omega25red:

well if you are friends and never fight, what changes when you label your friendship as a relationship?
If you guys get back together you have to remember why you never fight as friends and keep that feeling going.

Exactly.

Well, you'll never know unless you try. If you don't try you will always wonder about what might have been. If you're afraid of ruining the friendship, take style to find out if your friend would ever go for it before asking directly. For instance, tell the friend a story about best friends who started dating and are now happily married (or something like that). Listen to the comments your friend makes about it to find out whether you can ask for a relationship or not. Good luck!

D-sense:

[size=30pt]Accept your fate . . .And keep quite!! [/size]

LOL! Love it!

My dear, I sympathise with you, kpele. Yes, what he did was wrong but you have to consider this a learning experience and move on. Many women forget themselves when they meet a man and try to change to make the man happy. What happens in the end? They become something different from what the man was attracted to in the first place and he loses interest. Don't change yourself to please a man! Men enjoy a challenge and don't want a woman that they can change whenever they feel like it. They want a strong woman. In the animal kingdom, even among insects, it's the male that does everything he can to attract the female. The male bird makes himself more attractive with bright feathers, the rooster has the bright red comb and puffs himself up to look bigger, the male insects dance - all to get the female interested! When the next man comes, let him do the chasing and the changing. Men come and go, but you remain. Build your confidence, enjoy your life. Say to yourself, "I'm over him. NEXT!" and move on. Remain yourself.