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My guy why not focus on your hustle and make some money then you can bleep as much girls as you want and dump them when you are done. Do you think it's love that small girl saw in Bed Nwoko that made her marry him. Girls are moved by material things. Forget the Africa Magic love movies, no true love anywhere. Love na scam cos when better opportunity arises they will switch. princeiceberg: 1 Like |
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Bring your sister and you will be the judge if my reproductive system is intact or not. Blessade: |
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Your siblings blood can get you that. heartbraker: |
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Let me know when your father collects his pension and gratuity and want to build that his dream 1 bedroom bungalow. I can as well supply him clay cos he won't be able to afford cement. Tony142: |
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Guy wake up from your dream joor..... Day don break 1 Like |
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Hi, I am presently facing some financial challenges to boost my business and I have reached out to seek help non is forth coming so I came to a conclusion that I will have to use what I have to get what I need. I am AA and 6.1ft tall, intelligent and good looking. I have three kids already 2 boys and 1 girl and they are so healthy. I am willing to donate my sperm or be a surrogate for any woman having challenges of conception due to infertile partner. I am ready to sign a contract or agreement when payment terms are met and also any test needed am also ready to undergo it but at the person expense. Write to me on my email and I will respond. Thanks |
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Hi Nairalanders, I will try to make this short as possible. I just relocated to Abuja and not pretty settled and would love to join networks of positive and business oriented people as friends. Lets network please so I can channel the few energy inside of me to the right course. Thanks |
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Top of the day to all car owners and drivers. It is so unfortunate the high cost of maintaining vehicles in Nigeria especially Lagos due to bad roads and quack mechanics who use your car as practicals and trial and error. Most car faults and unnecessary break down are caused as a result of lack of maintenance culture on the part of the drivers in possession of the car. I have a detailed write up to help you understand some steps to take and lists of routine maintenance advised to be carried out on your vehicle periodically before the starting of each day. Click on https:///3mcTipW to read more. Information is power and a times a little information can go a long way to save some few Naira and avoid the avoidable. Click on https:///3mcTipW to read more. |
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Top of the day to all car owners and drivers. It is so unfortunate the high cost of maintaining vehicles in Nigeria especially Lagos due to bad roads and quack mechanics who use your car as practicals and trial and error. Most car faults and unnecessary break down are caused as a result of lack of maintenance culture on the part of the drivers in possession of the car. I have a detailed write up to help you understand some steps to take and lists of routine maintenance advised to be carried out on your vehicle periodically before the starting of each day. Click on https:///3mcTipW to read more. Information is power and a times a little information can go a long way to save some few Naira and avoid the avoidable. Click on https:///3mcTipW to read more. |
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Top of the day to all car owners and drivers. It is so unfortunate the high cost of maintaining vehicles in Nigeria especially Lagos due to bad roads and quack mechanics who use your car as practicals and trial and error. Most car faults and unnecessary break down are caused as a result of lack of maintenance culture on the part of the drivers in possession of the car. I have a detailed write up to help you understand some steps to take and lists of routine maintenance advised to be carried out on your vehicle periodically before the starting of each day. Click on https:///3mcTipW to read more. Information is power and a times a little information can go a long way to save some few Naira and avoid the avoidable. Click on https:///3mcTipW to read more. |
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Top of the day to all car owners and drivers. It is so unfortunate the high cost of maintaining vehicles in Nigeria especially Lagos due to bad roads and quack mechanics who use your car as practicals and trial and error. Most car faults and unnecessary break down are caused as a result of lack of maintenance culture on the part of the drivers in possession of the car. I have a detailed write up to help you understand some steps to take and lists of routine maintenance advised to be carried out on your vehicle periodically before the starting of each day. Click on https:///3mcTipW to read more. Information is power and a times a little information can go a long way to save some few Naira and avoid the avoidable. Click on https:///3mcTipW to read more. |
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Thanks for your intelligence and wisdom. PhantomXcess: |
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NYSC side in Kubwa and I am a Security Operative with first degree. tunjijones: |
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Yeah thanks for the constructive criticism and now it's really understable and I will make use of those points has highlighted by all. Thanks. BarristerAlarig: 1 Like |
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Honestly, I don't see the house chores as a big deal and as a matter of fact I don't need her to tell me to get that done cos it is a way of being responsible. My issue and why I raised that point was I noticed she nags and complains more even when it isn't necessary. She only behave normal and act loving again whenever she needs sex and I am honestly holding back on that cos with the little I have seen, getting her pregnant would complicate things for me and she gets more infuriated when I hold back on the sex. I just pray God opens a way for me before it's too late for me cos it's really affecting me emotionally. I disgust nagging women who doesn't consider peaceful communication without raising there voice. McSquishi: 1 Like 3 Shares |
