Education / Re: Bida Poly Lecturer Lecturing One Student Who Attended His Class (Photo) by spikemmy(m): 12:02pm On Jun 29, 2021 |
Back in the day, this used to be my class... Time flies |
Sports / Re: Patric Bites Giulio Donati In Serie A Match, Sent Off by spikemmy(m): 9:21am On Jul 09, 2020 |
FOR LIFE... #ForzaMilan Truetalk3139: Ac Milan for life!
we'll be back soon like Liverpool, how I wish Zlatan can go another season with us.... but Rebic on fire! 1 Like |
Gaming / Re: Sony Officially Reveals The Full Design For PlayStation 5 (Photos) by spikemmy(m): 12:14pm On Jun 12, 2020 |
GOD NO GO SHAME US |
Politics / Re: Evelyn Murray-Bruce Is Dead! Cancer Kills Ben Murray Bruce's Wife by spikemmy(m): 9:41am On Mar 20, 2020 |
May her soul rest in the bosom of the Lord |
Family / Re: Chike Eze Threatens To Kill His Wife Racheal If Court Doesn't Give Him A Divorce by spikemmy(m): 9:39am On Feb 11, 2020 |
God save us from insensitve women like you... If she wants freedom, she should not have gotten married in the first place. They both deserves to know whereabouts of eachother... Infidelity? It is the quickest place most women run to inorder to justify or find balance to their ills... you really need to grow up and stop this insensitivity you display here.. You are sounding bitter already Riele: Such a weakling of a man .
Oga controller , is she suppose to be making a daily list of places she wants to go ? . Does she need your permission ?
He's a cheat , so says the wife and he should be treated as one . 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Romance / Re: Im Thinking Of Divorce Just Few Months Into Marriage by spikemmy(m): 3:50pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
God bless you... Forced her to do traditional marriage.. forced her to date you for 5 years... forced her to do white wedding worth 3m (to her taste) Madam never loved him... Just using him to foot her bills.. Ramos16:
That's bullshit, how do you force someone into marriage |
Romance / Re: Im Thinking Of Divorce Just Few Months Into Marriage by spikemmy(m): 11:12am On Feb 03, 2020 |
But they dated for 5 years ![](/faces/huh.png) He was sponsoring her and footing her bills? You now come here and say she is not mentally ready... thats a lame excuse.. she just used that as an excuse cos some guy some where has her attention already FairAdvocate: Well bro, I will say that she is young and childish with her reaction to things... If she is not mentally ready, she shouldn't have consented to marrying you when you brought it up. On your part Mister, you have to learn how to handle a woman, you need to know what she want and what she dislike...and stop reporting her to everyone. Go after her like her boyfriend and pamper her, you will surely get your wife back. She loves you anyways! |
Romance / Re: Im Thinking Of Divorce Just Few Months Into Marriage by spikemmy(m): 10:47am On Feb 03, 2020 |
You guys dated for 5 years? and she isn't ready for marriage? why date for 5 years when you know you can't marry this person... 80% of the blame is not from you... You are bossy and all for 5 years ![](/faces/huh.png) ? and she didnt figure out that she cannot spend the rest of her life with you... She was being greedy and using you to fuel her bills since you're financially there... SHE DOESN'T LOVE YOU.. Maybe.. just maybe she has seen someone she is attracted to than you. You didnt force her into anything.. it is just an excuse to have her way.. see a marriage counsellor or possibly the pastor that joined you guys for proper mentoring.. you cannot seek for solution here hybrid77: Pls i need a sincere advice here.
Im 3 months old in marriage and im so unhappy about the set up (my wife too)
My wife is a student and she tried everything to shift the marriage until easter this year but i refused due to many projects for the year. so we got married 3 months ago.
I took care of her bills since she got admission and we dated for 5 years
But she is so disrespectful and want to make important decisions in marriage which ive refused to allow.
Now, she claims i forced her into marriage and she is not mentally ready because i asked her to change to my family's name.
She has been good then bad then worse..And i think her words about forcing her into marriage has irreparably hurt me.
I spent over 3m of my cash to give her the wedding she wanted (Without any support from her family) against my wish for a 1m wedding.
And despite getting the big wedding she wants before consenting to marry last year, she claims she is not mentally ready and was forced into marriage.
she has repeated this over and over and its making me go crazy..in fact im tired already
Right now she wants more time to be a wife..but im beginning to feel there is a love issue here..I feel she does not love me as she always claims
Though weve settled but we dont talk as usual..we dont even want to hear from each other...
it seems i nolonger love her like i used to..And worst still, continuing with the marriage when she claims she was forced is degrading and disreputable.
