PLS CONSULT GOD BY URSELF.
My dear ur story is indeed heartbreaking but certainly not life threatening. No doubt from ur story you have been a good woman and wife to your husband. For him to b begging you without explanation means he actually acknowledges his errors. The say to err is human to forgive is divine, but not my own reason to ask you to forgive.
I want to first correct two misconceptions that the devil is feeding u with
a) God allowed a bigger Temptation to come on you
b) Taking ur life is a option
Is a pity that are going through this at tender stage of your marriage but an opportunity to bring out the Godly wife in you. Pls read Hosea 1:2- here God asked his prophet to marry a prostitute, why to explain our nature with him yet he does not forsake us. God is the initiator of Marriage, when challenges come in your marriage u consult him. As for the act u need to learn how to appreciate d imperfect nature of ur second self. Think of it if your body offends u do u die or cut it off ?. Also I must tell you dat d foundation of a structure matters a lot. From your story ur marriage did not receive the consent of heaven instead that of the court. The way of the court is divorce and litigation, that of God is LOVE and LOVE.
All that u said u have done like cooking,keeping ur shape and sexual satisfaction are part of the ingredients of a good marriage but there is an important one. That is building ur home in God. Let me make something clear, ur husband may cheat again even after now. Two things will account for this; association with politicians in Nigeria and his distance from God.
I will advice you to sit urself and compare failure and success, also what it takes to be on both sides. Pls go to God in prayer and let the church of Christ confirm your marriage. Fight d demon that wants to break ur home, cos we wrestle not against flesh nd blood.... Eph 6:12-13. When the devil is opposing d institutions of God he makes us to be liable.
As for d life u have my dear is just privilege not urs. If u take it u will b condemning God for not taking it from you each time u commit sin. Maintain your sanity cos pple are out there that are ready to share a man just to answer married in their status. Be strong in d Lord and forget those Oyibo suicide option, u are a Nigerian. Soon my blog on this type of issue will b running so as to help people out of this kind of situation.
Wish to write more but time..

Let dis favour Neva b limited in ur life. Amen

I have read ur write up and the advice of people. My dear u started dis whole drama. Two people cannot b at fault in a particular thing. One will take action and the other reaction. I thought ur Bible said u should submit urself to ur husband. And dat ur husband is ur head. What if ur husband had refused to allow u take the exam? Why would u question where he wants his children to be? My dear stop comparing ur family with his and deal the ego problem u have. Ur family is not looked down in any way here, so stop the pity mentality so dat u stop feeling like u are been marginalized. Don't follow d advice of equality btw men and women here on nairaland.
Pls go and apologize to ur husband cos dat ur Bible said dat disobedience is worse than the sin of witchcraft. Do u get it. Look the Bible and the Example of pple like Sarah etc who obeyed even when it hurts. Follow d manual of d initiator of marriage institution. Ppl of dis our days wants us to believe dat d man and woman should share authority. What has it resulted; break up in marriages. America and Europe preaching such doctrine have failed in dia family settings. My contributions is not to excite but to tell u d real truth. Leave ur mother-in-law alone she is not ur husband. Make peace and win d heart of ur husband through ur undiluted love and unquestionable loyalty. Every other thing will fall in place. I hv read pple saying stand for ur right cos 2moro they might limit u access to ur children or ur parents. Don't ur parents hv sons day can give dem grandchildren in d house? My dear for ur husband to still be confiding in his mother shows dat u have already started failing. Thereby making ur husband to still value d old relationship wt d mum. Wake up. Wake up.. Wake up.... Nobody should b close to ur husband than u. Think of dos little tins dat mum use to do for him and fill in d gap. Imagine provoking ur love to heat. Pls read anointed books about marriage.

sinizia:
Shut the fúck up, you attention-seeking political jobber. Shameless old hag who said Obasanjo is not corrupt but yet accuses GEJ of being corrupt. Your likes are everything that's wrong with mankind. Pained because GEJ couldn't give her a job. Pained biatch!!

Yes, GEJ is corrupt. GEJ didn't perform to our expectations. Yes GEJ and his cronies like Diezani and Okonjo-iweala ran this country aground. But you are not the one to open your cesspit tank of a mouth to talk trash. You are no saint. Under OBJ's administration, what did you achieve? You wasted your time there and looted funds, you dumb Twitter bytch!! You are just seeking for attention. I lost all respect for you when said OBJ is not corrupt. You are two-faced political nuisance. Bury your face in shame.

Shame on future leaders like you that forbids people standing up against d errors of those in authority. U like someone even to the point of denying their imperfect nature as humans. The truth remains that dis administration failed God and humanity, it does not matter who or how many times d issue is expressed. If dis administration had won laureates u would not complain of who and how many times it was commended. Stop comparing evil wt evil cos every government has its own challenges and the success depends on the leaders. If dis woman with her pedigree is adjudged to be talking too much, what will be said of a faceless Nigerian like most of you here on Nairaland.