Golan007:
You know him better than Mbaka?

The same mbaka that said buhari will lead us to the promised land? Abi you dey whine me ni

AsomArchitectNG:


I won't mince words as i'll tell u what you need to know

Yes, your woman is an hookup girl, olosho, pr*stit*te, just pick whichever that suits you, so u know, she has someone bankrolling her currently more than you do. It's a big red flag if she wouldn't respect your decision and it clearly means she doesn't love or no longer in love with you. Now I'll tell you this for free. A woman fears and respects the man they love, as she wouldn't want to loose u. You don't force it as it comes naturally.

Now I'll leave you with this question to go and pounder on it...

Can you go ahead with a woman that wouldn't take your words or rather respect you as man?

I believe you've gotten the answer. Now be a man and be logical. *drops_mic

Well said. You hit the nail on it’s head. Op na your hand e dey. worry about your finances instead cuz as for your babe, she don enter street so leave am. Meanwhile what do you do that gives you such time to call her that frequently?

Interesting. Continue�

Sunmolar:
Is that equal to humility? When you can make the one carrying bag smile & blessed with money?

Drop this entitlement mentality. Nobody owes you anything. The “one” carrying the bag is doing the job he is being paid for. If the system was good, everyone would live better and not depend on freebies. Go get your PVC and vote for Peter Obi.

A good Chef needed at Mila Cinemas Awka. Interested persons should call 09034867430

Jestin:
I am a communicant so no body should get my question wrongly. So after all the offerings and tithes in the church, they can not install common CCTV’S in our churches for proper footage of what really transpired?

The church was supposed to be a safe place �

dynicks:
How the man lifted and brought the daughter of the native doctor to him for rituals...!!....

Man be like....baba!! Baba!! Na the package be this...!! Abeg do'am sharp sharp!!.......Blood dey hot!!.....Man gats begin swim in money!!

Being able to read is one thing, understanding is another�

Datboredberry:
I'm as very light smoker- at most, three to four cigarettes a week...

I'm very young, and I started smoking two years ago...

In our society, if a woman is known to be a smoker... She's looked down on... And false assumptions are made of her personality...

Why the stigmatisation? I know men are victims too but women who smoke are viewed as classless etc... While with men, it's simply a bad habit...

What's your opinion on women who smoke? And what's your reason?

I would appreciate comments based on experiences rather than bias...

And I need valid points how SMOKING directly indicates a wayward woman...

Thanks!

Smoking is bad, yes i agree. People also die from numerous causes unrelated to smoking. I smoke, not addicted to it though, it’s an antidepressant for me. Our country tag smokers “irresponsible”, it’s been this way for long. i think the reason is because they see most people who act irrationally smoking in public so they’ve concluded that it’s how smokers behave. Unknown to them, most geniuses and influential people in this world, even college professors smoke but, in private. At this point in my life, I don’t even care if a lady smokes or not, hell i do too!. Once you’re solid and good to me, I’ll be good to you too, just dey coordinated, don’t be an addict. Even the “wife material” them dey f up too. Nobody holy pass biko.
I’m strongly against smoking in public though, don’t inconvenience others✌�

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Tjra:

Thank you sir

I can NEVER resign. I only intend to seek a transfer to our Abuja branch. Branches are 'dead end' careerwise. Many would do almost anything to be in HQ.

Then stay at the HQ.
if both of you got married in the house of God, He will eventually make a way for your family to be together and still progress career-wise. Just pray and have faith in God.

class001:

I neither told you i was a student neither did i beg you for money.

Guy go hustle, na lack of money dey bring this wahala. If you hol bar, ur babe no go dey misyarn like this even if she dey cheat on you sef she no go wan lose you. You be like person wey go shed premium tears if the said gf leave you. I no even sabi wetin una dey gain for the kind long distance relationship sef, no steady bleeps just burning airtime and data. FOCUS, avoid serious relationship for now. Go for FWB in case e choke.