My question is, at what point should anyone seriously consider a divorce? |
Career / Re: I Commented 'What A Nice Picture' On My Boss' Photo And She Is Taking It Up by spikemmy(m): 8:14am On Jan 21, 2020 |
I pray I dont work under such a saddist as a boss... Just compliment and she is taking it to another level... My man just give her a dirct response, apologize... You just know a better way to relate with such a toxic being.. You did nothing wrong man... agemmy113: Pls Nairalanders, I need your advice. My boss traveled out of the country and she posted a picture on her WhatsApp status which I commented on 'what a nice pics'.
But to my surprise she is taking it up. Pls what should I do?
Edited: I wrote Good pm ma, what a nice look. She hasn't confronted me but she told her housegirl that I will have to explain what I mean to her when she comes back. |
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Celebrities / Re: Photos Anto Lecky Donating Blood in Lagos state by spikemmy(m): 2:35pm On Mar 18, 2019 |
Show me the way joor.. Ayam so interested mbok |
Sports / Re: Gonzalo Higuain Set To Complete Chelsea Transfer On Tuesday! by spikemmy(m): 12:04pm On Jan 21, 2019 |
sukerefakere: ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) Bye bye!!!! Higuain
Welcome to Milan Krzysztof Piatek Forza milan... a milanisti spotted 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: Leave Gays Alone - Alexx Ekubo by spikemmy(m): 10:26am On Jan 02, 2019 |
My heart bleeds scrolling through comments and seeing that sane people actually supports homosexualism claiming it is their sexual orientation... ARE YOU KIDDING ME?
Imagine if your parents nurtured same demonic orientation, i am sure your sorry ass wouldnt have been born... We are humans and should live as one..
What would one find attractive in an opposite sex? Do you want humanity to go into extinction all in the name of sexuality? |
Pets / Re: Kano State Dog Walk(first Time Ever) by spikemmy(m): 9:56am On Jan 02, 2019 |
See my guys... Kano is such a place to stay |
Romance / Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by spikemmy(m): 9:51am On Dec 11, 2018 |
samysmoothfresh: From your write up, here are
A) Reasons why you should not quit the relationship
1) you love her.
2) you just recovered from a messy relationship and she somehow found a way to break through the barriers you must have set round your heart which means she's prolly special or has something in common with you.
B) Reasons why you should quit the realtionship
1) she doesnt accept her faults and sometimes you have to apologise even when she's wrong..........................she's proud!!
2) she keeps late night, go to concerts at 12am with friends who according to you aren't "presentable"....................she's a slay queen and prolly a wild rebellious one too!!.
3) she puts her friends first before you notwithstanding the fact that you guys who are supposedly in a relationship havent seen in a long while...........................she's insensitive and a member of the "hoes before niggas" gang!!
4) she keeps secrets and claim to "forget to tell you"......................she's not to be trusted!!.
5) she keeps and move with friend who arent "presentable" and by presentable i assume you mean they dress indecently.......................theres a 65% chance her friends are runz girls and an 85% chance she herself is a coded runz girl!!!.
OP, i'm asking you, should you quit the relationship?
