Can't find my PICTURE again ooo! I uploaded it on Page 2 but can't find it again? who among the Ladies carry am?

Gabbysky: You people can continue insulting urselves.. OP has found a woman of his choice.

I know homes that earn far less but the peace, love and happiness they enjoy is unprecedented I even with kids.
The don't lack and they dont beg.
Why SMA gold when u can breast feed
Why pampers when there r washable napkins
Must u watch DSTV when u can do a 14" TV box
I tell u, add what the lady will bring in, and with good management they'll even have good savings - I can tell u how easily.
It's all about good and effective management

Not so fast...thanks for your wonderful comment, gives me hope

I've not really had the time to go through the post, will do that & will reply all your queries. don't judge a book by the cover. Behind every Successful man, there is a woman(I don't know if I'm wrong with my quotation). The mod just messed the whole thing up by putting this on the front Page. I'm shy and I can hardly view this topic. **covers face **
@kulyie, I understand your point, pls, let's stop all the name calling, we are one Nigeria, let's learn to apologize where we go wrong, that doesn't stop us from who we gonna be 2moro.

fijiano202: you are right,it depends on an individual,everyone has a drive but sometimes we need a push to work and with the way he constructed his post and the words chosen it proves the OP is the contempted kinda guy,hes living an ok life with the 70k salary

Honestly, I'm not Ok with my current salary structure, its no where near what my sch mates earns. I do some small under ground biz that pays over 15 - 20k. you guys don't expect me to come here to start disclosing every thing online.
for those who thinks I find it difficult to pay my house rent, its all lies. I choose to live a low life for now just to make me put things right. As I type this, I have a Half plot of land at Ogijo, Ikorodu which I bought for my fish farming business, I plan to put at least a 2 Bedroom apartment hopefully by next year, don't ask me how I'm going to make that money, its not all about what u earn that matters but how well were u able to manage the resources at your disposal. I know a guy in my company whose salary is over 200k, as I type this, he's owing me over 100k. for those who criticize me, that makes me stronger, I've other plans in life, just that they are yet to materialize.

cherieb2: Op oya come dey yarn us black n white(d truth) small small. 1.dat age wey u tell us na football age? Cos frm wetin Ȋ̝̊̅ see for dat pics...hmmmnnn 2. Na ur work place u for snap dat pics abi u pass d nyt for a frnd place come snap d pics dis mrng cos dat house nor b for children o, as in, nor b house wey 60-70k salary fit rent o......lol

Lol, (1) 32 is my real age, abi u still want me to scan my International Passport abi na Birth cert here for you to clear all doubts? go & ask my Mumcy.
(2) That's one of my company's Guest House.
what else do you want to know?

Phema:

I was just about to ask same. Op abeg, was the 32 you mentioned your football age? Now I see why you must get married sooner than later. No offence intended biko

Why should I lie about my age? Do I look young or too old for that age? whatever I drop here is the plain truth, that's me. I thought I look too old for that age.

Me! will remove it after 24hrs. I no too fine ooo. Just Natural, took this pix with my Touchlite fone JUST NOW. lol.

Beehorn: Op,are u a wife beater? Mr op, i dnt think u're a driver.

Can't beat a woman, God forbid! what kind of Driver are u talking about?

Chillisauce: OP, e bi like say you don get some contact here, this one you just keep quiet since. Have you started sampling yet? How is it going?

Hehehe, its going well. its not all abt sampling, that's not the major reason I came here. I can sample any woman i can reach out to within my hood . I want to settle down. man don dey old.

Ngokafor:



Awwww!!..am so sorry about your bad experience bro.However it's good to know you have decided to move on with your life and start afresh with someone else..i know it's a cliche but there are good girls out there who will make up for the hurt you've been through trust me..
..but if you ask me,i dont think this online thing you want to embark on is such a good idea.You might just be setting youself up for some unpleasant surprises, what with the number of charlatans lurking all over the cyberworld...

