heartofcity12:
Oh really.. Some men are still ready to save these hoes despite all the awareness out there today, this shouldn’t even be a question if you ask me but I understand that it’s fair to allow ppl ask questions about what isn’t clear to them or what they have no knowledge about. I hope he gets the advice he needs and put it to good use.

armyofone:


Like seriously eh - sex - human beings are just craxy about it.

The rich man and sex -
The poor man and sex -
The in between man and sex -

JESHAL:
Do well to always remember this
Men lower and compromise on their standards even if it doesn't benefit them due to sexual scarcity and one-titis especially if they have feelings for the lady or are moved by her beauty, women are wiser than that and would never be that foolish even if they like a guy they priotize their security long term above all else especially in a poverty ridden society, Most poor girls end up as single moms for criminals and are forced into prostitution to survive or better still they have bad boy phase in their prime years with big boys, players, married men, rich men, yahoo boys and when almost 30+ or it already they become more serious with their lives priotizing beta bucks with stable good men especially the traditionally conservative Christian brothers who serve as their long term retirement plans



Let your heart be cold as ice
Don't fall for the scam of love, most women are hoes, not just that they are heavily materialistic, mannerless, infact as a redpill aware man your only issue should be how to control your libido, you should have left hopes for hopeless Romanticism for these leeches that aren't worth it and try as much as possible to control your Innate protective instincts for women so that you won't be preyed upon by them


A word they say is enough for the wise

alabo1:


Of course but it is not a must to be married. He can have relationships. Marriage can be hell. Trust me I am in the process of finalising mine and nothing will make me enter that path again

Pukkalolo:



I'm responding to the tweet you posted that says,
"Worse thing to do with a girl?
Tell her how much you like her.
Women dig men whose feelings are unclear."

Lolz...In my opinion, I don't totally agree with that statement.

Here's why:

Ok...Yes, sometimes women dig men whose feelings are unclear, but sadly, Men sometimes also dig women whose feelings are unclear.

And that is the beginning of the problem .


Firstly, as a guy when you're not being clear about feelings and interest in a lady, you're playing games. Girls are expert at manipulation and mind games. The female gender are professionals when it comes to making their feelings unclear. You can't win women in that game because right from their little age, they've been trained to hide their feelings and always pretend.


The best way to win the game with women is to actually leave the game.

Infact, from my experience, women love operating in ambiguity, vagueness and unclearness. That's their main source of power when it comes to manipulating and exploting men.

Girls love it when you to make your feelings unclear, not because it makes make you more attractive but because it makes it easy for her to manipulate you.

After reading that tweet post you posted, I asked a lady who was with me...I asked her whether she prefer a guy who makes his feelings clear or the guy who's unclear about feelings. She said she prefers a guy who makes his feelings unclear. Wow!

I asked her "why"

She said, "when the guy makes his feeling clear, it will spoil the vibe."

I asked her, "What vibe?"

She said, " once a guy makes his feelings and interest clear, I might be forced to either reject him or accept him..."

I said, "isn't that a good thing...is it not good you reject a guy that you don't like so he'll stop disturbing you?"

Her next response exposed her intentions.

She said, "if I reject him and he leaves me alone, I'll not benefits anything from him."

I was curious, I ask "what do you mean by you'll not benefits anything from him ?"

She said, "you are acting like you don't know that there are so many benefits of being just friends with a man?"

Our conversation on that topic continued for over an hour..but I'll stop here for now.

I respect this lady alot because she's actually one of the fewest sincere lady I've ever met.

Her point is, ladies benefits alot of things from being friends with a guy; things like money, employment offer, expensive date, free lunch, free tickets, free attention and so on

When this girl said "when the guy makes his feeling clear, it might spoil the vibe," what she meant is that it might spoil her opportunity to manipulate and exploit him.

This is why most times when a guy meet a lady he likes and then he makes his feeling clear, she might give him unclear and ambitious response like

"I need to take my time..."

or

"I don't want to jump into any thing yet, let's take things slow"

Or

"I'll think about it"

or worse

"let just be friends for now."


Sadly, Men fall for those lines all the time. Basically, she's not saying YES or NO. She's giving him a Maybe(unclear) response. Ladies needs to give you this unclear response so you that you can continue chasing her, so she can exploit you. And more importantly, that's why she prefer you don't make your feelings clear.



The statement "Women dig men whose feelings are unclear," is not totally correct, at least from my experience. That's because most girls who I ended up dating, I actually made my feelings clear to them. Infact the current girl I'm with, if I had not tell her I like her and made my feelings clear ASAP I would have lost her to someone else.

