chop alone mentality.
most successful business owners make the business highly dependent on their influence, their name , ideas and skills. where they could get into a partnership they ignore. instead of them to create a system and favorable environmental conditions to grow the business. that's when they only invest in themselves, upgrade business equipment's, some may even expand the business facilities. but you see the human resources. lol.
they don't care much, they would get many certifications, attend many conferences, but are comfortable if their staff remain the same after 2 years. Once they die, the show ends.
the average workers without proper training and important business experience cant get results.

smart people grow a business and sell it off , but many black people don't understand this. they remain in business for so long that the business only thrives based on relationships , so when such business owner dies, the business immediately goes.

The final reason is spiritual. all business have a spiritual foundation, could be God almighty or demons. some use the money to donate to church, others use that money to cause and promote sin.
the money is now being backed by a altar.
A business backed by evil altars, when the person dies, if the new person in charge doesn't continue what the other person was doing, the business would lose the spiritual backing and it would become irrelevant.
The lesson here, is not to make the business about you.

What a horrible perspective to look at it.
Women are as terrible as men.

It's the responsibility of the man to culture his woman.
Jesus clearly asked the wives to submit to the husbands

Isn't it obvious!!!!

Women have very funny tendencies , but they're still redeemable.
If any woman in your life is destroying it,
You're a SIMP and can't handle her.
One thing that keeps me in check with women is the fact that I know a man has more at stake.
More responsibilities are upon the man so the price of failure is too great that it can destroy the man.
A woman who fails but gives birth to a child is a successful woman.

You're not sick.
You've just Matured.

Really life is not exciting till you make yours exciting.
Social media is terrible, relationships are over hyped and all.
The fun starts with you.
Make out of your life whatever you desire

Books are cool, talent is cool, working out is cool. but living life with a purpose is the coolest stuff ever.

Girls , parties, gist and all are mere distractions.

Focus on your purpose and you'd realize there's so much meaning to your life.

Kobojunkie:
1. Where do you people get these ideas of yours from? Prayer is simply a command from God to communicate our desires and wants, which we are called on to obeying. It is designed by Him as a way of revealing the collection of our asks, seeks and knocks.

2. Yet billions pray every single day yet are not transformed, how come?

3. Even thieves and babalawos pray daily. Are you suggesting their spirit grows with each prayer they make and their prayers are all sincerely made? Cut the bull!

4. Do you realize that there are so many people whose prayers have rendered them an ball of anxiety... weaker and more paranoid after many years of praying without receiving? Stop ascribing nonsense to these things abegs. None of what you claim of prayer is as taught by Jesus Christ, the one who commanded it so why do you cling to these lies using His name?

Omo it is well.
I no get strength to convince you or to argue.
Enjoy your day sha

Kobojunkie:
1. My prayers are simple. I pray the prayer Jesus Christ recommended to all of His followers - the Lord's prayer - whenever I want to pray and that's pretty much it for me.

2. Why do I need to pray for 3-hours non-stop if God already knows everything and only commands that I do as He commands, and pray as He asks that I should? Is prayer a sort of competition that I need to attempt a 3-hour nonstop marathon?

Hmmmmm
Prayer is a process of transformation.

It's also a form of sacrifice .
It's also a system of obtaining requests and making legislation.

We pray for many reasons .
The primary objectives of prayer in the life of a believer is for transformation.
You can't be praying everyday and your life would be the same .

The more you pray the more you'd be like.

As you prayer, your spirit grows and mature, you become a more advanced version of yourself..

And please let's not confuse prayer with random blabbing or lamentations..

Prayer is a sincere communication with God.

I don't want to talk Alot , but the point is that we pray continually to improve our self and life..
Its not only to ask , its not only to wage warfare, its not only to offer the sacrifice of humility to God.

Rather we pray to let go of a weaker version of our self to step into a stronger one.

Are you sure you're delivered !

Pls the process isn't over. Keep praying and studying word.

