[b][b]@frank3.16,
Thanks for your advice but pray that none of your sis will experience what am going through now.
God knows if i did anything wrong to Austin to warrant this kind of humiliation,let me not survive this pregnancy.as for you thinking that i slept with his friends,am not a saint but what i didnt do when i have the opportunity to do i cant try it wen am married.only o fool can do that and i know am not one
His family sided him as a result of lies he told them and been the one they look up to,nobody want to question his behavior to avoid being in his bad books except his elder sis.
as for my fathers demise,you dont understant the pain of seeing your father died in your hand as a result of false allegation labelled against his daughter.(the pain was too much for him and he gave up.I dont need to explain what i have been through and i dont even need you to pity me anyway cos you are entittled to your own opinion.
I leave all to God .
Thanks.


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Thanks so much,you all are wonderfull people.
May God Almigthy bless you all(Topup) et al.

Hear my story friends,

Am new here and i enjoy the love and advice you guyz share, so i need your candid advice before i do something stupid.

Anytime i seat dowm in my deepest thougt,i ask GOD, WHY ME,
Am in a deep pain,why God.

My story goes like this.,

Am a girl of 26,just finish my compulsory National service,looking for job
It is funny but true.When i got admission,i made vow to my God that i want to keep myself and be a good girl my parents always wanted me to be.
By the grace of god,i kept my promise by retainig my viginity till when i meet with a guy i want to spend the rest of my life with(he resides in Portharcourt,a banker) but at the end what did i get?
BETRAYAL,
I met this guy in March 2007 ,then i was in my final year.we started as friend cos i meet hm through a cousin of his that haappens to be my friend in school.we keep relating as friends till 2008,he proposed to me(before i went for service) he came to my house to see my parents and declare his intention of marrying me.A date was fixed for paying of bride prize and everything went well.Before then,he introduce me to his friends and and family and they are loving people to be with anyway.As the tradition will have it, i spent sometime with him and his people and one thing leads to another i was disflowers,
he didnt expect that i was still a virgin.everything was practically going on well i didnt snce anything bad only that his job takes much of his time
to cut the whole story short,i GOT PREGNANT AND TO MY GREATEST SUPRISE.He lied to me that he is not the one responsible for my pregnancy.
He said all sort of bad thing about me.to the extent of beating and throwing my things from his house the day i went visiting>My father of whom i cherisheed so much died of heartbreak as a result of shame and humiliaion cos i happened to be his most cherished daughter.
Am the first child in the family of 5,3 boys and two girls.ever since then, my life has been hell.i tried killing my self but was caught on different ocassion.
My fellow brothers and sister,i need your candid advice on what to do about the pregnancy cos the last time i heard from my friend ,she said AUSTIN has relocated to Canada( i tried everything to contact him all to no avail,Even the family is not ready to hear anything from my family.except his elder sister that understands the whole stuation .she always come to my house to console me and my mother and plead on behalf of Austin but we hv not heard from her for long now.
I dont want to give birth to a child that will always remind me about my husband and my late father.my life is shattered,i cant go out again cos the news has spread every where.
What did i do to deserve this humilliation from a man i gave my pride and my love to.why did God allow this kind of thing to happen to me.everyday in my house is tears,i pray my mum will last for me cos she is the only person that understand me.
I placed a curse on him cos he just came and shattered my life i find it hard to move on.
everyday,i go to the blssed sacrament and be cryiny to my God.WHY ME WHY ME LORD.plz my felow people,advice me if am your sis.
I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO AGAIN.