I don't think I wrote anywhere that I blamed God for my failure,according to those people who wrote such above me.i guess I even have a better understanding than you.Your failure must probably be worse than mine as per your low level of IQ.And as for that guy that said i've now been liberated from the rumour called Jesus,well you're just as senseless as your father the devil cos even if i'm on a much tighter rope than i'm in now,the existence of Jesus will even become more real.My success or failure in life does not deter his existence.He was,is and is to come.What I meant was,i've heard of great testimonies so I called to Him,even if I know I did wrong,and was still expecting my own greater testimony,but I was disappointed cos it wasn't to be..

And as for the suicidal stuff,i know I did think of it that's why I probably put it in my title but I'M NEVER SUICIDAL and will never commit suicide.I'm strong willed,hopeful,i believe in tomorrow,i'm one who don't quit easily.I guess the title was for me to lure people into advising me on what to do and perhaps to help people in my situation who are suicidal but you canbe rest assured,if God gives me life,i'll still live and face this situation,even though I once told Him to kill me rather than for me to face it.
Thank you all.I'm off to work(for my 7th school fees perhaps)

lekan3531:
MY BROTHER FROM ANOTHER MOTHER....MY ADVICE FOR U IS DAT U SHUD TRY AND RE-REGISTER THOSE COURSE U FAIL.....60% ON ACADEMIC,30% CHURCH AND 10% FOR ANOTHER THINGS.I BELIEVE DIA IS A REASON FOR ALL DIS .............BUT I PRAY FOR U TODAY THAT GOD ALMIGHTY WE HAV MERCY ON U AND PERFECT EVERY GOOD THING IN UR LIFE. YEAR 2016 WE BE A TESTIMONY YEAR FOR U,ALL UR LOST GLORY WE BE RESTORE BACK TO U IN YEAR 2016.....REMAIN BLESS AND CONTINUE TO AV FAITH IN THE GOD U RE SERVING


.........VERY SOON U WILL GIVE A TESTIMONY HERE

AMEN.Thank you brother.I needed this.

tamquezee:
Very pathetic story but the key to success is still in your hand. But ur story at some point really disgust me. A Christian as u claimed to be; u were bribing lecturers and at the same time sowing seed, praying fervently for God to help u. Lying to ur father etc and still expecting miracles without even registering some of ur courses and relying on ur dubious lecturers. I don't really pity u but I learnt a lesson from your story that; short cut to achievement is full of pain and regret.And again, it is ur type of Christians that floods churches nowadays. My advice: don't cut corners read ur books u will surely pass OK.

Bro,if you understood me pretty well.I said I wasn't into 'godly things' anymore after the first failure cos I felt it dint work out for me.You people are talking like if their aren't people who paid their way from 100lvl to final year and still made a 2,1.As I am now,i don't care if I come out with 3rd class,i just want to come out as a graduate.That's where I stand.And those saying that I can't be doing runs and still sowing seeds and praying.I was once a preacher so I know that one prayer God accepts more is a sinner on his knees telling God to forgive him,a prayer when a sinner says 'Do this for me God and i'm yours forever''i know i've tried to help You like Uzzah did instead of me giving all my burdens to you but i'm sorry''...All Prayers I made but one thing I believe in is this,
QUE SERA SERA.

iamnen:
Op I sent you a mail. You need to talk to me.

Sorry if I don't reply your mail or any other person's.i just don't wanna disclose 'me' to anybody unless you're my HOD or Dean or VC or maybe in my departmental board.Thanks.

I am currently doing a little job now anyway.One that pays 45k per month and it's a 2 month contract job.I'm thinking of using the money to pay my fees and when the work is done,i'll just write a letter to my dad before I travel to write the exam and tell him everything,switch off my phone till I can confirm from my mum that he has calmed down,then I can talk to him on the phone.my father can be very HBP'd by something like this cos he's in his 60s and I won't something bad to happen to him cos of me.But when he has calmed down,he can be forgiven.My elder bro had a similar case with mine and my father always used him as example to us and it hurt me when he does that cos nobody plans for failure.
I schooled in uniben anyway.Physical sciences faculty.

Chartey thanks alot.The thing is I lost all interest in reading book after the 100 level failure.And even when I read,i won't just understand at all anymore.that's why I opted for the runs that has helped me alot.

During the 2nd semester,a lecturer friend of mine I had been doing 'runs' with told me there's an elective course I should 'run' in order to grad and they'll use it to replace any other I fail,which I did at 25k per course(all final year courses).Only for me to hear from people later on that they weren't using that course to replace any.On calling him,he told me he din't tell me they were using the course to replace any.I felt bad and used but I still had faith.I sowed seeds and prayed like never before,telling God I can't be having a 2nd spilling year.I remember clearly when a woman made a prayer point in Church saying 'I shall not end this year in shame'.i prayed like I was about to die and sowed seeds to the prayer as well.i kept telling God that it was better I died than to go through what 2016 will offer me if I don't grad this year cos certainly,i will now have to tell my dad,who is already proudly telling people he now has 3 graduates at home.