May God use to help other confused non initiates.

Everyone needs to get Telegram o.
WhatsApp keeps reminding us why they're unreliable..
Only God knows how long this would go on

I wonder how long it's going to last

Same here. It's not working.
Just bought data on my other sim.

Thinking it was network

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This sounds absurd.
What job were you offered, that demands you going to your employer house to resume as maid/house girl.
Is cooking part of your Job description ?

Pls don't be the one to bring misfortune on yourself, if you're not comfortable with it , just quit and forget any benefits that may come with the work.

If you want to catch a rat, you'd set cheese or fish in a place, same way you want to lure a victim, you'd set attractive things.

Don't let your desperation to keep this job expose you to traumatizing events.
It's not worth the risks.
(Skull miners are real) (rapists are still out there ) unimaginable evil is still very likely.

You're the one going to a married man house to cook and clean ,
Very soon you'd start sleeping over.
Then boom, the matter go cast for front page.

Just dead the idea of how to keep the job but not please your boss, it doesn't work like that.

All the best

You have already formed an opinion that validates your feelings towards red pillers.

Fortunately for us, no lenth of texts can change your mind, so I won't waste my time talking about what the redpill is about.

If someone says , he's not a believer in God.
Does it mean , he's bitter or angry at christians, or does it make him evil

It could simply be he doesn't believe in God.
Simple.
And because someone says he believes in God, does that mean he would live a Godly life ?
Clearly no.

Many people online can hide under the umbrella of the redpill and express bitterness and frustrations.
Same way christians go to.church on Sunday and come back here to share their sex escapades,so yes, you can judge the people that claim to be redpillers here based on your perception of their financial status, but still it has nothing to do with the redpill itself.

It's a mindset, it builds an attitude.
Wether rich or poor, once you've swallowed the redpill your eyes would open and you'd realize, the blind truth.


Not many people got exposed to the redpill at an early age, like wisdom it accumulates with years of bitter experience..

Some simps here today, may no longer be simps In the future.

As I broke reach, I won't ever regret swallowing the redpill,
It's life changing

I don't have o. Girls are not loyal. If I hit that money, na to relocate go america , go dey find my soulmate for there.

You people Sha.
Instead you should give the OP credit for his self discipline and determination.
You are saying, it's the girl that rejected him.
So many SIMPS are currently in that situation..

Mr OP well done, I'm proud of you

Change your mindset, change your life.
You can't keep doing what you have been doing all these years and expect a different outcome.

Gratitude is the secret to happiness.
There's always something to be thankful for.

Your association is also very important, you hang out with losers, you'd become one.
Check your life and see if the people you spend time with are living a life you admire.

Eventually when you become serious with life, you'd get angry about a lot of things.
Use that anger to make changes.


Start small, you might just decide to start waking up at a different time , might decide to stop drinking.
Just start somewhere, Start changing what you don't like about yourself

For the ignorant ones on this thread.
NIN, BVN and SIM Registration all hold the same information.
In nin you fill your personal information , next of kin and you capture your finger print and face .
You provide the same information when registering a new sim and when register for bvn.
Now the reason for this redundancy is that
Sim registration is more influenced by the Telecos,. The network providers are managing this database.
While Bvn Is managed by the CBN
And nin is mangaged by the Government.
Before now, NIN has been in existence, NIN didn't exist because of sim card.

But all of a sudden the government mandates every citizen to link their nin with their phone numbers.

The government just wants to monitor all active network lines in the country independently.
Without relying on information from the telecos .
The government wants to act on their own, without any other party knowing what's up.
The intention for linking NIN is not in the Interest of the public safety.
Don't expect because you linked your NIN to your line, Nigeria would become a safer place, and because I haven't linked mine doesn't mean I'm a criminal.

We are all entitled to our opinions, but for the sake of the ignorant ones, let's always say the truth..
So others can learn.

