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Celebrities / Re: Actor Olaiya Igwe Prostrates After MC Oluomo Gifts Him A Benz (Photos, Video) by spiritsam: 8:13pm On Aug 10, 2022
Here is the reason he was gifted a car

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6uNXwCDCezE&feature=emb_rel_end
Use the link to watch the video
Na still tinubu doings for 2023
Celebrities / Re: Actor Olaiya Igwe Prostrates After MC Oluomo Gifts Him A Benz (Photos, Video) by spiritsam: 8:06pm On Aug 10, 2022
Here is the reason he was gifted a car

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6uNXwCDCezE&feature=emb_rel_end
Kindly watch
Celebrities / Re: Anna Banner's Advise To Ladies On Men, Could It Be For Him? by spiritsam: 11:29am On Jun 11, 2016
floragregs:
she's right! If you cheat, it doesn't mean all men cheat. Only weak men generalise cheating to suit their very weak nature.
my bae will say the d sametin about me..,.. Cos in most cases we make u believe and see what we want you to in relationship....but we guys know d truth, when I said we guys I meant every exposed mature guys not d truly extreme spiritual ones.....,., my advice don't care to know if ur guy cheats or not as long as He stays responsible, care for u, show u love and respect u.. sound stupid rite...with all sincerity dats guys for u
Romance / Re: PARENT And DON'T MARRY Him/her Issue by spiritsam: 8:11pm On May 16, 2016
rose54321:



I guess we cannot agree as we both have different views. There's absolutely nothing wrong though in having different views, while I don't agree with you AT ALL, I respect your view as I believe humans are rational and have rationality behind their thought processes.

Having said that, I never in my previous message(s) inferred that you should let your parents lord over your life, nobody should lord over your life. What I did say is that you should endeavour to make them happy.
Yes they gave birth to you because they wanted a child, or used a detective birth control, but it's LOVE THAT MADE THEM RAISE YOU.
If you know the rate of children been flushed out, dropped at orphanages or being left to die, you would understand that raising you was Love and nothing more.

There will always be exceptions to every law, there are situations where parents might give absurd requirement of the person you will marry, requirements you might not agree with, then it's your place to make them understand.

However, I believe that some situations can be avoided like falling in love with someone from another religion. Love I repeat doesn't start overnight, this ain't a movie. It's real life. It takes time to love, so why start a relationship you know has no future.

The plain truth is that most people stupidly start dating someone with the notion 'we are just dating, not planning to marry'; they aren't keen on wife criterias and focus on criteria for now, girl friend material. So when love sets it , it becomes a problem.

That said I would never advise anyone to marry someone based on their parents, Hell NO, you can suspend marrying someone they don't like and spend time looking for another you like, but don't drop yours and pick theirs .
I personally truly respect ur view ... one thing I guess u should know is dat we don't tell d heart who to love... D heart does and thus makes it hard to stop loving person

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Romance / Re: PARENT And DON'T MARRY Him/her Issue by spiritsam: 7:58pm On May 16, 2016
Greene66:


WRONG!

I do not owe them anything to make them happy because I didn't ask them to give me life. That's the scam most parents feed to their children. No one asked to be born. We were born because they wanted it not because we wanted it as their children. So it was for them. It wasn't a favor. So no one owes nobody

Besides, making them happy and making yourself sad? Which you choose? When they die you would be left alone in this world to reek in your regrets and sadness. If the woman you truly love is not 'their type' would you throw her out the window because some old folks don't want it? Lol

Take my advice, YOU DON'T OWE ANYBODY ANYTHING! NOT EVEN YOUR PARENTS! THEY MARRIED AND BIRTH YOU BECAUSE THEY WANTED TO. IT DOES NOT MEAN THEY WOULD RULE AND LORD OVER YOUR ENTIRE LIFE!

You are responsible for your actions as an adult. Your parents cannot choose your future.
I can subscribe to ur opinion bro.. my fear is what an elder sees sitting a youth can't see it while standing ...
Romance / Re: PARENT And DON'T MARRY Him/her Issue by spiritsam: 7:51pm On May 16, 2016
whogoscam:
My father was never in support of my marriage. He said I would become her slave. My mother said It was an abomination.

Today, my wife is my mum's best friend and my dad on the other hand is still querying her for another grandson grin

My point is follow your heart. You are an adult. Your parents job is done the moment you became an adult. They cannot control your future. They have to come to like it however you choose.
. Hmmmm.. follow ur heart, thatz a good place to start From

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Romance / Re: PARENT And DON'T MARRY Him/her Issue by spiritsam: 1:48pm On May 16, 2016
emperorchedda:
Once upon a time a meaningful thread was derailed by kids
kids will always act As one ....
Romance / Re: PARENT And DON'T MARRY Him/her Issue by spiritsam: 11:47pm On May 15, 2016
ivyT:
I no get advice for nw, we go cross d bridge when we get there
. Lol... like ur style jare

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Romance / Re: PARENT And DON'T MARRY Him/her Issue by spiritsam: 11:04pm On May 15, 2016
halfricanadian:
I will pray to God

Gods answer is final
Hmmmmm... I hope u will av d strength to rightly channel ur pray
Romance / PARENT And DON'T MARRY Him/her Issue by spiritsam: 10:52pm On May 15, 2016
Parent and the you can't marry him/ her syndrome do get me puzzled atimes, When u personally feel God has answered your prayers and you have gotten to your last Bus stop , especially When you guys had dated for long( probably 5yr) been there for each other and had gone thru the bad and the good together, above all the love you have for Each other strong kakaraka and your mum or dad now Said u can't marry him/her and u were like why now and the reply was u just can't marry him/her.... What will u do? .... will u sacrifice your love... As in I mean genuine LOVE or you will go ahead in marrying the person knowing fully well that you are going against your parent...[b]
Education / Re: Nigerians Selected For 2016 Mandela Washington Fellowship by spiritsam: 9:23am On May 08, 2016
Who is fooling who... not one of them graduated From a nigeria university. They ar All politician pikin.. abi whats the criteria 4 picking them The most corrupt nation in d world, inviting d most corrupt nation in Africa to falsely honors d great Mandela... abeg make dem no let d man vex inside grave

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Celebrities / Re: Lil Kesh's YAGI Logo Unveiled By Adekunle Gold, Nigerians Compliment by spiritsam: 10:21pm On May 05, 2016
Let's be sincere with ourselves...Dis logo is not dope and d fact dat it was designed by a good artist or singer(adekunle gold) does not make it dope. D logo is just there .the 3D effect ( like d black drop down at d back) added to d text (Yagi) is an old skull concept thus making d concept STALE.. truth is bitter.. am not hating on anyone... adekunle gold has always been a good graphics designer... He designed YBNL logo b4 he became a star. Dis days I feel he is too busy wit music work and does not av enough time to develop d graphic part of im. [color=#006600][/color]
Romance / Re: Girls Fight On Instagram Over Man (pic) by spiritsam: 10:04pm On Mar 31, 2016
Pls can any explain to me what she meant by weak walls... I tried googling it... all I saw is great wall of China... undecided
Sports / Re: 2016 may dollar now N400 by spiritsam: 1:47am On Mar 30, 2016
Tennis expert pls add me to d group... 08051489791.

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