..for starters,since you are weary of 'toasting' moves right now,how about spreading word around amongst your friends and relations about your intentions,at least they can look out for your spec on your behalf(someone they can vouch for to a large extent),tell her about you,and if she's okay with everything, then you guys can take it up from there,no long stories from you...not a perfect solution but it has worked for a lot of peeps i know....at least i feel it's better than meeting random strangers on the net.

....but at the end of the day,it's your call so goodluck bro,cheers.

I will explore other options as suggested...I won't limit my search alone on the internet. thanks for your time.

I thank u all for your wonderful comments, all has being helpful...some of your comments really cracked me up, that's why I love this great family(Nairaland),It's never my plan to get married with this kind of income, as some of you pointed out might not be enough to take care of a home, it's all depends on how well we manage our finances. I know what I've achieved With my meagre salary. I'm not bragging about it. I've seen guys marry with less income and they live a decent life.
I'm from the middle belt, got lots of people in government, with the right click, I hit my heights. Ain't desperate, I know I'll get that woman to marry in 2014.
For those who inquired about my genotype, it's AA.

baby_123: You are the one looking for wife. Post your picture here and carry placard that says " I am stop4 and i am looking for a wife in 2014. Baby123 says i should prove my existence". Gbam. Otherwise, who knows, you can be typing from heaven.

Haha...can't just stop laughing at "carrying a placard with my moniker just to prove you right". lol. If I'm Heaven like u said, why will i look for a wife in Nigeria of all places? No make me laugh abeg. I rep NAIJA!

how else do you want me to prove my point? Ok, I don't like uploading my pix on Nairaland, ghost have pictures too.

baby_123: Are you sure you are not a ghost husband.

I reject being a ghost husband in Jesus Name. why will I want to be one? OK, u need proof right?

goksonjay: call 08165512788.

tell me why I need to call that number. I'm not desperate ooo. give me reason(s).

Royal Roy: Nice Step.

At least you know wat u want in a wife.

But do you have problems approaching women?

You mean on a daily basis you've never met a woman that catches your fancy?

What was your past relationships like?

Hope you give an insight so we know what pushed you this far to seek for a relationship online.

Yea, Wifey are hard to get, I really don't have problems approaching women and I don't like approaching them often either, I don't just like talking my whole life out as some ladies may want it.
I've had a 6yrs relationship in the past, I got dumped, lol and has decided never to trust any girl again...I was tempted to remain single forever but decides to change...it was a bitter experience though.
thanks for the input.

olumide098: Baba You really messed Up putting this kinda tinx online here..women of nowadays dont want to settle for less...all what i want You to do now is to pray to God for direction...U dont need to be disturbing yourself the right person will definitely come depends on your look as well...like me i lost my relationship..I mean 7 years relationship...do u know what i did? i shut down my heart for women for one good year and the following year i opened door for every women..Now i have like 7 ladies..seeking God face to know which one to marry....baba wake up oooo

I just want to be original, I don't care what girls/women think about my personality. If they doesn't want to settle for less, no Biggy, I know there are some ladies out there (not the desperate type) who still understand my point. I can tell all sort of lies that can make anyone fall for me BUT will that be the best thing to do? I'm not looking that bad anyway.

This is just the beginning!

Hello Nairalanders , I don't know the right section to post this as i need matured response...don't want to post in Romance section as I assume I won't be getting what I want.
I'm a guy, 32yrs old in need of a serious relationship, though I'm not financially stable...a[HND accts] graduate who's is trying to find his feet, I work as security presently (I call it hussling, not those dressed-up-liked you see in Banks ooo) that pays btw 60 - 70k per month, free lunch at work, make use of company's staff Bus daily, (pay less on T fare) etc. I'm not a Gold digger, just need the right gal to marry....must be a graduate as well, managing something for a lively hood[not a total dependant], average in height, must be btw the age of 25 - 31yrs, Christian.
If you are that Lucky woman..... add me 752B88B8, text/call 08183956555. Need further clarification, lemme know.