CoolAmbience:



Oga, you mustn't show ignorance in everything. Wetin pass you, pass you.

So, the victim's phone wey the kidnapper wan use no go dey linked? That is the idea.

So long the phone line is linked to a NIN. Tracking efficiency, and by extension, is enhanced.

As for you using your friends linked phone line, that one na una palava. Your friend never know wetin e dey do, except of course, you no dey do crime.

Oga na you where no get sense,
What information did you provide when filling your nin ? .

So if a kidnapper takes a victim nin linked sim to contact someone, what information do you think the line would reveal


Do you think the information on your bvn and nin are any different ??

Pls don't be talking nonsense.

Nin can only help identify the owner of the line , nothing more than identification .

So thinking nin would stop crime is very foolish , it's more for monitoring

Walkee:
I applied for NIN since November last year, nothing. They said their website is dead. What was I supposed to link?

me since last year October, the regular excuse is network is down.
I still went there February, still the same excuse.

Right now I'm willing to use someone else's own. Since I can't still get mine.
For those thinking NIN is to stop bandits, stop being foolish,
Kidnappers would still use the victims phone to make the calls .
What happened to bvn , sim registration etc.

But even if we talk from now till tomorrow solution won't still come out.
So let's watch and see

Been trying to subscribe in the morning ,kept getting error message.
Checked, I can still call, I don't know if others can call me tho.
I still haven't gotten my NIN since when I did it last year.
My only issue is I don't have a mifi to compensate now.
Let's see if they would unblock the sim, because as at of now I can't even access any of my sim codes.
Meaning it's impossible to link any nin now.
I'm willing to use another person's own sef, since I haven't gotten.
But for everyone celebrating this development, continue.
Everybody go still collect.

I served in akwa ibom and I wasn't impressed by their food.
Not Once !
Maybe because am not a swallow person.
Have eaten better soups in Lagos than I ate in uyo.

Even when I was in camp, Mami market nsit atai
The food was disastrous.
They used cray fish to cook fried rice !!

Even at the choice mall, the food wasn't super.
When I was at uyo, me and my friend would buy soup from one ibo woman at ccc junction.
Her soups are delicious, but she's actually an ibo woman selling in akwa ibom.

I'm not hating akwa ibom, infact I have a soft spot for that place but when it comes to cooking I think it's something that's personal.
You won't find every meal delicious, we all have our preferences in food and personally I still don't get the hype for akwa ibom foods.

Their rice is even the worst , let's not talk about that.

Op what's your business !!!

Focus on your life and improve it.
Who told you your girlfriend friend doesn't love the guy already.
Do you even know how long they've bleeped.

Stop trying to act like your girlfriend's savior.
You're already seeing it like you saved her from him.

I don't know If you're envious or insecure about that guy

Pls don't be a simp.
Hoes don't need saving and even if they did, you don't have an S tatted on your chest
Abeg rest

I don't doubt you.
Have experienced the same !.
Me I thought I was the bad boy and she was the good girl but my OT changed after that day.

Everyday on her status, she says thank you sweet holy spirit.
Something like that.
Everyday she must post scripture, I only met up with her because I was in her area for work and me was trying to leave my wayward ways.
I was sincerely interested in knowing Christ. So that time of my life, anybody that post things about God I would quickly rush and befriend them.
I wanted to learn from them.

Naso me and this babe met, I made sure the talk wasn't sexual.
I asked her mostly about things of God and how those the holy spirit voice sounds since every morning she used to tell him thank you.

But even when i told her I wanted to go , she asked me where I was staying.
I told her my hotel was close by, (I was working on a gig and that day my off ).

She said she'd follow me as she wants the Ajah traffic to die down.

To cut the long story short, I was seduced, and we started.

But I stopped half way and sent her away because I was doing the opposite of what I wanted. I gave her the excuse that my online class is was about to start and if she stays around I won't be comfortable learning.

That was the last day I saw her , till now I'm still avoiding her.