But again, some guys might argue against that. They'll say, "when you make your feelings clear, you've giving her power; because now she knows you like her, she'll start giving you attitude"


Note: When I say make your feelings clear, I don't mean telling her things like, "I love you... I'm in love with you... I can't stop thinking of you...." Or any other bullshit. That's not making your feelings clear; that's making your neediness and stupidity clear.


The truth is, Women DON'T dig men whose feelings are unclear, what women actually dig is, men who they can't easily manipulate and wrap around their fingers.

Making your feelings clear is not giving her power; you only give her power when you start acting like a simp.

When I'm interacting with a lady I admire, often make my feelings and interest very clear in a very confident and detached manner. If she's resisting me or playing hard to get, I'd never start being too persistent; i'd never start trying to convince her to accept me. When I see that she's not giving me the feedback I want, I'm very quick to move on. No time. I've low tolerance for ladies who don't fancy me.

It is foolishness to wast time, effort and money chasing after a woman that's giving you hard time. Anytime you're being too persistent and chasing after a girl that's giving you hard time, you are only disrespecting yourself and also disgracing yourself.




Let me give a real life example making your feelings clear in a more detached and confident way:

About last month or so, a guy who knows about me, messaged me and told me about a lady he's close to. he likes her so much, but he said he doesn't know where he stands with her. He said sometimes she act hot today, then act cold towards him tomorrow. She's pratically playing games with him. She has all the power.

This guy told me he made is feeling for her unclear and he never tell her how much he likes her, but despite that she's not still digging him. Infact he's the one digging her badly.

He ask me what to do about the situation. I told him to stop playing games and that he actually has to make his feelings clear, but in a more detached and confident way.

I told him to tell her something as simple as this:
"[insert her name], I have no interest in being your next platonic friend...if you don't have any interest in me romantically, then I'll fucking leave you alone."


When he told her that through WhatsApp, he showed me her response.

Her response was, "Wow! I don't know what to say right right"

He asked me what to say next... I told him not to reply her anymore. He left her chat that way.

About a week later, she messaged him again. Saying "Hello", But he ignored her message again. She messaged him again. He ignored her again as I advised. Remember, Most ladies can't stand being ignored. They'll feel like they've lost.
She finally called him on the phone. She ask him why he's ignoring her chat...and all... He stayed in control; no simping.

I won't go into much detail...but to cut the story short, this guy now as the power now. If you know what I mean.


In my experience, when you meet a girl, and you're intentionally trying to make your feelings unclear so she can like you more, you are only hurting your chance with her in the long run. Although, initially, it might seem like she's digging you, but somehow somehow, you'll eventually lose her.

But, the more boldy you make your feelings clear and not give a shit about her reaction, you'll be flooded with more romantic opportunities in the long run. Although, initially, it might seem like you're losing out, but somehow somehow, you'll eventually win.

This is just my experience.
Sometimes, you’d be surprised how a girl will respond with attraction and respect when you make you feelings clear in a confident and detached manner. But the biggest mental hurdle for many guys is the ability to handle that initial "negative/undesirable response" they get from girls when they make their feelings clear. As a guy, it's very important, you develop an I-don't-give-a-shit attitude towards how a woman respond to you.

Like I said, women actually dig a guy who they can't easily manipulate and wrap around their fingers --- and that's a guy who doesn't truly gives a shit

The truth is, when you develop an I-don't-give-a-shit attitude towards how a girl respond to you, you won't be scared of making your feelings clear.



Stay blessed brothers.

ubunja:

That's not how the game goes unfortunately,, If this was the case then Broke women will deal with Broke men. But broke women want rich men cause we're all looking for a partner who brings to the table what we don't have.

Women marry up financially. Men marry up morally.

A broke woman and a rich man works (Cinderella)
A morally pure woman and an evil man works (Beauty and the Beast)

Its easy for men to save a woman from her financial defects but next to impossible for men to save a woman from her CHARACTER defects. No amount of love and money can change a hoe into a housewife.
But it's easy for women to change a man's character defects. With enough love and fidelity from a woman,, even the most brutal barbarian can be domesticated. What's very hard for women to do, is save a man from his FINANCIAL defects. Its an uphill battle against a man's own ego and a woman's own utter disinterest in using her own money to uplift a man.

Exkandayee:
Play frat with ya head,e deh sweet die

heartofcity12:
Hmmn, so true

Safyqueen:


So only Muslims can say ALLAHU AKBAR? Is that what you are saying?

