Balablue64:
Na lie oh, who sells 150 naira rice in Nigeria when a cup is 350 naira, a derica is almost 1500, except if the rice that woman sells falls from heaven.
Keep lying. Linus

Lol....just few poles from where I bought this food, a restaurant is sells a plate of rice for #1500. This woman is the cheapest I've seen and I know the price won't last.

Jennyclay:
Ehya! You are really so broke. You can’t even afford to buy ordinary kpomo in it

May God help you struggling and broke men!

Amen

As a struggling jobless graduate, feeding properly in this economy has been a herculean task but I was able to get breakfast for a moderate amount with my last #500 though.
Rice = 150
Beans = 150
Pure water = 100

#100 left for biscuits later.
The food small shaa but then there are two sachets of pure water to top it up. Food is still relatively cheap here compared to the other parts of the country, just that the Fulani menace has been a very big problem in the state. I personally lost a farm I borrowed money to invest in last year to Fulani herdsmen.
How much does would this food go for in your area?

Aaaaarghmed:
You have being doing val before,so she expects it .you shud have explained things to her so she go comot mind .I don't see anytin wrong in wat she did

She doesn't need explanation, she knows the situation of things first hand.

Lonestar124:
Remove 500naira from your 5000naira and buy her suya... simple..

Abi suya no be meat?

I know, but that 5h can serve a better purpose, we've been eating suya before now.

Women can be really funny at times and take frivolous things serious. My girlfriend came around to stay with me for a while, so she was kinda of expecting that we would celebrate Val or stuff but unfortunately I am low on funds cos I just settled some bills earlier this month.

After work today, I just bought only 1k palm wine because we enjoy taking it together, but I observed she was a bit moody. I just faced my front cos I had just 5k on me and I still have about 2weeks to go till the next pay day so I am being very prudent with it.

She kept making side comments about how other ladies would be receiving gifts from their boyfriends by now and other sarcastic talks. She lager opened up this night about how today is her worst val ever and it's more of a haters day for her. I told her to calm down, after all we have celebrated Val for the past two years very well so she shouldn't be upset about us not going out today. She insisted that it's not about us going out but I couldn't even get her fish or meat, I simply told her that I can't afford anything now and she's been giving me the cold shoulder.

TonyeBarcanista:


Bro, I'm much concerned that you only sent 5k to your mother that needed money while you gave 20k to an unfaithful lover who equally collected money from another man.

Nah I sent her more than 5k, moreover my mom has a sacrosanct monthly allowance while my girlfriend doesn't . I sent my mom the exact amount she asked me for, and will still send her allowance by months end.

Dyfynezz12:
Give to dy street what belongs to dy street lest u get burnt.
Free the girl let her go nd hoe to her satisfaction.BTW what happened to dy pregnancy, did dy other guy know that she was/is pregnant 4 u?

The pregnancy was terminated, yea he was aware that she was pregnant

shege45:
you Dey tolerate rubbish ooo. She comot your house go Dey with guy, the guy go don smash am, she begged you and you still accepted her back into your house. Na under ur nose them go Dey knack now

I had proof that she was in her family house...the guy visited her there

Hi everyone, I have a little issue that I would appreciate your input. With the economic situation on the ground presently in the country it looks rather unnecessary to bother you guys with such a trivial matter but I still implore you to read through and give me your kind submissions. It's going to be a long read, please kindly bear with me.

I've been dating my girlfriend for over a year and six months now and while it has not been a smooth sailing we've manages to always sort our issues. I lost my major source of income about two months ago and even though I had our little side gig it was tough for me because the job constitutes about 80% of my income.

My girlfriend was staying with me while she was working on her project but my job loss affected the relationship because I was broke and to a slight extent extended the aggression to her. I stopped caring about her or giving her any attention because I channeled all my time into getting another job. This resulted in us having lots of fights now and then and to make matters worse she discovered she was pregnant.

With the situation of things breeding a child was a no-go area for both parties but then things were so difficult that I couldn't even afford an abortion then. During one of our arguments, she angrily told me that my nonchalant attitude toward her was making her seek attention from guys outside because she wants to be happy.

I took her statement with a pinch of salt because relationship-related matters were the last thing on my mind then. We later made up as usual, the next day she asked me if I wasn't eager to know the guy she was talking to, and I told her that I didn't care.

