The glory of the children are their fathers. Let your biological father received your dowry and receive his blessing too.

Leave him with God on failure of his responsibilities, carry your maternal uncle along and let him understand that you needs your father blessings in your life. You don't pay evil with evil but with good.

Let him walk you to the aisle too. Most men are senseless when it comes to fulfilment of their responsibilities but when it comes for collection of their rights they can go any length for it.

Try to forgive him and let your brothers too forgive him.Imagine if your mom still alive, she will not denied him his rights as your father. Just be wise like your mom. God be with you and blessed your marriage.

Amount to have before retirement is controversial. What you need to have is multiple stream of income before your retirement.

No amount is enough for you to retired because responsibility will increase after retirement especially house rent, (if you don't have a house of your own) school fees (if your children are still in schools) ,health bills and your financial commitment to your friends, families, church and community.

All the above mentioned points caused early death for the retiree's.
You just have to cut your cost of living after retirement by planing to own a house, have stream of income and cut your clothes to your sizes after retirement

Biblically once you have paid her dowry you are good. But since she insisted on church wedding but give a caveat that if she is not met as a virgin you will divorce her this biblically too.

If both agreed then go for white wedding. God be with the union. But the question bro are you a virgin too? Just joking.

Bros. Everybody has past. I started as car wash before getting hotel job as a waiter and thereafter I got a bank job with a level certificate but today I am a chartered accountant and a business man. Wake your inner mind and take any job to make end meet.

Show immigration your expired Nigeria passport and the new one if ready, if not you will be given travel pass that indicate your departure from Nigeria. Upon arrival at Heathrow or Gatwick airport line up with UK/EU and check in yourself. Meanwhile it is necessary you visit Murtala Intl Airport to make enquiry because immigration can be funny at times in Nigeria

Problem shared is problem solved 50% .The remaining solution is to admit that ,you need help. Kindly go to any bible believing church to confess your problem and forsake it.
Watch whom you seek counsel from, associate with and take delight in reading the word of God (Bible) daily. Psalm 1:1

You should understand that the devil is trying to destroy your future John 10:10

You need to be wiser than the devil.

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