God

A good spouse
Good kids
A good income
One or two good friends

Hausa - Zakara

The problem with our society today!!!
We have forgotten God's rules and allowed our desires to take over us. If u had stuck to no sex till after marriage u wuldnt be here seeking advice n wot not. We need to fix our ways mehn. If its not std its abortion or damaged womb as a result of abortion. God help us all.

The kind of guy that doesn't even knw wot he is doin with his life. You put him there and just help him in little ways u can to figure himself out.

Your spouce just like the day u will die has already been clearly written down for u. Be patient, be prayerful, wait for God's time. Desperation will only lead u to the worst arms u can think of. Men can smell desperation from a distance and trust me some horrble ones will only use it to take advantage of u.

Not many good things, sadly.

PROPERTIES

He was a beautiful liar

@kabarka PLEASE send me a copy of ur e-book. I need comprehensive info on starting a pure water business in abuja. Thanks

Pleas add any information u think I may need. I really want to understand this business. Planing on goin into it early 2013.

mondi_cheeks: If u have been staying with ur man/woman for 10years. U live like a married couple. He/she keeps telling you he/she is not yet ready for marriage...would u continue to live like that hoping someday he/she will be ready or would u jus leave him after 10years of being committed to him/her?

Don't think u should leave at this point cos let's face it he's finished using u, just let him have wots remaining.

Nothing like runz girl. A LovePeddler is a LovePeddler

They do exactly thesame thing just that one can be found on the road side and not the other.

1ndidi2: When d guy I fancy doesn't call enough

When d guy I don't fancy calls too damn much

Gbam!
U jst said it all. Am even vexed right now lol

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It depends on which ex. The most recent one I will happily see die in hunger. .

The one before defs!! I will travel to moon for him

kitty kat: They care more abt ho much is in his pocket today and how much he is willing to release than how he got it or how much it will last. They blv in eatingg now and if it finishes today another loaded MUGU will come.

[/b]Most of our mothers too have helped to sculpture our young ladies into this. [b]

Our generation can change this, if we dare to be different.

I am not sayin u shd dump ur RanGe driver bobo and pick one with no mechanical means of parambulation bit let ur reason for being with him be beyond d material.

Thank you sister! I agree wih everything u said especially the bolded part. Wenever I discuss corruption and other major problem is our society with ppl I always make sure I hight the Root of it all, our up bringing. Am not saying we women are the root of nigeria's problems but wot am saying is if nigeria will move forward we the future mothers need to put our self together cos we are the greatest source of change. Mothers of now our days I have no idea how powerful they are as members of a society.by improving the upbring of the future generation nigerial will move forward. I honestly believ this

kitty kat: They care more abt ho much is in his pocket today and how much he is willing to release than how he got it or how much it will last. They blv in eatingg now and if it finishes today another loaded MUGU will come.

[/b]Most of our mothers too have helped to sculpture our young ladies into this. [b]

Our generation can change this, if we dare to be different.

I am not sayin u shd dump ur RanGe driver bobo and pick one with no mechanical means of parambulation bit let ur reason for being with him be beyond d material.

Thank you sister! I agree wih everything u said especially the bolded part. Wenever I discuss corruption and other major problem is our society with ppl I always make sure I hight the Root of it all, our up bringing. Am not saying we women are the root of nigeria's problems but wot am saying is if nigeria will move forward we the future mothers need to put our self together cos we are the greatest source of change. Mothers of now our days I have no idea how powerful they are as members of a society.by improving the upbring of the future general nigerial will move forward

I do and have done so since the day I learnt how to pray to God. My mother taught me to pray for a righteous spouse,God fearing children, increased faith in God and Heaven. Its just natural to me now I say those things without a second thought each time I say my prayer.

And ofcos I shine my eyes!! Who doesn't. But prayer is key.

I don't hav e an ex, if it didn't work out then it never happened. Adios

afam4eva: The Nigerian team will come fighting like a wounded lion. I pity for Argentina. You don't play a team that was humilated by the US without getting stained. I see the Nigerian team qualifying from this group and meeting the US in the final where they will go on a revenge mission and beat the US and be crowned the Olympic basketball champions.

Mehn I really pray wot u just said happens. God bless Nigeria!

Can pple just stop with this tribe stuff. We are more civilised than this. and no am not ibo.

The olympics is not about winning, its about taking part

Still proud of my boys

Shining black eye balls. That's the truth.

Inked_Nerd: Yet Nigerian women are labeled as gold diggers?

Thank you o

Poster u go tay for ur papa house o. But I guess as long u meet him before u hit menapuase its ok. We wish u luck

To anwser ur question about submitting to a man a woman is not married to' NEVER. I will respect u for sure but submission will begin the day u pay my dowry price. Infact anything and everything will only be accebile to u wen u pay my dowry price. Before then we will simply get to know each other and if ur wasting too much time self I drop u like a hot cake an move on. Girls aren't 18 anymore

@ poster. It is not an offence, its just daft. No sane person surpports failure which is the reason why u get the reaction u get.

P.s if I may ask. Are u one the laptop 40 guys pls, just wanna confirm if they actually exist . Or just a not so smart nigeria

Am in surppot too. I see nothing wrong with it. The woman is more productive than that so called president. If jona can be president patience can be governor self. Give the woman a chance. I can actually see good things comin out of her, she just needs some guiding due to her lack of higher education. Patience dey try.

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No. Yup we hear naija girl no go gree.

I am a dark skinned girl n someone pls explain this to me. Yellow guys luv me? I just don't get it. Everywhere I go I get asked for my number by a handsome light skinned man. Funny thing is, I don't find them attractive in that way. Always knew there were goodlookin light skinned men but they weren't made for me, am just not attracted to them them.

Very powerful article. I myself for sure have experienced some of the things u the writer spoke about.it really baffles me wen so called educated ppl from othr parts of nigeria speak about the north with such ignorance. Am a 22 year old muslim hausa girl with a masters degree under her belt and yes I finished with a Merit. Ppl need to be more open minded, we need to move foward as one country. We are all gifted ppl with a very resourceful land.