the summary of my question is dat is it possible for a woman not to luv her husband nd she still does'nt want him to av an affiar?

help me nairalanders and marriage couselors in the house, my wife said she does not luv me but whenever she sees me with a lady or we am admiring a lady she flares up. Does she really dont luv me? Pls ur matured response will attract blessind nd vise vaser.

Poster, pls answer d following questns.
1. What happen to d interns after d one year programm, will dey be left searching for job again, or will be posted to firms nd institutions of govt parastatals?
2. The stipends, will it be a reasonable amount dat can sustain a family man?

OMG, gurls/women of nowadays dey sooooo lazy. Lazy folks. They always look 4already made

My people is life itself not complicated? The poster has really made sense in his write up, infact his write up is the bible i read this a.m. All d pple dat said 'it is easier said than done' also made sense . But i will say that dis write up will be more difficult to applied in a legally married situation than in a 'boy friend, gurl friend relationship' period! The only ground i feel one shuld not be able to hold on to a relationship or marriage is d case of infidelity nd adultery.

idowuogo wat do u mean by BI. I dont understand ur question. Expanciate

i easily display luv to my gfs nlanders help

I expressly told my gurl friend dat am in love wit her and dat she can see d efforts am making to see her b4 she travells nd , all she need say is to tell me to control my emotion nd love. Wats is d meaning of dis?

Nairalanders pls help! She just gained admission nd i dont want to distract her, but it seems i shuld own her now. I want to give up of her but am finding it difficult, she is trying to pls me too but her status is not helping situation too. Am sooo much in love with her now. Pls help i want to be out of her love cos i love my wife nd my famly

There is this friend of mine that always have this fear that he might likely be cheated by his wife. He now resolved to keep anoda not too serious relationship ouside his marriage shuld in case he catches his wife cheating on him, that it will not cause too much heart break 4him. He now wants to know if this is a kind of antidote to lessoning heart break in marriage. Nlanders pls matured response will be appreciated

Doctors & experienced couples in the house my friend wants 2know d advantages of using iucd-coper T, as family planning method and the side effects if der is any? Pls ur matured response will be highly appreciated

What about the VIO-DVLA stuff? nairalanders pls do dey still have any relevance as to the d issuance and administration of vehicle licence in Nigeria

my hubby said now dat we ar married, i should remove my mobile line cos i av been receiving my old school male friends and ex calls. Pls dear nairalanders advise if his decision is sensible.

hi nairalanders, i need ur wise opinion and suggestion on this. There is this lady am trying to make her change some of her bad attitude. but she is always prooving stubborn and very unteachable. I want to know if is possible for one to influence anoder person esp sombody very dear.

no mind dem. Dey too dey pretend all dey want is ur money

Bleep a hell out of her wen u feel she wants it

am very good at that point 9

can u pls summarise the story?

prophecy: man united will fall by d hand of chelsea soonest

The best of the best way to uprade HND certificate is not to go for any HND programmes  at all at all. and also to urge the federal govt to srcap the programme outrightly istead of wasting innocent peoples's time and resourses

OUR YEARNINGS ARE THESAME. CAN U READ THE ARTICLE BELOW? I WROTE IT FEW MONTHS AGO . I want to make sure is published. I need contribution from all and sundry




                                                    POLYTECHNIC EDUCATION IN NIGERIA – A MIRAGE
Sometimes I wonder why life is full of inequalities and, these have cut across every spheres of the human race. Of course it is a life phenomenon that there are two possibilities in life the synopsis of which is the good and the bad. The world is advancing in both evil and good in every second that passes by, our mentality is being hampered and influenced by the growing trends of human cravings engendered by their inbuilt greedy nature. Nepotism, corruption, self centeredness, covetousness et al has eaten deep into the fabric of our society
One major reason why every parent either rich or poor wants to get their wards educated is to bring them good fortune as well as alleviate their sufferings and, banish poverty from their race. Some parents especially the poverty stricken ones went through hell before they could send one child to school in the family. On the graduation of the child the parent and child are full of joy and ecstasy that truly poverty will soon be alien to them. Unfortunately, the child is encountered with the unknown by the time he or she enter the labour market. It is then that he will realize that tough time has just began.
Labour market supposed to be market a graduate will just walk in to and just get his own share of the national cake without even thinking of any Shylock or pharaoh that could prevent the Israelites from getting to their promise land. Labour market in Nigeria is full of thousands of frustrated and disappointed Nigerian graduates comprising of itinerant Bsc and HND holders seeking for employment. It is a very sad thing that most of these graduates especially the HND holders are being marginalized when a times they almost got the job. They prefer to employ their Bsc counterpart; of course this is cynical and should not be encouraged in the society.

Nigeria government should be government for all. They should be able to exercise their power over every parastatal in the land because they are not expected to hands up on the way other sectors like the banks and financial institution, oil companies and, even private companies run their organizations. There should be a way the government could assist the unemployed HND graduates by poke nosing in the acquisition of man power in all approved and well registered organizations in Nigeria. The percentage of Bsc graduates that are employed every year is far cry that of HND graduates. Even some federal government parastatals hypocritically call for both HND and Bsc holders during their mass employment exercise and consequently give preference to the later.   If is really government that set up Polytechnic education then it should be justified.
Nigerian government to be precise has been feigning ignorance on this issue for long and it is time to rise up and take the bull by the horns and begin to probably flag off the abolition of Polytechnic education in Nigeria, because it gives those that have graduated from these schools and the undergraduates the impression that is a waste of time and resources. Alternatively, the federal government should scrapped all humanities and management courses that are being taught in all the polytechnic in Nigeria and major on those ones that are more of engineering or that has to do with  technology.

Hell No! Marriage does not change you. It can only reduced it cos ur apartment will not be available as usual