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Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by Smile87(f): 7:16pm On May 22, 2020
Everyone is jst saying pm pls wat does it mean o
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Married And Bored Just Like Me? Let's Be Friends... by Smile87(f): 8:14pm On May 19, 2020
merit1988:
Hi pple, will you like to make new friends with like minds here... there's a what'sapp group for that purpose...we play games, share jokes, gist, tease each other, discuss marital issues, business/careers talks and just hv fun generally...

Please you must be mature and married to be added to the group... that way, you have confidence that you meeting with someone who's in the same situation as you and understands what you are going through.

You might have to prove that you're married before added.


PM if ur Interested.... dropping ur phone number here wouldn't be necessary... I'll be waiting dearies.....
wat if we are not on WhatsApp,so we can't join
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: What Is Your Date Of Birth? See If U Have A Match by Smile87(f): 8:11pm On May 19, 2020
May 27th
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Serious Minded Lady For A Date. by Smile87(f): 8:09pm On May 19, 2020
Are people still doing hookup

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Family / Re: Help: My Father Is Killing My Mom Gradually by Smile87(f): 3:45pm On May 05, 2020
Lekan239:
My parents got married 27years ago, since then it has been hell for my mom. It's as if my mom was forced on him or did the love just seize to exit, this I need advice on, from my brothers and sisters here on what to do next.

It all began in 1993, two years later I was born (1995), then we reside in Lagos but my dad later moved to pH in search of greener pastures. He only comes back home (Lagos) once in a while. My mom tried all her best to cater for her kids during all those period with no help or whatsoever coming from my Dad. It wasn't easy at all.

Fast forward to early 2003, my dad came visiting after two years without hearing from him and then my mom decided we are going with him to pH, he opposed but my mom Insisted. To cut the long story short, after we get to pH we found out my dad was living carelessly, womanizing, his social life is zero because he doesn't drink or smoke but he lavished all his money outside and Care less about his family.

My mom strived and engaged in little business which we managed to survive on. My dad only comes home when he is Short of money and acted low and submissive but as soon as he got some money, he changed immediately.

So 2010 I left pH to the village, was writing waec, looking for admission and so on, later going to lag to hustle around 2013 as I'm the one to foot my education expenses.

2015 I gained admission in a polytechnic, after my OND in 2017 I went back to lag to begin the hustle as I have to further my education, all this period I did not visit my family in Port Harcourt. I went back for HND in 2018 but had to withdraw because of lack of funds, I went back again in 2019 because a family member advised he will foot the bills which he later didn't do.

So because of this covid 19 I visited my parents in pH. My mom was very ill, she can't move nor stand and she has been the one taking care of the family, my father inclusive. My father has been a lazy man who depends solely on his wife for survival. He does not work, he does not stay at home with his sick wife. 6am he will enter the kitchen and eat any food he finds he won't even ask if four of his kids and my mom will eat. He will go and sit down in people's shops around the streets discussing with people's wife's. 10am he will be back home, straight to the kitchen to check if there's any food if my mom had drop money for us to prepare food, he will eat it without even talking to anybody, in fact he owns the kitchen now. He repeats same 2pm, 5pm and night meal also. I'm just so angry right now I don't even know what I am typing again.

After seeing all this behavior i advised my mother to give him some space, she gave birth to four children for him and three of us can survive on our own as we are no longer kids, but she won't obliged it's just as if maybe she is okay with suffering.

Today this morning, my dad did the most outrageous thing, he woke up and started ranting, saying does my mom think he is not going to be rich later, and he won't stay here forever. I got the message he was passing that he is going to leave my Mom if he stumbles upon some money. And I exactly told my mom this statement yesternight too.

Please you guys should advise me on what to do because at this junction, it hurts me a lot having the knowledge that my mom is with man who doesnt care or love her, even at her sick bed, he never for once visited the doctor nor the man of God taking care of my Mom.
mothers are gold I was also in ur shoes until my mum took d bold step ND left d house just for us to survive at d end wen my father found out we could stand on our own he came back begging for forgiveness so my dear u are not alone keep praying for mum speedy recovery dats wen u could act.
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Date by Smile87(f): 3:31pm On May 05, 2020
dingbang:
welcome
smiles
Jokes Etc / Re: Has Any Mad Person Tested Positive For COVID-19? by Smile87(f): 3:27pm On May 05, 2020
excel111:
We were told if an infected person touched table, door handle or even iron that the disease could be there for some hours

Up till now, no mad person has tested positive for Covid-19 and we keep washing our hands.
This life ehn!��������


Or mad person cannot contract the disease?
take precautions first
Jokes Etc / Re: Am I Right Or Wrong by Smile87(f): 3:25pm On May 05, 2020
Faladetb:
I've been chatting with a lady for 2 yrs now and now she wants to meet me in person...
Let's move back a little bit...
Sit tight cause this is gonna be a lonnnnnng story...
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THE END grin
is dat all
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Date by Smile87(f): 3:21pm On May 05, 2020
@dingbang tanx
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Date by Smile87(f): 11:34am On May 05, 2020
Wat is a blind date sef
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Ugly Blind Date: What Would U Do? by Smile87(f): 11:29am On May 05, 2020
mukina2:

grin grin grin grin

@ topic
Ugly people need love too


For me nobody is ugly we are all wonderfully made.

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