There's another one on my list , me and her have been friends so we usually open upto each other.
My kind of person Is non judgemental so people naturally just want to tell me stuffs.
So we were talking about one thing in the bible ( she's a churchy, always posting about God )
Then she told me how she's a flirt, like the urges are too high in her. How she feels attracted to both guys and girls.

I wasn't shocked, because me as a struggling Christian, I'm aware of the type of urges I battle with.


I'm writing all this to proove that what OP said is very true and correct.

There's a part in new testament that said, something like as Christians , the temptations and cravings of the flesh would be really high.
But the spirit of God would help us.

The day I read it , was the day I stopped judging struggling Christians.

Jesus fasted 40 days and 40 nights and has he finished, the devil immediately went to tempt it.
If after fasting and praying for 40days the devil can tempt Jesus how much me and you.

Nobody is above temptation!!
That christian brother or sister that you think Is the worse, is facing greater temptations than you can imagine and unfortunately not everyone would overcome theirs.


So, wetin op talk na true, if you're a Christian, train yourself more because even prayer won't stop temptations from coming..

There's nothing attractive about Nigerian military women.

I don't even like the men that are in military talkless of woman.
The moment I notice you're in the force, I just withdraw before I develop hatred for you.

They all look like the problem of the country, even if I try to tell myself they're different, I remember End SARS and I sigh.
I sincerely want to have nothing to do with those people.

Congratulations chap.
Please don't abuse or misuse this privilege.
All the best in your exams.

And for your helper, may God continue to bless and protect you.

Oyinmiebiagric:


You too like story you no want am to finish before?

OY abeg if you don't mind, tell us about how you choose your wife.
From your story, you have dated different types, seen them all, so how were you able to decide that a particular lady should be your wife

Oh my goodness.
This is such a horrible story .
Chai this update pain me dieeeeeee
on
Omo, cultism has destroyed the lives of many young promising men.

Festus die, Justin die, ifeoma die,
Almost everyone op got close to ended up dying.
It's very heavy to live with such memory.
May God have mercy.

I feel OP life isn't safe at all.
But am not God, can't say.
This story has proven that cultism destroys.
Juju can't save you.
You can't put your trust in juju.

Trust in the lord and consult him in all that concerns your life.
Only Jesus can give you rest

Oy was so different from the rest.
He had this grace that others could feel.
Something about an aura.

Well done Oy.

I'm grateful you're shedding light on some of the darkest parts of young people life's..
The sex, killing and smoking.
Many young people are still battling with these demons now.

eleko1:
Fake one.Dem don capsure slawormir

Chai
What a shame.
Have missed that guy comments.
Thanks

penocrat1:
Dammnnn nigggaaar

Are you slawormir ?

Op calm down, you're not the first to lose money .

My major concern here is your mindset, see the title of this post.
You have condemned and judged yourself already.
You have even prophesied evil into your life, all because of mistakes.


Stop speaking evil of yourself, your words and thoughts are powerful, they would eventually always come true.

This why people say don't give up, if you believe you'd make it, eventually you would its not grace, or jazz..
It's just the law of attraction.


Now to your gambling issue.
All this losses are definitely lessons.
Now if you fail to change your ways about this, you would continue to suffer the same fate.
In prafticaly words.
I'm saying, if you want a different outcome, you have to do something different.

Either you quit online betting and start trekking to the shop whenever you want to bet.

Or you can start Staking very low, let's say ,100 naira to 500naira

Or better still join a group where they drop 2 sure odd and nothing more.

So you stake only on one or two games

Or you can give someone the money to bet on your behalf, to bring you returns weekly.
Just like you're investing in a business.


The trick here is that , you can't be doing the same thing and be expecting a different result all the time.

Now if you think you have an addiction issue, you would have to change your mindset on many things.

But I hope you've learnt something.

And please, don't speak evil of yourself,
Kindly change the way you see this problem , and also change the title.
It's not good