No Muslim is at war with anybody in Nigeria. What you are seeing happening is a western mafians design to scatter the country.

Their target is your enormouse mineral resources. They don't care about your ethno-religio-tribal issues.

If you know you know.

ubunja:
checked the bolded. On point. Many times we mention something but the thread is not ready for it. And we don't talk about it. Then boom one day the topic trends!

This actually reminds me of something....

Back in the day my widowed mother used to rent out one room to people for extra money and we got a varied assortment of individuals live in our house, one of which was a "prophet" who ended up running a healing operation right at our home. People would queue around the house to see him. He called himself a healer. I now specifically remember that most of his clients were women! And I remember he had a younger brother who was his assistant of sorts who used to take those ladies to the bush for cleansing ceremonies. And I definitely remember the young man died of Aids. The understanding was that a lot of these women were sick and came for help and dude couldn't resist asking for the goodies. He hit and got infected.

ubunja:
lol this side we say "Water will stop where it once stopped". female nature is definitely universal.

Can you repost that text on preachers you're referring to.

Skepticus:


It's a reason I don't envy half of these dude "saving" hoes every Saturday.

Make I "burst"people head here, "small". It may sound controversial to the religious folks around here but if you have an open mind, you'll get the crux of my point.

Some, who run to their religious leaders who they greatly admire to pick girls for them (in marriage) would likely be given girls that these religious leaders are tired of banging. The same girls get rewarded for spreading their legs for these religious leaders under the guise of "prophecies " "miraculous anointing" or "working for God". The man who is the admirer of this religious leader is the fool who is being played. These religious leaders would often sponsor the marriage while continuing with his banging escapades.

#InsideLife

Skepticus:


... If you are a Nigerian man in the "business of promiscuity" whether as a gigolo, pim.p. player, religious leader (some religious leaders like pastors, imams, and those in secular leadership positions like CEOs use it to great advantages in getting women attracted to them) or just an average "fuûck boy", you'll slay a lot of pûssies (single, about-to-be-married, married, pregnant, divorced etc) easily because of the ignorance of the average Nigerian guy on what women do or are capable of doing.

I remember sharing the link of a Nigerian guy who revealed his escapades with so-called "decent" married women earlier on this thread. There have been many threads on front page of Pastors, Imams, Native doctors sleeping with women of all status and background without the knowledge of their boyfriends, fiances and husbands. I have had some personal experiences in this "promiscuity" too, and like most men who have been in my shoes, they stay off marriage because they see the nonsense that modern women are made of....

Skepticus:


...Make I offend "lover boys" wey go read dis comment small. Some of the men wey go attend dat ur big lavish wedding with d love of ur life don bang ya fiancee taya and might still bang it after u are wedded (They may even be sponsoring your wedding disguised as gifts or donations from fiancee's friends or family). They are just there to see the loser "LAWMA" guy packing their trash (Not discouraging anyone from marrying though). Just making you see the reality on ground). #InsideLife

ubunja:
On this thing of women not associating their morality with their sexuality here's Instagrammer @kingdreism take on the issue:

" Women don't associate their morality with their sexuality. So a woman in her mind her being a good person has nothing to do with whether she has sex with one dude or fifty dudes. This is the key. They know that YOU associate THEIR morality with THEIR sexuality. Right! And so they play on that. "

If you're on Instagram watch the clip:
https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cd9AR1jliyt/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

blinking001:

How are you doing bro? Long time man

Dizzyyish:
https://www.nairaland.com/7166252/wahala-chaos-female-nature#up

Dizzyyish:
"A woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle" - interesting saying, no doubt originating from a woman..

A host can survive without parasite; a parasite cannot survive without host.
A man can live without woman; a woman cannot live without man.
The host might think it can live 'healthily' with parasite, but in actuality, the host would be better off without parasite.
The parasite might think it can live without host---a self destructive thought---interestingly, its very means of survival involves slowly stripping the host of its life force (its 'life' comes at the cost of host's).
A parasite cannot feed off another parasite. It may share a host but that is unlikely because that means less 'nutrients' for it.

To emphasise on this, here's an old saying about women:
"Women understand women, and they can't stand each other." To further emphasise this, here's a guest appearance from MNDY:
For you to know how terrible they are, they don't like themselves because they know and understand their own ways. Hence they want to avoid suffering problems and troubles they can cause for each other. So they hate each other and would rather make friends with men.