Just last week,the results were released.You guessed it.My name was in the list of spillover students again,my final chance of being a graduate.

I seriously do not know how to go about it now cos i'm just confused.Its too big a burden for me to bear.Please I need the wise advises of my fellow nairalanders as  it will help me on what to do this coming year and above all,although i've practically given up on prayers,i still need your prayers as well.If you're looking for who to pray for in your 31st night prayer,please let it be me cos God might answer yours,even if He dint answer mine.

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Lalasticlala
Ishilove
Please take this to the promised land for more contributions.

On my 3rd year in school,the transfer was successful so I made up my mind to do whatever it took to graduate.i had to lose a year so I was in 200 level.i later told my dad about everything,and as expected,he made a big deal out of it and will often bring it up to remind me of a failure I was.but I couldn't blame it on anybody but me.i read a lot that session and paid for a few courses.some of the courses entered for me and some dint but I was promoted to 300 level.i was greatful cos if I had failed again,i'd have been withdrawn from school.that was the case of most of my close friends I Transfered with.Same as 300 level.i was promoted again to final year after 'running' many of my courses at 15k each and many of my friends were withdrawn.as at final yr,i already knew i'd be coming for an extra year again cos of other carryovers and no more space to register them.

A spilling year will make me 6 years in school but I decided on not telling my dad but only my mum and aunty that I went to stay with.as expected,i told God on 31st night breaking 1st Jan 2015 that I wanted to be a graduate this year.on the first session of my spilling year,with the aid of my mum and the work I did while staying at my aunt's,i paid my school fees and was able to 'run' a few courses hoping to grad that session without my dad's knowledge.i managed to play my dad and tell him that the July nysc batch wasn't for our set but November batch.Which he believed.On approaching the November batch,seeing that results won't be released then,when he was expecting me to give him details of my nysc,i told him my name din't come out cos of accumulation of people that haven't gone to the nysc yet.He believed me as well.infact,it was just working for my good in regards to keeping this as a secret to my dad.The one that got me more stunned was when,during the school convocation week,he had a one week long engagement in his road safety voluntary work he does which he had to travel and possibly,didn't have the time to watch TV to know about the convocation.it was a miracle cos that would have been the end if he had found out.

Certainly not a headline people often see or imagine to read about in a season like this but this is where i've found myself against my wish.

I had to create a new NL account for this cos i'll say i'm pretty much an active nairalander so I wouldn't wanna disclose my details to the general public.
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It's only natural for one to look at his/her life as the curtains of a particular year is been shut on their face and begin to analyse what the year brought for them and in most cases,plan for the year ahead.I guess,from the topic,you should know by now that 2015 wasn't a good one for me over here.I'll try as much as possible to be brief but not leaving out the important details.
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Straight to the point now...
I got admitted to the university in the 2009/2010 session(school name and department withheld).As everyone would,i was very happy,seeing I got admitted in the course I wanted to study.i was very much hardworking bookwise and commited to fellowship activities that I became the 100 level cordinator.it took my time a lot but I still made sure I read everyday,attend tutorials et al.Fast forward to when my results were released,i failed.i needed just one course to be promoted and I saw an absent case.On going to the dept I had the absent case,i saw a name that was just like mine and I passed the course.All the nysc guy in charge then had to do was find my main script and confirm it.He told me to pay him money for it that he paid in school too.Been a christian,i prayed everyday over the issue and left it for God.i even went there with my course adviser and he told me if the script and result is sent,he'll rectify it.even after all my praying and pestering the guy,it was never sent so I was aked to repeat the class.i just couldn't so I made up my mind to transfer to another dept.i practically spent that session in my hostel doing nothing with no intention of going back to that dept.To aid my transfer,i had to fail again so the transfer process won't be hectic.i din't bother preparing for the sessional exams.i just wrote the exam anyhow and failed.so I was asked to withdraw from the faculty which made it easy for the other faculty to accept me.meanwhile during all this,i was given a high post in fellowship as a leader of church pastors.it wasn't like other fellowship ministry groups one could just enter.It was by appointment so the prestige was very much huge considering the fellowship was even among the top 5 in school then(last I checked).i held on to the post for a while but looking at the devotion,dedication,seed sowing and more I had made in my 100 level and my academic result that section,i will say I wasn't really into 'God things' anymore.On seeing a little chance,I wrote a letter of resignation on the office I was occupying.it made everywhere in the fellowship to shake.So much that alumni,church patrons and matrons were all up on my phone asking to see me.i later stopped the visits and switched off my phone for over three months cos it became too much.i got a new line for my family and close contacts to get in touch with me.I left fellowship cos I couldn't be doing bad and still pretend to be serving God.i hated hypocrisy.