She kept mentioning it till I had to inquire about it, she narrated how the guy was someone she normally talks to online about our problems, they met once in a restaurant and the guy asked her out and she was contemplating accepting him because of how I was treating her blah blah but asked him to wait a bit while she sorted out things with me. He would only call her only when she flashes him and she always delete their chats she continued.

I waved away the matter because I had just gotten a new job though with much lesser pay than the previous one but I still channeled all my focus on my new job so I didn't want any distractions. A week later we had a serious fight that led to me asking her to leave, and even flung her things outside. She insisted on staying till I took care of the pregnancy. I reached out to a friend that owned a pharmacy store and he promised to come around and take care of the stuff.

While we were waiting for my friend she kept exchanging voice notes with the guy telling him how he was free to call her anytime he wants now because she has broken up with her guy. The guy on the other hand was apparently excited and couldn't hold his joy, he kept repeating how that day was the best day of his life because he had been waiting for her to break up with me. He immediately sent her money when she requested for tp and later offered to come pick her up from my place.

I think it's worth mentioning that I found out that the guy was a banker and was relatively more well-to-do than me. He allegedly drives an RX 350 while all I had was my leggediz Benz.

I ignored her initially but she kept rubbing her nonsense on my face in a bid to pepper me including telling the guy that she loved him after she got his alert. I deliberately made a few calls to other ladies telling one of them whom she knows that I was ready to be with her now and concentrate on her. She flared up and started screaming on top of her voice to the girls hearing that she was pregnant and all. She later started dragging my phone to know who the caller was, she found out it was someone she knew.

She chatted the girl up and began to slander me through voice notes. It was resulting to insults so I had to leave the house for her because she was beginning to get on my nerves. An elderly neighbor came and spoke to her while I was away so she called me and started apologizing blaming her actions on pregnancy hormones. I went back home and forgave her after asking her to end anything she has with the guy.

We didn't have any form of intimacy the following week because my libido was zero. During that period she was still in communication with the guy, answering his calls discreatly and deleting chats. I complained about her fishy attitude and she said it's because she didn't know how to tell the guy that we were back together and I also threatened her that I would reciprocate what she did to the lady that I called if I get hold of the guys contact. She decided to go home for a week to attend a relative's wedding and while she was packing I noticed she was packing almost everything. I remarked on it and she mumbled an inaudible response. While she was packing I farted while rushing to the toilet and she started scolding with loud voice. I got angry and told her that I couldn't wait for her to leave so I could have peace. She fired back that she would never come to my house again. I gave her tp and she left. We both knew it was breakup. Just before she left she got a call from someone the guy referred her to for a job. She called the guy thanking him and promised to see her that evening.


Just three days after she left, she chatted me up that she still loves me and wants us to get back together. She revealed that she couldn't develop feelings for the guy no matter how much she tried. The guy had been at her beck and call, buying shawarma and pizza for the whole house and using his car to run errands for her but somehow she still wants me. I asked her what she intends to do with the guy and she said she would open up and tell him everything that evening. I said okay.

She later called me that evening to narrate how she opened up to the guy and the guy was furious at her for leading him on and trying to get back to a guy she said treated her like shit. He ended up smashing his Samsung S2somthing on the wall and left angrily. So that was how we made up again.

She came back to the house days later so we could take care of our unfinished business, but I discovered she still had a soft spot for the guy. She always gets upset each time I use the guy to catch cruise the way she does to my female friends. She claims the guy was just a nice person to her and didn't deserve the things I said about him.

She missed his call one morning and was restless, said she was inquisitive to know why he called because he hadn't been online probably due to his bad phone. He chatted her up once night and they chatted for hours with the excuse that I was working on my laptop and was ignoring her. I worked throughout the night and slept around past 5 in the morning only to wake up around 8am to her talking to the guy in the kitchen. I gave her a stern warning to stop whatever rubbish she was up to with the guy again.

Her birthday is next week and I gave her 20k manage it anyhow that she can, I initially promised her 25k but had to reduce it because I had to send and urgent money to my mom. She later told me that this same guy was offering to bake a cake for her birthday. I told her that she likes complicating issues for herself since she would be celebrating the birthday in my house how is the guy supposed to give her the cake or is he going to bring it to my house? Of course she had no answers.

