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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Jobs/vacancies Section Chatroom by tekel(m): 9:06am On Mar 27, 2017 |
fufuNegusi: Am leaving my present position for a new and amazing job And am asked to look for my replacement So lemme give back to the community that has given me so much ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png)
A Microfinance Bank is looking for an IT SUPPORT/SYSTEM ADMINISTRATOR But you must have to reside between ikotun, ijegun, igando, jakande, isolo, iyana ipaja, idimu within the alimosho axis Networking knowledge is an added advantage
salary scale is within 40-50k (Please do not disclose this to the HR if you are successful for an interview)
You must bring your CV in person to the Head of HR Please if you are interested and very experienced quote me with your email address so i can send you the contact address of the bank...
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Sports / Re: .......... by tekel(m): 8:17am On Mar 25, 2017 |
Samrano30: instead of accumulator......u will see double , trixie.......it means if u want two to come ...u have to choose double .....if its 3 choose trixie.......thank u under the log were am supposed 2 stake my bet, I can see multiple and system, I should click on the system right? |
Sports / Re: .......... by tekel(m): 7:24am On Mar 25, 2017 |
please how can i play d 3/4 or 2/4 etc accumulation on bet9ja. thanks |
Sports / Re: .......... by tekel(m): 10:23pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
please can someone help me out on how to play d 3/4 or 2/4 etc on bet9ja.
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Sports / Re: .......... by tekel(m): 9:16pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
BigotMan:
You should know that in POOL, two proofs can point to a single match to draw please bro, can u help me out on how to play d 3/4 or 2/4 etc on bet9ja. thanks |
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Computers / Re: Post Your Computer (PC) Troubles Here. by tekel(m): 6:48pm On Mar 10, 2017 |
please fellas I need help. I woke up on Tuesday morning to switch on my laptop but it couldn't. tried every stuff I saw online but it came out negative. I took it to technicians but still negative, they all concluded I need 2 changed motherboard. please am devastated, someone should please come 2 my rescue.. the laptop is a HP 250 G3. |
Romance / Re: Twelve Common Things Guys Do To Screw Up With Girls by tekel(m): 10:20am On Nov 17, 2016 |
Aginjusola: I recommend you to follow number 10. Best luck also thanks for the praise I hope it helps thanks bro. u need 2 see the message i sent her recently, i really bleeped up.. but i will leave her for now and i hope it helps.. thanks once again. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Twelve Common Things Guys Do To Screw Up With Girls by tekel(m): 10:03am On Nov 17, 2016 |
Aginjusola: 11. When she walks by, you always give her your fullest attention
Inexperienced guys think that when he sees the girl walk by, he should drop everything to give her his fullest attention. If he's with friends, he leaves his friends to talk to her. If he's doing something important, he puts it away. If he's on the phone, he hangs up. He wants her to know she's top priority. What a great boyfriend he'd make, right?
LAME MOVE!! roflol.gif Congratulations for landing in her friendzone in record time.
Of course, you must give special attention. But give too much and it longer becomes special. If everyday was Christmas, nobody would celebrate it. The attention you give should be about quality, not quantity. So once-in-a-while, become an absolute sweetheart and sweep her off her feet. Other times, you give friendly attention. Other times, say "hi" and move on. And once-in-a-rare while, you ignore her. You might think she'll get pissed and dump you. WRONG. No girl ever loses interest because the guy walked by without saying "hi". She might not like it, but it will only make her realize how much she values your attention.
Another thing. Girls want a guy who's popular and has a life. If a guy is constantly surrounded by cool people (especially girls), he will be perceived as being more attractive. An average-looking guy who's popular and fun will always go on more dates than a good-looking boring loner. To show that you're a fun guy, she must see you laughing and socializing with other people. Now, why can't you do both? Why can't you socialize with her and your other friends? Because you also want her to see that you can have fun without her. That means, you will need to sometimes ignore her while she sees you busy socializing with other people.
Think about it. Do you think she stays up at night pondering about you playing Xbox alone on a Saturday evening? Or is she pondering about what kind of wild partying you're doing without her on a Saturday evening?
12. You do not believe in yourself
I sort of cheated on this last tip. Not believing in yourself is not a "mistake", it's an attitude. But this concept is so important, I feel a need to include it. This concept is everything. LISTEN UP!! clapping.gif
Why do you guys make the mistakes mentioned on this thread? Simple. Because you lack confidence and self-esteem. Without it, you compensate by being too nice, too romantic, too available, etc. If you had confidence, you wouldn't need to suck up to her. In fact, you would feel she should suck up to you instead.
THIS IS THE MOST VALUABLE "TIP" OF THIS THREAD. HAVING CONFIDENCE. Once you have it, you won't make these mistakes and you'll attract girls without trying.
So what are the traits of a CONFIDENT guy?
