spartanian:
Myopic, we don't drink to get drunk.

Increase the volume

favoryte33:
He told u earlier on dat u guys aren't COMPARTIBLE. This is a trait of selfishness.i don't go about looking for compartibility coz true luv should embrasse our differences as long as we're ready 2 give up our ego.pls,do not go beg him.he doesn't deserve u

This is nothing to do with ego.
It's an introvert-extrovert factor.

It's difficult to pretend to what you are not, trust me.

AfroKnight:
He did the right thing for the both of you.

A reticent partner is a whole package of frustration especially to someone who wants to be sure they are communicating well in a relationship.

The truth is you made communication a burden for him. I can imagine your chat threads on WhatsApp. He was not sure what you were thinking while you guys were in the relationship. He was walking in the dark and constantly at risk of assuming wrongly.

You don’t even communicate to yourself. I mean, look how long it took you to realise that the break up was final and that you pushed him away. 1 week! That guy tried.

*You need someone who is cool with little communication.* You should also learn to discuss and be on the same page with your partner instead of hiding under the excuse of introversion.

I'm right here

wizzynuru:
Lol.. And u posted tips on how to make a man happy last year December. Looks like u don't practice what u teach.

Haha... Seriously??

One word... Distance!

Davash222:
Women are something else.
What do women want? How do you expect him to make all those monies he spent on you if he’s not busy
You enjoyed all these cos he’s a busy man and hardworking. Go and date a broke man if you need maximum attention!!!

Chaii!


Small sense de am

Dgreatestt:
Is it safe to encrypt your phone while you are still using it? I heard sometimes ago, that it makes the phone difficult to use when it's stollen, how true is that?

With this post, I think it's true.

Like my Gionee is always encrypted by default.

Kingosytex:
Just because of some useless and worthless instagram likes.

What on earth is she gonna tell her creator?

Some folks on Nairaland can do same, judging by the way some struggle for the first to comment stuff as if their lives revolve around that.

Ndi ara na ata guava!!!!

Maybe she was not created

Premium

None of the above.

So the whole Africa can't produce a wonderful player for this award.
It's poor how our football is going down.
Both are below average abeg!

This Year, we go see and meet them all.
E no get as e wan be!


In-laws or out-laws!
✌✌✌

simonlee:
simple trick....

use a strange number to forward a text to your phone that reads "i will give you N20million and an oil company job if you divorce your wife and marry me"...
then see if she wouldn't go back to factory settings!

Oboy... See yans!

Wisdom will not kill u

Compound snake

At 9:31am you made this post www.nairaland.com/5299165/

10:47am now this...
Oga, you knew from beginning.

Just pray the baby comes out AS.

Babe come let's build the future together.

It's that simple.

If you are a proud f**k boy, gather here let's teach them how it's done!

IneedOT:
Going to pass night at her ex house with the excuse that he is doing math Tutorial for her, she will be swearing with the name of God that they aren't having sex , I believed her cus I was in love and I don't want to loose her, she later told me she is no more communicating with that guy and swearing in the name of Jesus, only for me to spy her WhatsApp and see that she went to pass night with him like 4 days back. That was when I realized she as been calling the name of God and Jesus in vain, I later dumped her and marry my ex , me too told her there is nothing going on between me and my ex till i post my wedding pictures on FB while me and her were still seeing, uncle math teacher is 40 , not married and using my so called ex to pass time.

There was a student I date sometimes back, really in love with her and used to give her money and foodstuff cus she is an orphan and I understand how tough life might be for her, well, I was given her what I can afford to loose, only for me to check her phone sms and read her bank alert , she has been sending money to a particular guy, the name of that guy tally with the name of a guy she used to communicate with in her call log, I asked her about it, she told me they are just friends, really? A female student sending money to a male friend she isn't in love with, he is not given you but you're the one given him, that was how I withdrew the help I was given to her financially, when I broke up with her that her friend came to beg on her behalf, she confessed to me that my girl is dating that guy but they have discussed it for her leave that guy and focus on me.


the wise guys reading this, should we tell him the truth that will break his heart?