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I will implore you to carefully read people's write up properly before commenting and understand the context well. Kindly quote me where I ever complained about asking her for money or being entitled to her money and as a matter of fact I still support with some expenses like fuelling, cooking gas, water and electricity bills. I have some tokens I make online which is not coming regularly but still support when it drops. Stop being sentimental or portraying your feminism out of anger or annoyance. All I asked for is not you judging me but how to right all wrongs and you are here playing the perfect one. Please be calming down and learn to take a chill pill on people's issues and not complicate things for them abeg. BarristerAlarig: 6 Likes 1 Share |
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Thanks for your words of advise. God bless. Yusufisraelj: |
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Thanks so much for your words of encouragement. I will seek God's face in prayers for divine connection and favor. AwesomeStormy00: 1 Like |
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Thanks for the advise, honestly I think that is the exact strategy I will use to buy time for myself. I will have to play the fool and obedient child while I work on my plan B. I don't think it's worth being depressed cos if I die life goes on for her. May God bless all the guys in the house financially cos without money love and respect vanishes. McSquishi: 17 Likes 2 Shares |
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Though you sounded harsh to me but the fact is that you are actually right cos that was the most stupid decision I took and I can't reverse that which is why am here to seek advise so I won't make a more worse one. Like I said I had a back up plan which is my car I left in Lagos and intentionally don't want to bring it to Abuja to do side hustle cos I want to know her attitudes in worse case scenario and I never expected within 3 months she will turn boss lady on me. aroundtheearth: 11 Likes 1 Share |
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Three months pass and am already feeling the heat, for now just wanna play the fool and double my hustle without letting her know my plans and at the slightest opportunity I move. Nothing as sickening as having a nagging wife lefulefu: 25 Likes 1 Share |
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I wasn't even thinking of becoming a parasite cos we both were doing fine when we met and she promised all the support she can give till I settle down fully but with the covid 19 lockdown and all the whole thing changed. It was a genuine feelings I had for cos what she lacked in beauty and my taste she gave it back in being caring and love but the absence of money from end is not helping matters and the beast in her was so uncoverable no more. mariahAngel: 10 Likes 2 Shares |
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Yes you are right I actually accepted her cos then I was seeing anyone and secondly am in my late 30s too and I felt this is a good opportunity to set my self up in the family way but the way she changed overnight due to the fact that the job search wasn't going the way we expected. Na money be man true true. lefulefu: 43 Likes 2 Shares |
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I actually don't have issues with the house chores as a way to assist her but the bad mouth is really killing me. McSquishi: 7 Likes |
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[Thanks for being nice to me. Your advise is well received. Normal me knows what to type but I got soft when he mentioned depression, let me not just add to it[/quote] 5 Likes |
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Please I Need Your Candid And Long Term Advise, I Am Presently Depressed And Out This will be a lengthy one but I promise to summarize it as much as I can. I met a lady in her late 30s 18months ago through an online friend. I was working in Lagos while she was based and working in Abuja. We chatted for a while before she volunteered to come to Lagos for a visit over the weekend which doesn't seem a bad idea to me cos I believed seeing in person is better than 1 million pictures. Due to her age and desperation, we met and she liked what she saw in me and intensive talks began on how I can relocate to Abuja and get better job. I actually haven't been to Abuja so I was excited to take that move with the hope of becoming a better person and getting a better job. I resigned from my job due to some issues as at that time which could had been managed but so I can have more time to visit and see how things are in Abuja before making my final preparation to relocate. She supports financially during those time while I use my car for ehailing business pending when I will finally relocate. Covid 19 lock down came and all plans were halted due to restrictions on vehicular movements. Fast forward to November last year I made final plans and I agreed to finally relocate but on the conditions that we will need to get a new apartment cos I don't want to move in with her to her former apartment which was a one room self contain, we got a 1 bedroom apartment and I moved in with her. She owns 90% stake on the expenses incurred but in the spirit of hope for a better job, I will upgrade the apartment to have an equal stake in the home. It's been 3 months now I have fully relocated and we have been cohabiting but it's been hell for me and I just need help on how to get out of this mess I put myself. No job was forth coming and due to the fact that I am home always, I have been reduced to a house help cos I am the one doing the chores, cleaning the dishes and even my laundry though she pays for her own, so many other insults and atimes it's with exchanges of words before I can take a walk just to acclimatize myself with the terrains of the area. It's really a bad experience for a man not to have a steady source of income cos in a twinkle of an eye the love will vanish. I love the lifestyle of Abuja cos it is less stressful than Lagos and I will really like to get a good source of income so I can get my own apartment and be free from the shackles I put myself in the name of love. I really need help now cos I know my days are numbered and it's a matter of time before she sends me packing cos I really don't have the right to the apartment. Please house, I need your candid advise on what to do and as always constructive criticism is allowed. Thanks Switchman 71 Likes 10 Shares |
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