@kitlady02

urs is good. u're jst 20. wait until u get to 26 like me and tell ppl u've not dated, lol, u'll c what some will say to u, even the look is gonna scare u, like, they ask: are u human??, is something wrong with ya??, are u ok,

there is nothing wrong with not having a bf or gf as in my case, jst know what u want,

cheers

@Wus, this should help u out http://docs.joomla.org/Beginners and http://joomlaforbeginners.com/. I actually have some videos but I can't post them here. I downloaded them as torrents u can try that too.

Good luck!!!!

@Poster,

I dont know if you're a christian. If you're, I'll advice you to pray for your husband.

@Poster, you've done well by your decision and your ability to overcome temptation. My advice at this point is for you to move one and stop wasting your time trying to defend yourself for mistakes made while trying to find a solution to your problems.

I believe your main reason for posting this thread was to give you an insight as to how to go about your immediate problems which is not so immediate because I believe you've moved on and seen the light.

You've got a job to do, you should be exploring ways to make your new job better for you by creating an environment for breakthrough. You've got a previous job experience, you should think of adding values to this new company by exporting techniques and ideas from the previous company that you think might work for this new company. Don't worry, in time, your bosses will notice you.

Good luck!!!

Well, let me contribute.

Being a 23 year old virgin, I think virgins are so special. I don't think its lack of opportunity because I've seen the naked body of two women. Its all about discipline and commitment.

@everinlove, God bless u. because am a virgin, my friends usually say all sought of things to me. They stopped when they realized that I'm more intelligent when it comes to women affiars despite the fact that I've never dated before and am very good academically. So, they always come to me for help and decided to respect my decision. It got worse when they discovered that I also don't like to drink alchohol. Man, I was really the odd one out.

To all those who are not virgins, I can decide to be like u anytime, anyday, anyhour and anyminute but u CAN NEVER BE A VIRGIN LIKE ME AGIAN.

Besides being a Christian, I don't have time for jumping from one relationship to another. I believe the first woman I should date should be my wife.

To answer the question, do virgins make better partners? I'll say not really. It all depends on the upbringing of the person. I have meet two girls who are virgins. The first has a serious problem and I think thats because she's the first child and she doesnt know what it means to respect a guy. The second one, she's so lovely, a real African woman, who will make a good home, respect her husband and do anything he says provided that its good for them. She's so innocent looking that everyguy here want to have a piece of her. Can u imagine that, yet people will say that they don't like virgins.

We're six kids in my family and as at when I left the country, the remaining five were all virgins just like me, my immediate younger sister even works in one of the Nigerian banks.

Now tell me, if the man that will marry her will not respect her?

Lol,

I have three younger sisters and when there's anything on TV regarding weddings they put on their whole concentration until its over. They look forward to their wedding day so much that it sometimes irritate me. But I cant help but think that they are girls and ladies and emotional beings. Like uspry1  said, they watch to much movies and being emotional creatures who allow their emotion to guard them in their every decision making, they are bound to be moved by what they see and what they hear,

I really dont think its because of MONEY, if that is the reason, alot of girls will not get married but rather date as many men as posible to get money or become a 100 percent independent woman who is independent in all aspect of her life including emotional aspects thereby creating a standard too high for any man to cope with.

To LAKANYE~,

Well, I dont consider sex to be the basis of my relationship. I know there is more to a relationship than sex. Is it food? U're not the first person telling me that someone is probably having sex with my future wife at this moment and I dont expect u to be the last but that doesnt mean I should start dating and sleeping with everygirl I can. Let me ask u a question. Are u a christian? If u are, u'll have a hint or an Idea of what am into here. Premarital sex is a SIN and in case u dont know, sex is more than just a feeling of pleasure, its a fussion of two souls. When u start dating a girl, what makes u so sure u're going to get married to her to start fusing ur soul with hers?

To LAKANYE~,

Well, I dont consider sex to be the basis of my relationship. I know there is more to a relationship than sex. Is it food? U're not the first person telling me that someone is probably having sex with my future wife at this moment and I dont expect u to be the last but that doesnt mean I should start dating and sleeping with everygirl I can. Let me ask u a question. Are u a christian? If u are, u'll have a hint or an Idea of what am into here. Premarital sex is a SIN and in case u dont know, sex is more than just a feeling of pleasure, its a fussion of two souls. When u start dating a girl, what makes u so sure u're going to get married to her to start fusing ur soul with hers?