yes or no? YOU ARE A LEGEND 2 Likes 1 Share |
Celebrities / Re: Morayo Akabashorun: "My Husband Can't Bathe My Daughter" by spikemmy(m): 12:13pm On Dec 06, 2018 |
writerights: Watched this programme this morning and she already knew she was in trouble after making those remarks. I was very disappointed and angry at her. Except trust has another definition, she's never trusted her husband. It also says a lot about her husband. some persons thinks 'I trust you' ends in lip service, it is more of a statement that requires action..The woman messed up.. She labelled the husband as a potential pedophile. 1 Like |
Travel / Re: Woman Narrates How A Kind Uber Driver Saved Her And Her Boyfriend by spikemmy(m): 3:28pm On Dec 04, 2018 |
ebujany: ![undecided](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/undecided.png)
Is she hes publicity Secretary? How did she get his picture?.... Make we hear word jare VERY EASY.. SHE COLLECTED HIS NUMBER AND COULD EASILY ADD HIM ON ANY OF THE SOCIAL MEDIA PLATFORM AND GET HIS PIX.. ITS VERY POSSIBLE 2 Likes |
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Celebrities / Re: Faithia Williams' Encounter With A Man Who Wants a Relationship With Her by spikemmy(m): 9:09am On Oct 26, 2018 |
[i]Matured doings[i] |
Celebrities / Re: Toke Makinwa Poses With Her Backside In New Photo by spikemmy(m): 10:39am On Oct 25, 2018 |
Who is this Toke sef? |
Celebrities / Re: Tiwa Savage Gives Relationship Advice Amidst 'Fever' Video Controversy by spikemmy(m): 2:48pm On Oct 24, 2018 |
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Business / Re: Unilever Certified As Africa’s Top Employer by spikemmy(m): 4:12pm On Oct 19, 2018 |
Una try oh |
Culture / Re: Meet Shilekunola Moronke Naomi, Ooni Of Ife's New Wife (Pictures) by spikemmy(m): 8:52am On Oct 19, 2018 |
Ooni self dey see road oooh.. See as person pikin soft like today's bread 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by spikemmy(m): 11:46am On Oct 16, 2018 |
midehi2:
Be true to yourself and not someone's mind I get that.. His believes makes a man focused... Go-getters have this mindset |
Romance / Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by spikemmy(m): 9:47am On Oct 16, 2018 |
nho4: Sorry to say young man but obviously you are a fool....same thing goes to any young man out there undergoing emotional trauma all in the name of keeping a girlfriend.
To hell with ladies and those dating them. Why must you subject yourself to such emotional agony just because of a mere lady you are senior to with almost 6 years and you are here crying like a sissy.
I will never encourage my worse enemy to go into what you guys call girlfriend relationship that turns men into puppets.
Dating is a way of placing yourself under emotional slavery. Your Heart and mind keep bleeding at all time and before you realizes what is going on you will start battling with one health issue or the other all because of nothing.
Look at the rate at which our men are dying and the cause is directly and indirectly due to the fact that they want to please women and that is why women have taken advantage of us. Women should be the one begging us to date them and not the other way round.
I once dated a lady who thought she was doing me a favour for dating me...the moment I realised it, I simply placed her where she belonged by severing myself from her.... When she realized it, she was now the one forcing herself on me and she was trying to get me back but it was too late for her because my mind was already made up to be single and happy....that was the best decision I ever made in my life and I never regretted it till this moment.
Men have become almost nothing in the hands of women and yet vast majority of our young men are thronging in the wrong direction all in the name of love that doesn't exist.
Believe it or not" Love doesn't exist between girlfriend and boyfriend.
Real love only exists between mother and child...
I bet you the number one reason our young men, including you allow yourselves to be traumatized emotionally is simply because of sex.
You don't need to have a girlfriend before you can have sex with ladies.
Instead of killing yourself emotionally dump that girl and be free, because you were born free...don't allow anybody to put you in bondage all because of sex you can get easily.
I don't do relationships or dates and I am the happiest person all because I am free emotionally.... I sleep like a baby without having to worry if my partner is cheating on me because I have no fucking girlfriend.
Each time sexual urge comes in, I simply walk down to the nearest ASHAWO JOINT in my vicinity to ease off the urge with just N1000, and I am relaxed. I am in control of my happiness and not any fucking lady.
I am in control of females around me because they can't control me with their pussies and they have regard for me....because I don't own them a dime.
If you don't belittle yourself as a man all because of sex, women will respect you...but is unfortunate that most of our young men have reduced themselves to power zero in the hands of ladies just because of sex.
All I can tell you is that you own the key to your happiness... Bros i need you to mentor me walahi... I need this your mindset Lawwwd.. This piece is an eyeopener for guys even me 3 Likes |
Literature / Re: Chimamanda Adichie Speaks Pidgin English, Reveals What Feminism Means To Her by spikemmy(m): 12:01pm On Oct 05, 2018 |
amyzon:
Funny how you make it sound cos I was raised that way. My father May his sweet soul rest in peace raised us to work together in every thing. The only time you don't work in my house is when you are at school and not because you are a boy or girl If he is doing plumbers work , I'm doing it with him If he is doing mechanical work, I'm doing it with him If theirs work at the factory , then we are all not done for the day. It doesn't matter how hard, dirty and clean the work is
We use to complain then, but after I left my house and experience other people, I realised how lucky iam
your case is different... you are so lucky.. This is not the case for many families.. 1 in every 100.. Someone like you has been groomed to think and act independently but many others out there aint |
Sports / Re: Europa: Morata Finally Scores As Chelsea Beat Vidi, Arsenal & Milan See Wins by spikemmy(m): 10:22am On Oct 05, 2018 |
A good thing that Milan scores for fun this season.. Need to work more on conceding goals #ForzaMilan |
Crime / Re: How God Saved Me From Cultists In Benin City by spikemmy(m): 3:26pm On Oct 04, 2018 |
XaintJoel20:
I have thought about relocating, but I paid in advance for the apartment and I don't think the landlady will make a refund.