I told her to put the guy in his place and explain things to him, let him know that she's spending the day with me but if he's okay with bringing the cake to the house then fine. I saw her list this evening and noticed cake there so I asked her what was the outcome of her discussion with the guy, her mood changed instantly and she said that after explaining everything to the guy, he was upset and said I should handle everything myself and started ignoring her. She made a comment that the guy always responds to her online, but he's ignoring her now. It was obvious she was hurt because the guy has withdrawn the attention he was giving her.

I've asked her several times why she came back to me if she had feelings for the guy but she doesn't give me a concrete answer. How do you guys think I should navigate through this?

Please I am sorry for the lengthy post and any typos, I wanted to add most details for better understanding.

VeryWickedGoat:
Guy 1 looks like he worked under Ochendu & Sons, ASPAMDA for 15 years and did his freedom 5 years ago. He frequents his village every December to show off, he has a deep igbotic tongue, he has a strong body odour, he is short and he is a chronic stammerer. He beats women.


Guy 2 is a low budget itunes giftcard yahoo boy. He does drugs and sex performance enhancers, he is a coward, he is lousy in public, he has multiple accounts in all betting platforms, he treats STDs at least 4 times annually, he has never worked legitimately for a day in his life, he is 35 claiming 27, he will never amount to anything meaningful to society.

Haba bros...you're indeed very wicked

Zonefree:
So, this is what you guys discuss in relationships

Sometimes person suppose catch cruise...life is not too hard abeg

adontcare:
None is fine yet

Lol...I know, so which of them less uglier?

Second guy

So I was joking around with my babe last night and mentioned something about having finer girls than her in my DM, she rebutted and insisted she had finer guys too asking her out.

I asked her to send me a picture lets compare, so she sent some pictures of the toaster which I told her point blank that the guy wasn't fine. I simplely explained to her that I see my self as 5/10 so any guy I'm finer than is not handsome. She kept insisting that the guy was finer so we decided to let neautrals be the judge. I will post pictures of two guys without specifying which one is actually mine to avoid bias.

So please help us judge.... this is for fun bad belle and insults are welcome as per nairaland tradition.

Below are the pictures of the first guy.

tarantino1:


Do you still need the cash? Send a dm

DM sent

Offpoint1:

There's no interest if this is your first time... There's a 2 weeks option with no interest

Thanks for the idea, would have checked it out but I don't have data, I'm browsing with opera mini free basics

lifenija:
That's 100k monthly n yet u dey act like wan broke asss, stop being a local yahoo boy, if u got a job already ask from ur company workers dey will give u.

Stupid format

I'm not a yahoo boy and its 25k not 100k.

Offpoint1:
Download fairmoney app and collect loan, no interest for 2 weeks period.

The interests are neck breaking, I'm not sure I can pay back with such interests.

I just got a small job of 25k a week ago, but its been hell surviving this period. I've gone days without feeding and I feel it's better I plead for help before I die of starvation since I still have over a week before I will be paid. Please save a brother with anything even 5h... I'm ready to pay by month end if anyone will be willing to lend me money. I know its a huge ask since I don't have a collateral to offer but I don't have any other option left to explore.

Thanks and God bless us all.

sulmeza:
Please send me a private message. I have a similar gig for you, same pay.

I'll need to have a look at your portfolio though. Thanks.

DM sent

Klass99:


You will be ghosted many more times in your quest for honest and decent work to do. Will you call out every boss or potential employer who ghosts you? Will you text them incessantly to complain about the fact that they are ignoring your calls or texts?

Did it occur to you that this guy may be in the hospital, dealing with the death of a loved one or the loss of a job himself? And responding to certain calls or texts is not a priority for him right now. Let's even assume none of these scenarios is his reality, you could have stopped texting after your chats of 1st June as shown in your screen shots.

You never know what's going on at the other end with an employer or recruiter, it's best to reach out once in a very polite manner, then keep your cool afterwards and don't lose it by blowing off steam or going on a rant about how they are ignoring you, it's not fair blah blah blah.

