nwakibe:
My own be say you must get belle before I Marry you.

Smile... we've seen couple who lost their children at there 50s... will you advice them to break up coz they no longer have kids to bind up the relationship. May that not be our portion.
Marriage is a partnership wether there is children, money or not.

IFEOLUWAKRIZ:


You can edit all your comments before deactivating your account. Without that, your comments will always show.

But the mod has ban me from even editing my profile, quoting or replying or editing any comment, I can only share.
Please, what can I do?

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Easybela:
the reason you were single all your years back before the marriage was to "BUILD YOUR FINANCE"
The reason you dated was to"GROW YOUR LOVE"
There is time for everything.

Dating someone in a real sense of it(no sex, no sleeping over, eyes pleasing attitudes), will never allow you to get to know the person u r marrying because you never spend 3 straight month together in the same room, pretence and fake life through dating will never allow you to unravel that.... Many secrets are know in marriage, dating is sweet not marriage but when enough time preceed giving birth you begin to endure and understand each other with time.

Brown14:


I can't say you are wrong on this.
I believe that's why most marriages are the way they are.get married and learn to live with your spouse and grow together for some time before children come in.
that way it'll never get boring.

Exactly!

I wish to deactivate my nairaland account but I am afraid if I do, some of my wrong comment, my contact here may be online forever and may be use against me in the future.

I think one of the major reason for break up is because we have given too much priority to Procreation.... given birth, rather than building a partnership first.
I think couple's should wait at least 2 to 4 years before allowing a kid to come in between them. Build your finance and grow your love.
Women are meant to be help meet.
What do you guys think?
Happy New Month.