mom, wouldn't let him help any of his step siblings. My questions are: Why is there too much hatred among step siblings? Isn't your father the root cause of your hurt? Why do you easily forgive your father, but can't do the same to his children? Why do we inherit enemies from our parents and don't want to let go? Why do men still choose to have children from different women knowing that their children might not love each other and might even give him much trauma in old age due to bitterness and hatred for each other? Is it same in other part of the world? What is your general opinion on a polygamous family?
Step or half siblings??
I think you meant half siblings. Someone can educate me please
Darlingme: Knowing that the women aren't happy sharing one man, thereby making troubles, why is it so difficult for the children to love each other as siblings? And why do men keep creating more of these problems?
Children learn alot from their parents, especially from their mum because she interfaces more wour the child. Bit by bit, such character becomes a habit you can't do without in maturity. That's why you and your partner always have issues because of different upbringing, one can't seem to change.
Just be yourself. If you're one that can't see an elderly or any woman cooking without helping, then help her. If you're still the one that can't do so, go on.
Motorist calls out fuel attendants in Port Harcourt for allegedly "scamming" their customers.
Take a listen!!!
#wetindeyhappentv
Same portharcourt I went to buy fuel in one of those filling stations around Rukpokwu. The pump attendant progamed the meter to my amount but I noticed that the moment he took out the nozzle, the meter started reading before that nozzle got to the car tank. I asked him to stop, he rushed to put it. Asked him to do it again, same thing happened. He was claiming nonsense, when I enter am 2 dirty slap, him brain reset. Asked him to call his manager, he was just ranting and all. Eventually, they came out and confirmed that the pump does that. You can imagine how many people they must have done that to.
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Mere Bf, grow up. 
I love to eat this kind of Food" yea including the smiley face
What happened