Waoh......

I finally made front page after like ages to the extent that i had to change to a new moniker.

Dancing skelewu.....

Lesson:

Most times those things we do non-challantly might turn out to be the one that will take you to zenith.

#LessonLearnt

I have been with my husband for a while now and I can say we have been doing well for ourselves. But i have a problem with some relatives that are turning us into their atm machine. My husband has an uncle who has always had other people taking care of his children (5children from 3 different women) for him whilst he goes out to enjoy himself without a care in the world.

Last year my in laws asked us to take in one of his daughters so she could go to school in the city. I was hesistate at first since i did not know much about her or the father, but eventually I warmed up to the idea. Fast forward 6months later, I am sick and tired of it. She does not do her homework without being forced and sometimes she skips school. I have already been called 3times by her teacher making complaints about her attitude in class and her perfomance. If you do not dig for her homework from her bag she will not do it. This girl is already 11 and she is only in grade 4 and she bed-wets.

I do not usually resort to beating a child because I have told myself that should be the last resort, but at the same time I am tired of buying things for her because she is always destroys them. She will wear her best clothes to go play with mud outside and she has turned her school shoes in slippers. She is always losing her stationery and she has torn 2 of her school uniforms already. She once broke the toilet and we had to get a new (not toilet seat, i mean the actual damn toilet) and she broke the plasma in the living room barely 5months after we got it.

As if she is not a big enough headache, her father always finds himself in my house almost every month and he will not leave until you compensate him for coming to your house uninvited. Of course he will expect you to give him money and groceries to take home.

Everything has been frustrating my husband as well and he is considering taking the girl back to her father's house as soon as schools close and to be honest i really do not have a problem with that, but my issue is that his family is against the idea because its not a christian thing to do (1Timothy 5v8)

To those who have been in the same situation, how did you resolve it amicably and where did you draw the line?

As i write this i'm totally broken, never been this sad and betrayed in my entire life, i don't know what to do anymore.
Yesterday my sis called me after work and told me she wanted to tell me something, that she can't tell me over the phone, i was with my fiance during the phonecall, lately i've been staying with him, nd we have been planing a wedding in the next few months, my sister said i don't know the kind of person i'm staying with nd she still insisted on not saying anything till wen we meet on sunday (my free day).
At that statement, i became curious nd comfronted my fiance if he had any disagreement with my sister, he said no, so i told him what she said, immediately, his countenance changed nd i knew that something was definitely wrong, he said he has a confession to make but don't know how to tell me, i became angry nd said i was goin to my parent house to ask my sister since he was'nt saying anything.
He started begging me, telling me to remember all we have been through together, and seriously we both started as family frnds for a long time before it led to a relationship, we started a business together when we had nothing, not even a house, now we have achieved so many things together and started living comfortably to some extent, my school fee, everything comes from the business, my parent don't assist me in anyway, although he brought like 80% of capital into the business.we have been dating for almost 4 years.
Now he confessed that he slept with my sister once while we were like 3 months together, that she was all over him, that he never knew we will come this far, i actually came to visit him that day with my younger sister, when i left them to get something from the market was when it happend, this is someone i've given everything to and totally trust, he has kept this as secret for over 3 years and nw he's begging me to forgive him, i'm lost at what to do, i know my sister to be wayward but i never imagined she could do this to me i'm just 24 yrs, pls advise me people and forgive my typo errors

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Hi Fellow Aspirant,

Due to need for the BSc cadre aspirants and other cadres' to be better equipped for the task ahead when the list for the BSc cadre is made public later this month , i thought it wise for those ( Diploma and SSCE cadres') that have had their physical screening to share their experience here.

So my dear aspirant, come down here and gist us on how the exercise went.

Thank You as you comply.

God will see us through. Amen

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Snow30:


But why does mine show no scholarship offer. Same with someone that had interview on Monday. Check again today.

I dont know bro. I was interviewed on Tuesday.

@Snow , are you on our whatsApp group chat? If No, you can kindly drop your number so i add you and perhaps you might get the answer you so much needed.

Thank You.

Snow30:
Hey guys. Is this general for everyone that partook in the interview. On my application page, it is showing pending review... And previous offer:no offer for scholarship....

Please answer.....

I think it's the same thing with mine.I saw *pending review* in the *application status* section but the only difference is in the *result section* where i saw *pending review*

I think is generic-though I might be wrong.

spicyuzo:
Hello guys....Hope you are all good....Had my interview today and i seriously don't have the right words to explain how it went. Something tells me it was good, on the other hand i feel i could have done better. I spent about 5mins with the panel. In all may the will of God come to pass.

Amen.

We are waiting oooooo!!!

Hi peeps,

I noticed that other countries have threads where students find out or give information on how they cope in a country, but recently, i found out that Turkey has no such thread ( I stand to be corrected though)

On that premise is why this thread is created to give us information as regards to how one can be able to study conveniently in Turkey so we make informed decision for those that are already studying there or prospective students

So those that are studying there or anybody that has anything to contribute should come in.

Waiting for your contributions.
Thank You.

Snow30:


No its not for BEA its for Turkish burslari scholarship....sorry for the late replies

Thank you John Snow!!!

Omoocash:
I guess those undergraduate that did interview today are for BEA Bilateral Education Agreement while those undergraduate slatted for 15th are for Turkiye Scholarships. My observations though. Because snow that had interview today 13th is for BEA.

@ Snow is that true? Was it for BEA or the Turkish scholarship that you were interviewed for?

