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Autos / Re: For Sale Is My 2009 Honda CRV In Excellent Condition now sold on 14/1/2022 by Sosotired: 8:43pm On Jan 13, 2022
This is clean! I wish to see something like this buy December when I will be ready to get another car. Happy sales.
Politics / Re: Dele Momodu Declares Interest To Run For President In 2023 by Sosotired: 8:25pm On Jan 13, 2022
The first 10 and more comments condemned him. These sets of eediots will vote Atiku or Tinubu. Dele is more educated, younger and has never been found abusing public office but because our foo000ls are so programed to see only the old and useless, you will all condemn him. Suffer never do una.

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Romance / My Expectations Are Too High by Sosotired: 8:13am On Dec 22, 2021
I'm approaching 40 and my goal is to be married by third quarter of 2022.

I have a big problem tho. I expect too much from the women I meet (or have met)I'm obsessed with learning and getting better generally. When I'm on my phone, I'm learning. I like getting most things right. I don't leave things to chance or to God as most people do. If I see a problem I go into fixing mode immediately. This is now affecting my quest for an ideal woman. I get asked every day why I'm not married. I ask myself same question too. I'm not pressured but I really do want to be married and have kids.
Let me say this. I don't nag or complain too much. I just notice faults easily and when I do I point them out as politely as possible. And I expect a fix! If I don't see any attempt, I get tired. I'm turned off by too many things. I'm turned off by uncleanliness, laziness, tribal bigotry, unambitious...just too many things. I'm not perfect but for some reasons it seems I'm looking for a perfect person.

I'm currently In a relationship and this morning I told myself I won't be in this relationship by 2022. Her crime? She has bad breath and I have mentioned it to her over and over again. I got her some recommended medications and gave her tips that I researched myself. The last time I was at her place, I noticed she wasn't using the medications, neither was she taking the issue as a serious issue. She is a nice girl and doesn't bother me. I have tried to ignore the issue but it's still one of those things I can't stand. I can't stop wondering how a person with bad breath can be lazy with finding a solution. I told a friend and he told me I must learn to overlook. How can I overlook this? The previous relationship was a girl whose only ambition was marriage. I sponsored her training on skill acquisition and started a business for her twice. She mismanaged the whole. When it's time to talk about the progress of the business, she would bring up marriage. She had zero accountability and a huge entitlement mentality. She had to go.

This girl is right for me. She hustles. She is homely, respectful and tolerant. I would say she is the best yet (no comparison tho). I don't know what to do concerning the breath issue. I have never had to complain so much about any thing but because I don't want to just throw what we have away, I have had to have many conversations on the matter with her and she won't take even the easiest steps like brushing before bed seriously. This is crazy. What did you have to put with in your partner? Can you put up with bad breath? I need answers pls.

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