- He is friendly but never clings, kisses up or conforms to others to win friendship. - He makes people laugh and has interesting stories to share. - He is never hellbent on pursuing anyone...in fact, you often have to pursue him. - He is unafraid to make the first move. - He acts decisively and makes things happen, not wait for others to initiate. - He can be aloof, distant and unavailable. - He is outspoken, has opinions and speaks with enthuasism...but also knows when to STFU. - He has goals and interests that he pursues with passion - He does not get scared (at least he doesn't show it). - He seems to fit in no matter where he is or who he's with. - He is surrounded by fun and interesting people - He does the right thing regardless of the consequences. - He doesn't care what others think of him. - He is constantly busy (or seems that way). - He does not seek confrontation but never allows others to bully or step all over him. - He does not get emotional, petty, flustered or fussy. - He can disagree with others without offending them. - He is a leader without being an a--hole - He is a bit rebellous. - He lives for today. - He is popular without trying.
You must do whatever it takes to be this person. Girls will think you're "that cool guy" who has a life and worth chasing, not the spineless wimp wooing her with lame romantic garbage.
Some girls will try to tear down a confidence guy by calling him "conceited" or "arrogant" or "****y". Guess what? That's because she's madly interested in him!! She wouldn't try to change him if she weren't interested. She knows his confidence is sexy to other girls so she tears him down to reduce competition.
I know it's hard to gain confidence. It happens through years of doing the right thing, being proud of who you are -- and lots of practice. But once you have it, you'll walk around with that aura of coolness....something people call "charisma". Once you believe you're a person of value, girls will also believe it. If you don't excellent writeup op.. . Failure to initiate touching some guys refrain from touching because they're afraid of coming off as being too aggressive or perverted. Others believe they need to respect her personal space until they get permission to enter. These are the thoughts of "nice guys" -- thoughts that will land them squarely into the friendzone. Once you've established a friendship with her, you must start finding excuses to initiate brief touching. Start with something innocent like brushing her on her arm when something funny is said. You're testing whether she welcomes it. If she doesn't seem to mind or (better yet!) touches you back, you should escalate little by little over time until you can just put your arms around her without awkwardness. [/ quote] op this write up is excellent.. recently i was guilty of the one above. Please I have an issue help me out. There is this girl, she was all over me. So one day i went 2 see her, she lives with her senior sis but she was out. She gave me all the green light but for some bizarre reason i didn't make a move, not that i was scared because i played with her, lifting her up, licking her ear and all that. But that was all, no kissing and no sensitive touches. I wanted 2 take it slowly. So after that day she changed, she started acting up. So i decided 2 visit her again and give her d banging she wanted but i guess its already late. Was close 2 her house called her, she told me she wasn't around i got so angry that i yelled at her for her attitude. Few days later i called and apologized, told her i want 2 see her she promised she will come 2 my office ( managing my dad's business). Didn't see her, called her she didn't pick up, called her for more several days no pickup.. One day i saw her and her sister, they actually packed in front of my office, i came out called her 2 come inside, didn't see her i was so embarrassed. Days later i sent her a text, it was straight 2 d point, telling her i love her, how i was taking it slowly so feelings won't quench so quickly bla bla bla.. Yet no reply ever since.. I really Need 2 Bleep that girl 2 redeem my image. Please what's your advice |
Romance / Re: Twelve Common Things Guys Do To Screw Up With Girls by tekel(m): 9:47am On Nov 17, 2016 |
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Romance / Re: Guys, If A Lady Says These During Sex Then You Are Good On Bed by tekel(m): 9:22am On Nov 17, 2016 |
makelove2m: This can only happen when the relationship is fresh, after that period, every teeth smells, nagging starts and over demanding set in and what next................... , that guy under me will tell the story i have a feeling u will be of great help for me. Please I have an issue help me out. There is this girl, she was all over me. So one day i went 2 see her, she lives with her senior sis but she was out. She gave me all the green light but for some bizarre reason i didn't make a move, not that i was scared because i played with her, lifting her up, licking her ear and all that. But that was all, no kissing and no sensitive touches. I wanted 2 take it slowly. So after that day she changed, she started acting up. So i decided 2 visit her again and give her d banging she wanted but i guess its already late. Was close 2 her house called her, she told me she wasn't around i got so angry that i yelled at her for her attitude. Few days later i called and apologized, told her i want 2 see her she promised she will come 2 my office ( managing my dad's business). Didn't see her, called her she didn't pick up, called her for more several days no pickup.. One day i saw her and her sister, they actually packed in front of my office, i came out called her 2 come inside, didn't see her i was so embarrassed. Days later i sent her a text, it was straight 2 d point, telling her i love her, how i was taking it slowly so feelings won't quench so quickly bla bla bla.. Yet no reply ever since.. I really Need 2 Bleep that girl 2 redeem my image. Please what's your advice? |