I once interviewed for a job with a prestigious company where I was one of the four finalists. 4 weeks later there was no feedback, just radio silence. I kept wondering what's up, they should at least let me know if I was successful or not. By the 5th week HR called to say he was just checking up on his candidates, with no update or solid feedback on the outcome of the interviews.

I could have easily gone off the rails and ranted to them about how unprofessional it is, to not give candidates feedback after they've taken time to interview blah blah blah and given them a piece of my mind, but I didn't. By the 8th week HR emailed me with an offer, on resuming work 2 weeks later he explained that the company decided to restructure shortly after our interviews and they wanted to get that exercise out of the way, before bringing in new hires.

I was their 1st choice candidate, but do you think they would have still extended an offer had I gone off the rails to rant and call them out like you are doing? No, they wouldn't. They would have gone with their 2nd choice candidate because of my outburst and attitude. You never know what's going on behind the scenes, so stay calm and mentally move on. If you hear back great, if you don't just keep it moving.

This guy does not owe you money for work done, you said you were managing this job while looking for something better, now you are whinning about him ghosting you because nothing good or better came along for you, so his work became your lifeline. It's courteous to return calls and respond to messages which he hasn't done, but me sef when people provoke or annoy me I tend to ignore their calls and texts until I am ready to talk to them. The chats you sent by 6th June were whiny and annoying, enough to make anyone ignore you.

Alright Thank you

Karleb:
As long as the guy is not owing you, you don't have the right to call him out.

People make posts every day about happenings in their workplace, I didn't mention any moniker and the name on my chat is blurred because the boss in question does not owe me which I've stated. I've moved on, I don't just get the reason why I'm being vilified on the thread, it's not like I insulted the person in question. What exactly is my crime

50Kilometer:
Good thing they did that because you lack sense.

Thank You

Klass99:


You still don't have a valid case or argument here and you should edit your original post or take down this thread. By narrating your experience you initially made it sound like the boss had done you some of kind wrong when he hasn't.

You could have indicated your need for a job without reference to him, the job he gave you and all that. For all you know this guy may have valid reasons for not engaging you any further for work which he hasn't communicated.

If I had a vacancy or role to fill I won't contact you either based on this thread because what you are doing is off putting. You are new to the world of work, this is not how things are done ooo.

Okay madam... What is your problem with my thread? I didn't say anything bad about my boss, I'm just upset about how I was ghosted without any reason. But if you feel its okay then I wish you the same. Thank you

Klass99:


In that case die this matter and move on. You can ask the Mods to help you delete the thread as well and start looking for new work to do.

The intention of the post wasn't to call anyone out, just narrating my experience and hoping for a better job.

Klass99:
Did he at least pay you for the period of time you worked? Perhaps he wasn't pleased with the blog content you produced and rather than have an honest conversation with you about it, he was cowardly like most managers and bosses are. They shy away from giving honest feedback on a person's work when it is in their best interest and yours for them to do so. If he didn't pay you pls drop his username so other forumites will not fall prey to him.

He never complained, but always made corrections where necessary. He's not owing though, he even sent me 5k overdraft last month for data and I only worked a few days before he stopped work... So I'm still owning him like 2k or so if I minus the number of days I worked.

As a fresh graduate I've been scavenging Nairaland job section like my life depends on it, luckily I got a remote job a couple of months back with a pay of 25k from a Nairalander to work as a website admin.

My job description was basically to source for content and publish on the blog. I was managing the job while looking for something better. After working for a month and half I tried logging in to the site to discover that I was no longer able to post.

I contacted my boss and he kept asking me to wait that he will get back to me. I kept calling almost daily because I knew the work was on pay as you work basis so I was a bit desperate cos bills were pilling up. Towards ending of last month he gave me a new job description with the salary reduced to 20k and still paused the job after one week with instruction to get back to him on the first day of this month.

All messages and calls to this baba since then has been unanswered without reply. I just feel hurt being left hanging in that way, at least he would have told me that I'm being sacked so I can channel my hope else where.

studentwriter:
gimme his number.
so far he's not a scam I'll write for him

People like you are the reason these guys have the temerity to offer scrubs to writers, do you know what it takes to research and come up with 1k words... For #0.5 haba it's too poor abeg

illicit:
Is it chatinent

I don't think so