emmanuelpopson:
first mistake is allowing people presurring u into wedding her when u dnt have the means.. as a mathematics teacher, u can tutor online or do home lessons for students. if it was to be lagos, this is a hot cake job kos you will be making less than100k for been a part time teacher or home tutors in maths..
u shd dust youself off any insults your wife had said.. go out there and make yourself valuable...thanks

4ward4:
Never you let a woman do the thinking for you. They are fast in betraying...Surprise you don't know that ,which all men do.

adetunjigozie1:
Pls help me drop ur emails so i can reach you sirPls help me drop ur emails so i can reach you sir...

Blitzking:

Reading this makes me sad to my bones..no be me oo but e pain me.An engineer oo..I advise you go and do some a4 printouts and buy a new sim card..do a small advert..and place them at strategic positions saying you do private lesson for students" you want to ace you exams..I teach mathematics...further mathematics...physics...contact me..post them close to high brow schools and at the entrance of high brow areas.. ur luck fit shine and don't forget to pray. In the mean time learn some high end tech skills since you are an engineer it wouldn't be difficult. I wish u the best.

indoorlove:

Drop your contact.

Pupanchy:
Are you on telegram or Whatsapp?

Tohsynetita1:


it's so disheartening, what I can do for you is to teach you some farming and export for free, if I mean farming, I don't mean your regular planting of maize, cassava etc. But any of the following:
sunflower farming, castor farming, mushroom farming, jathropha farming, BSF Bio soldier flies. it's very economical to start. You need few funds.

indoorlove:
Which part of Abuja are you. I would like to know because if you reside in the town, (Gwarinpa, Kubwa, Dawaki ) I can get you a home lesson that will sustain you for the main time.

telkevog:
That's some women for you.

"For Better For Stay, For Worst For Go", that's what girls of this generation see marriage to be.
Bro, you have potentials. If she wants to leave, just don't worry her. Just keep fighting, you'll definitely breakthrough one day. Then it will be your turn to turn her down if she eventually wants to return.
Infact, she never loved you in the first place. Your only getting to find out now because only the test of fire makes a fine steel. You should have seen it coming, but maybe you were blinded by love.

Felimax:
You were not a man before you got married and even after that you yet to still be a man.

I would have given you one or two suggestions but thinking that your marriage is the reason for your present predicament I will not.

Nor be everybody wey talk for here you must listen to. Forget all those unfortunate spiritualist and wannabe pastors.

Seek the face of God in your marriage, endeavor to do His will and all your doors will be open.

Just go in your quietness and ask Him afterwards listen and then follow His instructions.

Let your hope rest on God!

Curious345:
Can you drive

woginid967:
Hmmm, do you have any computer tech skills, so i can help you with a remote job?

Holiyo:
There's time for everything. 3 months is too small for job searching and no luck. I'd ask you to try doing a business. You can as well work with your wife in her shop and the both of you put your heads together as to how you'd expand your shop. It's easier to take a business loan with a collateral especially if the business is registered. Teaching might be the easiest way to get a job in Nigeria but not the only way. Go to indeed and LinkedIn sites, create outstanding profiles then apply for jobs around Abuja with those profiles, you'll be surprised as to how the turn out will be. Don't give up on your marriage. There's still hope and three months is just too too early for you to start giving up. What about people who used years to hunt for jobs and still made it?

My final verdict: you and your wife should put your heads together and do one business, you don't know how it will turn out tomorrow. You can create two departments in your wife's shop, while she's selling provisions, you could be selling baked foods, cat fishes, etc. (don't be shy), by the time you start counting good money you won't regret it.

henrimoto:
..Oluwa a se IYANU. - God will surprise you ! Be strong. Don't give up. Continue in your search and continue to believe God.

Resetinc:


Join your wife in her shop and be assisting her … forget the ‘I’m a graduate mentality’ … if you can drive look for who’s hiring keke drivers for hire-purchase …. It’s not easy anywhere

Lastly and more importantly…
next election, Vote wisely 😂😂😂

1TrippleCee:
Oga, make flyers home teacher, go to event centers, malls, churches, put the flyer in car windows


find 10,000 Naira, print like 2,000 - 4,000 copies. Distribute and see the wonders that will happen

Thank you



Why are Nigerians scarcely creative

Resetinc:
I believe you have no kids yet since the marriage is 3months old …?
So, when you said “tired of everything” what and what is ‘everything’ — rent, upkeeps & feeding for 2 people for 3months and everyone is tired of everything?😂😂😂😂😂

Mindlog:
My wife is already "threatening the marriage" asking me to bring money which she knows that I don't have. She told me that she regrets this marriage and just saying all sort of things......Be bold enough to have a one to one talk with her, giving her the option to leave the marriage if she wants to, don't let her trigger your collapse.

I still can't wrap my mind around the fact that you teach mathematics and still not earning from it because your job as a teacher!

Like earlier suggested, be creative. Market your skills to parents especially those whose children will be sitting for next year's SSCE and NECO, kids living in Estates will be more ideal as you can get 4-5 parents in an Estate get their kids enrolled in your Maths tutorials that would be held in the home of one of the parents, selling them the angle of security as their children won't have to leave their Estate for the classes.

Candidlady:


Her mum telling you not to travel knows what she is saying

Court wedding in abuja should be around 55 thou to 70 thou


Not sure

Thanks for your input. I never knew it will be high like this. I was thinking 40k

Bladesociety:
What's your discipline? If you are good in physics, chemistry and mathematics, I can get you private lessons that can get you up to 150k to 200k monthly

gaby:
This is so very dicey and intricately difficult to advise on.

If not for the deductions you are battling to retrieve from your current employers, I'd have advised you to proceed to take up the new offer after confirming the security of the job and an agreement reached on your actual pay.

Do not be scared to move to a new location for a fresh and new challenge. With consistency and dedication, you'd gradually move into your destiny.

Dem no dey stay one place dey look sun...

Wishing you the best decision and outcome brother.