SweetCunt97:
They took away ur kids since 2014 and you now crying out in 2021?

Or you abandoned the kids with him cos you could cope or care for them?

everything happen in 2014 I search for them till 2016 all to no avail he has always been boasting that I had no one in my family that can say or do him anything I tried my best to see them he hid them in onitsha then I rest I keep telling my mum to keep and eye since I left the city then in2018 i heard he is tired of hiding them he brought them back to be staying with their grand mum (his mum)that was when I started visiting till last Sunday that I got a massage that he came and took the girl and left the boy to his new wife as a maid and the boy hasn’t been feeling well ever since they took his sister away

ARCHEMEDESME:

You heard ? . Did you confirm it yourself?

yes I did I came to see them I saw only the boy i ask of the girl they say his dad came and took him to onitsha were they reside that his wife has given birth so she could be helping out��

[quote author=Suresoniaabia post=99367697]he has refuse saying they are his kids and not mine

fineboynl:
is it not the fellow woman like yourself that is matreating her?. or is it your husband? go and collect them but note that he wouldn't be obliged to pay anything there after. you have to feed them maybe he will only pay school fees. there is another woman In between which will stand on the way. sending money is hard in this part of the world. other wise leave them there until you have something doing that can cater for them.

he has refused

Suresoniaabia:
we married traditional I said this before I met him at a tender age even at that it’s only white wedding we did not do we did every other necessary things so try to be sure before posting

am just 31 I have a fiancé I can’t start training 2 kids now when there dad is financially okay and they family hates me because am from another state which they don’t like. My mum is there I wanted to get them to stay with my mum while he drop something for them at least every month while I do they remained ones that’s all am asking for but he refuse

Teleprompter:
It is a mystery how a man took two children from you.

It is not impressive that you can not single handedly raise your own kids. What if he died?

Ladies, let us learn to do better. Having children after marriage is not beans talk less of having it outside wedlock and again talk less of having children without a tangible source of income.

Do not bother trying to get him to pay child support. Focus on getting a steady and profitable job and then file for custody.

we married traditional I said this before I met him at a tender age even at that it’s only white wedding we did not do we did every other necessary things so try to be sure before posting

mariahAngel:


Have you checked on your kids since the time he took them away?
Do you communicate directly with them?

he hid them from me I search everywhere I cried I beg his mum they said i won’t see them till 2018 someone told me they are with there grand mum that was when I start visiting them

Vyolet:
If you are sure there is any form of maltreatment truly, Go to child welfare office in your state and report him there, they will invite the two of you with representative from your families, they will help you reach an agreement on whatever he will be dropping monthly for the kids while they in your custody.

It is however important for you to have something worth doing for yourself, you can't depend on your baby papa for long, it is not every man that is responsible therefore you have to take responsibility for yourself.

thanks for your advice I will ask questions and know their location

Hammyaladin:
So sorry! What age?

i was just 19 when I met him

Suresoniaabia:
okay

i really want to but how

Hammyaladin:
*Moral of The Story*

"Girls Make una close una legs oh"

i hear but it happened long time ago I was still a teenager then

Inspiration007:
Simple question, una don begin dey figh

we married traditionally

lilvicky68:

If I don't say this I won't rest... madam you're beautiful...

thanks

chatinent:
Long stories short, send a message, and I will link you to some officers who'd help you.

okay

thanks but I want him to pay child support If i took them just like that he will feel less concerned and I can’t train 2 children all by my self now

Hello Nairalanders am a 31 years old ladies am a mum of 2 but my baby daddy took away my children since we separated since 2014 now I heard he is using the girl which is just 11 years old as a maid to his new wife they reside in onitsha. I want to know if there is any organization that can make him pay child support and the kids will be under my custody. Please I really need help

how can a pussy be tight

you lied count me out that’s why my fiancé love me more if I have he already know we have

May her soul Rest In Peace we girls don suffer shall

Naso