Hi,
How was the interview today? Those that did their interview today should fill us in please.

Thank You.

Hello peeps,

Please those of us that are having their interview today should come here and update us of the likely questions that they were asked.

Also, goodluck to those of us that are going to Abuja today for tomorrow's interview. Success to all.

Thank You.

ibnkokumo:
Hello Guys, So for those getting error response here is a solution.
I have been getting same error message. but I'm using a trick to login.
Step 1. Login by visiting Http://tbbs.turkiyeburslari.gov.tr , after loggin in, you'll get the error message. Smile*
Step 2. on the address bar, erase the current page address and replace with ( http://tbbs.turkiyeburslari.gov.tr/OBS/Application/MyApplication ) it will automatically log you into your application page. so look out for a blue icon, click it thats the summary page. if you're using Chrome browser click CTRL+P it will show the print page, under destination, click change, then click "save as PDF" then save. Thats all. Thank me lerra (08148435718) for further enquiries

Thank you for this!!!

Snow30:
or those that applied for turkey its going to be bastardically competitive.

http://www.turkiyeburslari.gov.tr/index.php/en/tum-haberler/853-turkiye-burslari-2016-basvurulari-rekor-bir-sayiyla-sona-erdi

The Turkish scholarship you are talking about is different from the federal BEA scholarship. The former is solely funded by the Turkish government while the latter is funded by the Nigerian government and its Turkish counterpart.

Thank You.

Hello peeps,

Please can anyone try to put their login details again because I think this error page is generic.

Its like they gave a time limit to accept the invitation and possibly print out the summary of the application.

This is what I just observed now.

Who has tried it again?

Keep the calls coming in. Thank you for all your calls. Nice doing business with you guys.

We are still at your service people.

ibnkokumo:
Hi, I've been accepted for Interview too.. my interview date is June 15. How do I contact you?

Mine is on the 14th of June. I am a PG - Masters candidate. My mobile number is 07033455570

solnard1996:
if u want to check the universities u applied for, open your application, go to my application, u will see a blue icon near the word summary, click on it. everything will appear.

Thank you dear. I have already done that- someone informed us about it here.

A quick question: Are you also a prospective scholar called for interview next week?

usqoh:

Good. This one na like first class. Assuming u had ur first degree in UK, u would have been awarded a first class. I would most likely be compensated.

Bros e pain me reach my marrow when I calculated my CGPA and realised it was 4.44 , but what can I do. It still pains me even now. I was the 2nd best from my department and the guy that was above me had a 1st class with 4.52 or so.

Whenever i am asked my grade I always try to include that I came out with "a Painful 2'1" and I will always stress the "painful".

divineappo:
well, i knew u were joking.

well, for ur info, DSS operatives are on nairaland. pls be careful on nairaland. they wil neva believe u were joking oo. i hear they track pple via social media, even harrass them. just for ur info sha. take care bro.

Noted bro!!!

Snow30:
This is the calender. Looks like results will be out august. July is for collation of results

Yes , we will know our fate by August when the scholars for the scholarship would be announced. I am just not happy with the idea of going to Abuja again for the visa interview if we are chosen. I pray all of us here will be chosen. Amen

ajiboye68:
Please how and when do you people apply cuz of we prospective applicants..what is the cost of application..please throw more light into the above questions and other useful information

It cost us nothing to apply. Just go to their site and apply by next year. Application opened February this year till first week of April.

Wish you success next year.

Thank you

Omoocash:
How many of us are in this category? ?? Are we just four. only four of us have been responding to the comments. If you are in this category please show up. We need you and your comments.

I don't think we are much from Nigeria- till we get to Abuja sha.

Snow30:


We are far from that....out of 72k ppl , 10k were chosen for interview. Out of the 10k, 5k will finally be chosen for the scholarship. The results of interview is mostly released a month after.

From what I read from their site, 95,000 candidates applied from 127 countries worldwide after which 5, 000 scholars will be chosen so I don't know the number that were shortlisted for interview yet by the committee.

I don't know the number of Nigerians that applied and how many where called for interview. Let's keep our fingers crossed until we get to Abuja.

I don't just want to believe that after going to the embassy for interview that we will still go their again for visa interview.

If that would be the case then why did they ask us to come with our int'l passport?

Many questions begging for answers but till then let's keep hope alive.

Thank you peeps.

Hi peeps,

I want to know if are we going to be given our visas if we pass the interview by the committee or we are going to go to Abuja again for visa interview?

Who can expatiate please?

Thank you

Omoocash:
Am now able to access all my details including all the 12 departments and universities that I chose and all the information I provided during application.

I just printed my form now. I can now sit down and read what I filled so I won't be thrown off balance come Tuesday.

God will see us through. Amen!!!

Omoocash:
Am now able to access all my details including all the 12 departments and universities that I chose and all the information I provided during application.

I just printed my form now. I can now sit down and read what I filled so I won't be thrown off balance come Tuesday.

thank God

ChiomaMC:
Pls i hope ds is not d federal gov bea scholarship with Turkish gov. cos i'm expecting dat one.

This thread is for the federal govt BEA with many countries like Japan, Ukraine, Russia, South Korea, Turkey, Egypt, etc

ChiomaMC:
Pls, is ds one d same as d federal gov.bea scholarship. Cos i'm expecting dat one.. Pls help with info

This is not the same scholarship with BEA scholarship. This is a direct scholarship funded solely by the Turkish govt for International scholars.

Thank You.