@ MRbrownJ... I never tried to destroy friendship initially, but when I found out he tried to have sex with her and jumped in the bed with her with undergarments (before we were together)I made a logical decision to ask him to remove her from his A list of friends. And at no time even if they remained the best of friends w/o me saying a word is it exceptible to leave me while I am sleep in the middle of the night to CALL HER at 4AM especially when I already told you I don't like when you leave me in the bed to go talk to your male friend during tht time.. On top of that wants me to have his child ( like now) and you keeping company with a women that is known for having sex with whoever and whenever and he agreed with me she would be the type to be a married man mistress. Next time get all the facts dear before you suggest I am insecure. It is one thing to be insecure and another to not take any shit and having standards we were friends for over 6 years before in a relationship and never have he disrected me before and was not going to start.

Please help!!! Give feedback. My fiancé has this friend he has known since about 16. They met at boarding school. She liked him at one point of time. They had one close interaction in bed where she stopped him from allowing anything to happen once they were older. He would frequently fly to see her during holidays and periodically throughout the year. I told him that I thought this was a friendship he should let go out of respect for our future. Am I wrong? He leaves the house to talk to her on the phone at weird hours of night and morning. Is this ok?

I am in mid 20"s. I just completed my degree.. My child will be starting kindergarten soon, I feel it is better we both secured jobs and medical b4 getting pregnant. The wedding would be financed off loans. What s your thought about that?

What is the general consensus on a women wanting to wait to get pregnant until after her wedding. should I get pregnant now for my fiancé? Yes or no? Fiancé is near 30. he wants kids like yesterday and wants me to get pregnant now. We both are students, don't have a job, he is looking at doing another masters and has one already. I have 1 child already and just want to wait till we get married this Summer or possibly next Jan to get pregnant, am I wrong? What do you suggest? I am in mid 20"s. I just completed my degree.. My child will be starting kindergarten soon, I feel it is better we both secured jobs and medical b4 getting pregnant. The wedding would be financed off loans.