Anyway, I understand the cult groups have settled their differences.
Thanks. Please do not settle in for those 'they have settled their differences' rumour.. 1 Like |
Literature / Re: Chimamanda Adichie Speaks Pidgin English, Reveals What Feminism Means To Her by spikemmy(m): 2:43pm On Oct 04, 2018 |
pryme:
Oh and there is more, If a woman rapes a man or is convicted for sexual assault, she will be also sentenced to 15 years or more in prison (just like Bill Cosby).
If a women losses custody of a child in court, she will be sending money to the man for the upkeep of the child.
In the military women will have to meet the same height and weight requirements to join the military.
Women and men should compete against each other in sports (sports like tennis should also have women play 5 sets instead of 3).
Women should be the ones to keep the family safe and defend against armed Robbers.
Women should stop crying like babies and and start hiding the pain like men.
After all we are all Equal ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) You just spoke my MIND |
Literature / Re: Chimamanda Adichie Speaks Pidgin English, Reveals What Feminism Means To Her by spikemmy(m): 1:28pm On Oct 04, 2018 |
TalkTalkTwins:
A hater spotted ![embarassed](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/embarassed.png) You didn't even read the line that I was a guy, but anyways let me give you some relevance.
The answers to your questions: - Even as boys, we all don't have the same ability, so why should my girls do the hard jobs? I remember in secondary school, I didn't do any manual labor because I didn't look strong. We had stronger boys then, but now my school has employed staff to do the works though. - I won't even let my female kids cry, which kid deserves to? Do kids cry when happy? - I'm working, so I should be able to take care of my family. How we do that isn't your bleeping business.
I hope your questions are answered now? I am not a hater.. I dont know you, you do not know me.. why will i hate you for your opinion? - You cannot compare the mental strenght of a boy to that of a girl. Hence, 70% of guys are physically stronger... Mind you, your children will go wrong and you (someone) will scold them they will express themselves emotionally.. asking a boy to bottle up will make give him a mental advantage over the girl child. Finally, how you intend to run your family has never been my biz and wont.. N.B I am not against helping your partner. I feel we cannot be equal cos we are created to compliment eachother not competition... Good day 1 Like |
Literature / Re: Chimamanda Adichie Speaks Pidgin English, Reveals What Feminism Means To Her by spikemmy(m): 1:15pm On Oct 04, 2018 |
GENDER EQUALITY: YES EQUAL RESPONSIBILITIES: NO ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) .. Life of Nigerian Feminist 3 Likes 1 Share |
Literature / Re: Chimamanda Adichie Speaks Pidgin English, Reveals What Feminism Means To Her by spikemmy(m): 1:08pm On Oct 04, 2018 |
TalkTalkTwins: wow I love Chimaamanda! I love Chimaamanda!! I love Chimaamanda!!!
My love for her is like copied assignments, I just can't explain 'em. ![smiley](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/smiley.png) This lady is always making sense, but the typical Nairalander is blinded by culture. Attack her and she keeps going viral. Keep on hating and she keeps gracing the fp.
Have you ever asked yourself who made those culture you live to fulfill? Did they fall from the sky? Can't they be amended?
Feminism is simply, EQUALITY OF THE BOTH SEXES! I'm a guy and I support it 100%. Don't cheat me and I'd never cheat you. It's as simple as that. No one chose which sexes they were born with, so why should one be superior?
If you're quoting me, please make some sense. That's all I have to say! i hope when you are married and give birth to both boys and girls and they attain the age of 15 you will ask the girl child to wash the cars, fetch water, weed the grasses, do all the hard jobs that we feel are meant for guys... when you beat both of them for wrongs, i hope you will allow the male child cry and not shut him that he is a man and doesnt have to cry. i hope your husband gives equal amount of pocket money given to the girl child to the boy and finally, you have to share the responsibilities equally with your husband ranging from rents, bills, school fees, shopping bills etc if you are not here to monitor all these then your feminism claim is false 2 Likes |