Hehe.. Let the heart scatter so that sense will build up

DaddyMorenike:
I was raped by some boys, that's how I lost my virginity.

Na this one the tire me pass

Una sure say we go marry so??

lilmax:



How can a MAN possess this high degree of low self esteem?

He even apologized

*If you're asked what she brings to the table I know you will say sex*


The good thing here is, you will realize how stupid you were in months to come

My guy... Wisdom will not kill u.

Geminita1:
They have a point but personally i can't wait to drop my surname and adopt my partner's.

Every time i tell people my surname, they just laugh at me.

Abeg tell us...
We promise not to laugh �

Shibaraba:
Sat with him once. On a train. We had the nicest of chats.
We spoke about buhari, Evans and even the cost of rice. He told me he wishes to come to Nigeria that he learnt that our ladies obows are one of a kind. I even opened a nairaland account for him. Nice guy.

Let's begin our day with lies. Nigeria itself na lie

Hehe... Nairalanders never disappoints

Oga... This sun today for Calabar too hot Abeg!

We are indeed lucky to watch these two stars!

Yam and stew jare

donbachi:
World best sign post...optional.

I swear

governor Ayade comes to mind

No be small tin yesterday morning o.

melinga:
Dat innoson Dia shouldn't be Dia. Just d logo alone is superb

I agree

LOMBARDY:
When I remember things like this I get provoked because I didn't do them

I was the brilliant and overly religious child every parents wanted their child to be

Now ask me how far

Hehe.... Gbese rio oo

Rach111:
I dated my ex for 6yrs. Who was never proud of me, can't even post my pics on any social media, even the day I did he got angry and removed it.

Have never cheated on him because I hate double dating. Am a virgin and he was a virgin then. we promise to wait till marriage which made me to love him more. I always cook, clean do everything as if I was his wife.

But this guy never showed any signs that he will want to marry me. If I bring it up he keeps quiet over it.

After graduation we came back to Nigeria my grandmother who was like my mother because she was the one who took care of me, was sick I was in the hospital with her for 1 month he never showed up despite the fact that his house was close by. I saw so many signs that I was only wasting my time because he hardly calls even before then we had issues about a girl in his room which he denied everything yet I let it go because of love.

So through my savings from university I went to Dubai got a good job decided to forget about him for good and started dating a Canadian guy who was really nice to me and was willing to wait but my problem with him was that he always calls me sexy and shapy, big botty girl which made me feel like he was after my body because he was always telling me he can't wait to have me on his bed because he feels am too sexy.

Yes, I have great body no doubt, I became confused of the situation and decided to break up that was when my ex started begging for forgiveness that now his working in the bank and his planning to settle down by 2020.

My grandmother died I went to Nigeria and we met I realized he has slept with different girls and was even hiding his phone from me. Acting strange so I came back to Dubai continued my work and the white guy was trying to come back that he won't say things like that because he knows am different but the truth of the matter is that I don't even have any single love for the white guy. I still love my ex but my ex keeps talking to me like am a trash, I got angry and blocked him but he sent me massage on Facebook saying am childish and called me names this is someone who can never say things like that to me before but now he talks to me anyhow without respect because he feels am desperate for marriage because I always want to get married early, am in my early 20's.

Due to the situation all the guys both white and blacks asking me out for serious relationship have said no to all because I feel I can't love anyone again in my life because of my ex I don't know if am in my right senses have tried possible ways to forget him, I deleted all his pictures on my Facebook, always watching movies yet nothing seems to work.

Now am thinking of traveling to any European country look for a good white man so I can forget about him because I know I deserve better than him. I need advice if dating another guy mostly white can make me forget him or it might make things worst since am doing it because am trying to forget him.

And I'm here girl friendless.

Your story is as good as mine.
Let's hook up asap.

On soft