Very mischievous and in recent times, they have become very shameless too. They are adult-children. The Bible groups them with children so the best way to be dealing with them is to play with them and be stern with them respectively.

Martinez39s:
ME: why can't a man hit a woman when she is physically assaulting him?
BLUE PILL FOLKS AND CLOWNS: a man is stronger. The strength difference is large.
ME: based on that logic, prime Mike Tyson shouldn't hit me if I hit him?
BLUE PILL FOLKS AND CLOWNS: erm, erm... erm... error404.

asogo1:
Interesting days ahead. I'm enjoying this. Who game 4 dis 2023 movie 'The Nigerian elections'

Martinez39s:
SMH.

Miracood2:
Hahaha

All this talk about the rage stage got me reminiscing about when I was about 12yrs old.

For real I hated women at that very age and I kept telling my cousin brother that I'll never get married in this life.

Growing up and getting more knowledge on how the female nature works, my mind set is gradually changing and I think I'm going to get married but the intending bride is going to undergo a whole lot of strict scrutiny.

Afrobasic:


True, I must have mixed the redpill with Blackpill unknowingly, as my attraction to women is overshadowed by my disdain towards them.

Regex:


Long time brother.

PrinceOfLagos:
2023 is surely gonna be an interesting year

Truvelisback:
If una dey find front Page, na so una go dey compose funny story. How did both of u got to the same place to write Wae and got into the same room together? Since u claimed that u have been resisting her sex. All these lies are unnecessary just to get Front page.

posty56:
plus, there's was a boy in the background pointing that the girl is 13 while the the boy she was riding is 10, how the media tagged this a rape case is marvelling ,

Zabiboy:
Anyone following this alleged Rape case
Nigerians never disappoint, them don rush call am Rape.. Some even saying you shouldn't watch or share the video because they know if you do, you'll not see anything related to rape..
Let me not talk much, be the judge yourself

https://twitter.com/uchedark/status/1515998656243159043?t=HRRq8408IX-L44EG5fMoiA&s=19

It might be taken down soon tho

Astoria:
If the government refused to develop the region
And continue, the marginalization and injustice
The youth that's what coming after us
And it will be more brutal, than what we have done
Calling me a monster, calling us fake
No way, no way, no way

Calling me a monster, just 'cause we said
We're from the block where it rains
Where we create barricades
Keep opposition away
That's why we are strapped with the K's
Don't get kidnapped from your place
'Cause it could happen today
Not knowing how to behave
That is a sign that you make
Just lose your life what a waste
Your body found in a lake
You bleeped around
And the fisherman found you drowning for days
You know we come from a place
Where people smile but it's fake
How could they smile?
If you look around they are surrounded by pain
I've seen the sky turn to grey
It took the light from the day
It's like the heads of the state
Ain't comprehending the hate
That the oppressed generate
When they've been working like slaves
To get some minimum wage
You turn around and you blame
Them for their anger and rage
Put them in shackles and chains
Because of what they became
We are the monsters you made
Calling me a monster, calling us fake
You make the Minotaur, the dinosaur wake

Calling me a monster, just 'cause we said
No way, no way, no way
Calling me a monster, make no mistake
That there's only so much that you can take
La-di-da, doo-di-da-di-doo-day
We are the monsters you made
I bet they thought it was cool
Probably thought we was fools
When we would break all the rules
And skip them classes in school
Because the teacher dem teaching
What the white man dem teaching
dem European teachings in my African school
So Bleep dem classes in school
Bleep Mungo Park and the fools
That said they found river Niger
They've been lying to you
Ain't no denying the truth
See what I'm tryin' to do
Is draw the line for the mothers cryin'
we're dying as youths
Come walk a mile in my shoes
See if you smile at the truth
See if you digest your food
That's when you might have a clue
Of what the Bleep we go through
Your fucking lucky if you
Live through the day, better pray
that God always staying with you
Ain't fucking safe any day
the reaper'll be coming for you
We need a change and it ain't no way
I'ma take an excuse
My niggas finding a way
Or fucking smile in the grave
This is the price that you pay
We are the monsters you made

Calling me a monster, calling us fake
You make the Minotaur, the dinosaur wake
Calling me a monster, just 'cause we said
No way, no way, no way
Calling me a monster, make no mistake
That there's only so much that you can take
La-di-da, doo-di-da-di-doo-day
We are the monsters you made
Since we met your people five hundred years ago
Look at us, we have given everything
You are still taking
In exchange for that, we have got nothing, nothing
And you know it
But you just think that this is over now?
Over where? Is it over?

ubunja:
It better not be true....