aisha1314:


While I commend you for not abandoning her and the child like many young men would have done, if you knew you were not financially stable enough to support a child then you should have used condoms and made sure your girlfriend was on some form of contraceptive.
You need to find a job even if it's just a small one like maybe working as a houseboy, helping to pound yam and wash plates in a buker or eatery, a salesboy job etc. You can't keep depending on your parents to help you guys out. It's your child so it's your's and your girlfriend's responsibility, not your parent's.
I'm sure your girlfriend's father will allow her to come back to you and your child once she's feeling better. He probably just wants to be sure that she gets the medical attention she needs since your own parents can't provide that for her. If the baby is getting sick or not eating I suggest you take it to the hospital. Or maybe try a different kind of formula?
All this unwanted pregnancy troubles could easily be avoided if people could just be more responsible about safe sex.

Thank you you are right it was a mistake we would have avoided by using condoms but we were young and naive we had faith in pulled out method it fails us we have learn the lesson we should not repeat again I am seeking for job I am not happy seeing my mum struggling to provide for me and my baby I know she is not her responsibility I pray things will be fine for me soon so I will be able to provide for her with my own money ysday my sister bought lactogen and cerelac she has drank 75ml only she don't want to drink again today she want it in her cerelac but not in bottle the good thing is we have introduced the foods we adult eat she likes it better than pap we will stick to adult foods and cerelac

Romanoff:
If the mother is sick, she'll be unable to breastfeed, so formula is the only option.

If the baby isn't taking "my boy" formula, try NAN or Lactogen. They are also affordable.

The girls father just wants his daughter to get well and he also cannot deal with a sick daughter and a baby.

Your family has to take the baby to a pediatrician to explain what's going on so the pediatrician can advise and recommend a formula for you guys.

When we are shouting that you people should avoid premarital sex, you'd open your gutter mouths to insult people telling you nothing but the truth.

See where e done end so.

An unemployed boy sowing his seed irresponsibly.

She is not sick anymore she told me on phone she spend 2 days at the hospital it was lack of vitamin d that made her sick the doctor have prescribed medication for her she is at home we were talking on the phone she was telling me she misses the baby that I have to tell my parents to keep begging her dad to accept the baby suddenly I can't speak with her anymore her number is not working I think her dad have seize her phone or he change her number

olasaad:
Okay but the man has brought the matter here before you and nairalanders have contributed in the matter

Yes I know it was my sister that showed me the post most people have advise him to take both of them but he only took the mother and left the baby he said she is my responsibility my family and I should raise her

SeniorMan715:
Don't allow that baby to die, how can he separate barely a month baby from her mother, take the baby to his house let him arrest you, so the police can Come into the matter let see how he will defend himself child abuse, and human right offense,

I wish I could go there with the baby to kneel down and beg him to accept her but my dad refused he said

MufasaLion:


Then let your mom take charge of the welfare of the baby in your house. The baby will survive. There are millions of kids with no mother right after their birth.

My mum is trying her best but the baby is not cooperating she don't want milk or foods she want breast milk

Helpout12345:


How old is the baby?

She will clock 6 months on the 30th

MufasaLion:


Doesn't the mother of the child have a mother that can intercede?

Her mother is late she have a stepmother who separated with her father

doggedfighter:
Oh !


You are the said broke guy with sharp dick a father here talked about ?



Though your story is somehow inconsistent with what the man wrote here.


I don't think the said girl has grown up brothers.





Could this be from Joro to Joro !

Her father brothers that came to pick her up

MufasaLion:
Mr. Terminator, go and hustle for money and stop disturbing us. You deserve what the father is doing to you and your baby; albeit it's bad.

I am seeking for job I deserve it but the baby doesn't deserve she doesn't know anything

SeniorMan715:
Carry the baby go drop for their house that man foolish

He said he will arrest anyone who will put feet in his house my parents said I shouldn't go there

I got my girlfriend pregnant I accepted the responsibility I am not financially buoyant I am not doing anything for now my parents have assisted us with the little they could it wasn't sufficient because my girlfriend was sick after delivering my parents have tried until all the money was finished my dad said he have to contact her father to tell him about her daughter health problem because if anything happens without her father knowledge he can arrest us my dad contacted him he sent his brothers to pick her alone without the baby it is 3 weeks ago my parents are pleading with her father to please come collect the baby she is crying a lot she refuse to drink my boy milk and she is getting sick they said they will assit her with whatever they can but he refused we have tried everything to calm the baby and it is not working we are scared to loose her we don't know what to do again I know he hate me so much but he cant punish the innocent baby for my mistakes the man is here please beg him for me to have mercy on the innocent baby who needs her mother