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I’m still single despite having three kids with different men — 24-yr-old girl https://youtube.com/shorts/i0_ZAHwUwMY?feature=share |
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Footballer Pele Deny Daughter Get Shares at of His Will As Man Accused Sanwo ulo Being His Father https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3-O9wjGVzeE |
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Nigeria fraudster arrested in India for 31 million naira fraud https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZlwBxGSKGwk |
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Apostle Johnson Suleiman escape being Kidnapped https://youtube.com/shorts/b9d3mLUzImQ?feature=share via @YouTube |
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I got pregnant nine years ago while dating my current husband and then the issue of marriage came up. I wasn’t working then. He told my family and I that he doesn’t want a court marriage for no reason. My parents tried talking to him, I cried and begged him severally to legalize his marriage with me but he stood his grounds not to wed me in a court. I involved his family members to help me beg him but they said, he’s old enough to make his decisions. He even refused to do a white wedding either because my church requested for a court certificate, so we ended up doing only traditional marriage. I later got tired and gave up on the matter. I was hurt and broken but I resolved to marry him like that just to save myself and my family the shame of having a baby outside wedlock. My dad was angry and disappointed in him but he didn’t care and because of that my dad vowed to see me a successful and independent woman with or without him. After I gave birth to my baby, my dad helped me secure a job with a multinational company and things started to turn around for me. I could now take care of myself and secure a future. Though I married my husband but I never forgave him from my heart and it made me not to do anything in my husband’s name. We currently have three kids together but all my properties are in the name of my children. I never used him as my next of kin either. Just last month my company decided to transfer me to a branch in Texas and the company is willing to pay for my entire family to relocate with me. My husband’s business is not doing too well and he’s willing to relocate also but we have no legal certificate to show that we are married. Now he wants us to go to the court to legalize our marriage and I have said “No” My dad has threatened to disown me if I ever go with him to court. He’s been tagging me everywhere as a bad wife who is not loyal to her husband, spoiling my family also. His family members have been calling me trying to persuade me but I told them I’m old enough to make my decisions also and I have stood my ground just like he did to me nine years ago.” What is your advice for this young mother of three? Photo credit: internet #FightingSinfulAddiction #HebronMedia
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I got pregnant nine years ago while dating my current husband and then the issue of marriage came up. I wasn’t working then. He told my family and I that he doesn’t want a court marriage for no reason. My parents tried talking to him, I cried and begged him severally to legalize his marriage with me but he stood his grounds not to wed me in a court. I involved his family members to help me beg him but they said, he’s old enough to make his decisions. He even refused to do a white wedding either because my church requested for a court certificate, so we ended up doing only traditional marriage. I later got tired and gave up on the matter. I was hurt and broken but I resolved to marry him like that just to save myself and my family the shame of having a baby outside wedlock. My dad was angry and disappointed in him but he didn’t care and because of that my dad vowed to see me a successful and independent woman with or without him. After I gave birth to my baby, my dad helped me secure a job with a multinational company and things started to turn around for me. I could now take care of myself and secure a future. Though I married my husband but I never forgave him from my heart and it made me not to do anything in my husband’s name. We currently have three kids together but all my properties are in the name of my children. I never used him as my next of kin either. Just last month my company decided to transfer me to a branch in Texas and the company is willing to pay for my entire family to relocate with me. My husband’s business is not doing too well and he’s willing to relocate also but we have no legal certificate to show that we are married. Now he wants us to go to the court to legalize our marriage and I have said “No” My dad has threatened to disown me if I ever go with him to court. He’s been tagging me everywhere as a bad wife who is not loyal to her husband, spoiling my family also. His family members have been calling me trying to persuade me but I told them I’m old enough to make my decisions also and I have stood my ground just like he did to me nine years ago.” What is your advice for this young mother of three? Photo credit: internet #FightingSinfulAddiction #HebronMedia
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Nigeria Man Shares his Painful Experience With Monkeypox virus https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1FnFfgeARLQ via @YouTube 1 Like 1 Share |
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Singer - Portable Brags About His Clothing Designs https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lvLfCfhQbmQ via @YouTube |
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Sad Story How A Young Man Strangle His 90yrs Old Father To Death After S... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tOzWyZs3YAI via @YouTube |
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Queen Elizabeth II is dead, Buckingham Palace has announced https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_1-moSHr6d8 via @YouTube |
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U.S Govt Agrees To Reduce Hushpuppi Sentence To 11Yrs After Admitting To... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=samC9kLzkGQ via @YouTube |
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57yrs Old Man Faint As He Discovery Five Of His Children His Not His Own... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JLkmHLAJ4W4 via @YouTube |
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Nigeria records 14 deaths from yellow fever in 7 months https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RcTKaenU2Nc via @YouTube |
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Singer Ice Prince Send To Prison Video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7AfxaE7nc24 via @YouTube |
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Hero Saves Drowning Dog Only To Be Immediately Bitten By The Dog https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y7l2DyAAiyQ via @YouTube |
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Video Of A Woman Who Cut Of Her Husband Penis In Zambian https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7W1tWX-Lx04 via @YouTube |
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Two Widows Beaten to Death After They Were Accused of Witchcraft in Cros... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HeUssOrhS6c via @YouTube |
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Popular Calabar Pastor, Bishop Josef Bassey Marries Second Wife Photo & ... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qRcedIGgfQc via @YouTube |
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Court dismisses FG’s request to extradite DCP Abba Kyari to US https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mpQHx4q7UlQ via @YouTube |
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Sad Video As 18Ft Pet Snake Swallowed His Owner To Death https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XhuhspuIGl0 via @YouTube |
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Tinubu Reacts As Buhari Reveals Candidates He Will Support For Presidenc... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RcceMYsCAVA via @YouTube |
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IGP Suspends Female Police Officers For Violation Of Social Media Policy https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aYLL8gMvTKs via @YouTube |
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Photos and videos from the funeral of actress Ada Ameh https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tMfQYY4oJt0 via @YouTube |
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Nigeria warns nationals against travelling to Northern Cyprus See Brutal... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xtvxqPRvato via @YouTube |
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Woman Who Smothered Husband To Death With Pillow Is Jailed For 5 years https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PpF7Cf9Hsbg via @YouTube |
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Police arrest 11 Ambrose Alli University students over 'cultism https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=APqRDxPMJ9Y via @YouTube |
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MTN To Launch 5G Network In 7 States In Nigeria See If Your State is Amo... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tIrw04LfCQ8 via @YouTube |
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