Elock1:
shebi na comment section I dy so, I insult u? abi u just want mk I notice u too

You no fit just congratulate them dey go your way. "His movie no dey interest me, my mother and younger sibs blah blah blah..."

Just dey misyarn dey rep your simp nation.

Confirmedzombie:
Very ugly broke frustrated dirty couples.
Mtcheeeeeew

With your display of bitterness and disrespect for the elderly, it's very obvious you're a product of a torn condom. I wish you well because it's not entirely your fault but you can still change.

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Leonstar:
Hey everybody, So I have this issue that you all can help me with. I stay in Akure in my late twenties doing okay at work and all. Then my sister's husband called me to assist him with a favour saying his cousin who is a single mother (though her child is with the father at Jos) will be coming to Akure because she has a 7 months contract with one of these big farms here so she might need a place to crash for the weekend till the firm gets a temporary accommodation where she will be staying.

The long and short of the matter is that she has been in my place for the past 3 months and she has been really nice and maybe I might have caught some feelings along the way and we might have had a one night stand which might have been one of the most amazing nights for me since I'm so busy that I don't get to have much social life.

Now, here is the thing!!! After that night, I have made several attempts to get her on but to no avail, always rejecting the offer and threaten to report to her cousin. She might be older than me, almost sure of that and she is quite pretty. Before that night, I also asked her to be FwB (Friends with Benefit) which she didn't have a problem with that so it is not as if I forced it on her......... I really told her that I needed a companion, she actually made me realized that (FYI, no serious relationship).

She is nice and really kind (She might have a bf somewhere though). I just want to know what I did wrong since she can't tell me and how I can remedy that without making her feel uncomfortable in my place.

OP the only thing you did wrong is catching feelings for her when you both agreed to be FWB.
When you have that kind of a deal with a woman, always keep it that way to keep enjoying the benefits, even if you catch feelings along the way, keep it to yourself and don’t show it at all till she opens up to you about feeling same way about you. That lady might like you ok but don’t want anything serious to avoid getting hurt again, maybe she was hurt badly by her Ex husband and just wants to play it safe now.
The remedy is to zip your pants, show her you care without displaying your affections and watch her open up to you✌�

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TheEnygma:

My best guess is that she's probably in her thirties or older than that..... My reason is that the average naija between the ages of 18-28 always feel as if the world is on their feet and would always try to exploit any man that shows interest in them for financial bbenefits.
Most of them start becoming matured psycologically when they clock 30.... It's very rare to see a naija girl below 30 be as matured as she sounds.

You might be right there. There are actually girls who mature early because life hit them hard when they were much younger but they’re very rare to find. Well, let’s hear from the horse’s mouth�

Michelle55:
In the space of 3weeks you have demanded more than the average Nigerian girls yet you don't want to date him?

How do you feel comfortable asking him for money when you clearly wants to be just friends with him?

He has realized what a liability you would be once you guys starts dating hence his drastic action to cut you loose before you drain him mentally and financially, sometimes love is never enough.

Within 3weeks he has aided you in monetary aspect, which areas of his life have you made better since you guys started hanging out?

He has everything to severe all ties with you and I commend him for doing it as quickly as possible with no emotional entanglement involved. What you know you can't provide for yourself, don't be quick to ask others for it. If it's that important, work for it.

You are 28 and he's 23, shame no even catch you as you dey demand, you are one of the reasons some men tags ladies as being useless. Hustle for yours and let the ones he freely gives you be an added bonus.

This is pure exploitation and I'm happy dude woke up just in time to know his place on your Maga list, it is what it is young lady.

Crucify me if you wish but I don't know how to mince words!

Wow! You firmly hit the nail on its head. I’m happy women who think like you are still in existence.
If I may ask how old are you? Would love to know you

The thing be say naija guys wey dey chinko no wan come bk naija b4 chinko go restrict them from coming back.. shey chinko people still dey chinko? Them go surely find cure.. nobi chinko again?

Kudos to her.. we need more women like this in Nigeria