To uspry1,

Let me help out here. Most of the guys I have interacted with claimed to have been a victim of broken heart so, they vowed to have as many girls as they can. As for those other ones that really have no reasons, I think its either their upbringing or peer pressure. But I can still know of guys who are serious minded. I still have about two of my female friends who are praying for me to have a good girlfriend whom will value me because I happen to be one of those exceptional guys who has never girl before because I know what I want, where am going to and besides that, I don't believe in pre-marital sex and most of my Nigerian friends, the ones I usually hang out with when I was there were all just like me.

Bros,

At 25, I believe u're not a baby and you are matured. To be matured, u have to be ready to take responsibilty for ur actions and this is one of them as far as I can tell. If u're still a student in Nigeria, then start making out a game plan right now to help u raise the baby and take care of the girl. I really dont sunscribe to pre-marital sex.

So, my advice is to pray and brace urslef for whats to come and handle the situation whatever the outcome may be like a man,

GOODLUCK!!!

@ akinalabi. Man I feel you. John T. Reed just behaved like someone who's being a casualty of competition. How can u point out the wrongs in someone else's book based on the characters used? I noticed he didn't talk about his (Kiyosaki’s ) money making principles and am really surprised that he had no porblem with that at all. So, what is he making noise for?

I still know and believe that Kiyosaki’s pricinples if diligently followed in any fuctional and stable economy, I don't mean Nigeria's volitile economy because for that u have to do extra work, you'll have the riches of your dream. 

And just to say, in other to be a good author, u must be able to garner and organize knowlegde, so I think he's covered even if he's not a real estate guru. The fact that he has done his research well, makes him a great author who pays attention to details.

Emmm, My sister, its not really posible to be in love with two people at the same time. its the same thing with a man and two wives. The man cannot love them equally. Sorry to say, but I think you're not really facing reality here. My best advice is that you should go back to the drawing board and re define your standards, standards of the guy you will love to be with and possibly spend the rest of your life with. By standards, I mean Moral Standards. You could add small physical standard but mind you, you are yet to create a human being. So have fun sister.

I love the Hausa people speak, french, Italians as well as the mexicans but I don't really like the british accent.

Well, If I'm angry, I just listen to classical or jazz music, it helps to pacific me. It is also good to keep the mind blank so as to stop analysing what cursed the anger. Try it, it always works.

I've seen them all too but to me it no longer makes sense but the effects are next to nothing.

I've seen them all too but to me it no longer makes sense but the effects are next to nothing.

I agree with you Joy the fine one is our wife but the other one is my wife.

na person papa, husband, honey, sweety, honey pie, suger, horsey come on I need  more from the ladies, una dey talk of sooooooooooo!

@ babyosisi ,

Please oh, take easy on our ex presido. the man go dey sneeze any how for house thinking say people dey talk good of am.

@Esss,

I agree with you but God make woman from man rib u wan tell me say man outside fine and some of them inside worwor and point of currection 50 cent is one hell of a worwor man forget him money if that guy no get money you no go look am throw way face? talk truth.

Bros whitelexi I feel you. But b4 una use another man problem take catch grove abeg make una help am solve am. It could be life and death to him. Person fit commit succide inside this matter o. Una just dey look am like comon place thing.

In order to save yourself from cross roads like this, my advice to gents in the house who are not players and who are not married, I mean those SSS Single and Still Searching guys, Create a standard, a moral standard of the knid of person you want to SPEND your life with. In that way you can elimate all unlikely matches. Remain Focused.

Come on guys, stop saying someone is ugly. We are talking about humans here not animals. Ok how many fo you can make a perfect drawing of a human being with equal propotion in size not to talk of creating one. come on lets be fair.

Man, I would like to know if you have ever created a human being before to say that somebody is Ugly and according to one of the posters Are You Prince Shaming? Look, what you should be looking for in a lady is MORAL STANDARD not PHYSICAL STANDARD. But if the think you have the financial strenght, power and ability, then you can go for physical standard and be ready to assume the responsibilities of mentaining that STANDARD so that she will always be beautiful for you and presentable to your friends. Also take note that most ladies with this so called PHYSICAL STANDARD, will certainly put a break between you and your family.  

Hi Guyz,

if you thing you have seen it all then try "The Myth" by Jackie Chan its not a popular movie but the effects are Wow!!!

Ok. I will help u. I have done it before though I wasnt granted the visa but I will tell u the procedures of admission, visa and other things. But do U have an admission already? Andy.

Listen to cool music like classical, jazz or blues but I prefer the first two. It has been proven that we take in Oxygen and bring out carbon IV oxide which also contains Oxygen. If we learn to use up all the Oxygen we take in by taking deep breath and holding it 4 a long time, we will better be able to manage stressful situations. Andy.

Pls, I need text mates from naija and anywhere. Txt me on 08053324158. Andy