bigeagleeye:
Run for your life...that is even if you can still do!

. Exactly what I would have typed, you better run if you still can, this one you still see him as nice and gentlemanly.

defemidefemi:
it's time to give the guy a red card. and u look gud babe.

Thank You

endy4oxide:
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I agree wit you but you have to inform your partner b4 chkin his phone ... Nd if you reli do trust your 'commited' partner why sneak on his fone like a tif..

isn't it better that I checked and saw things that he won't tell me himself?

ElFenomeno1:
Kill yourself!

No! I won't.

shejane:
I think you should confront him about it.. Let him defend himself then use ur God free sense and conclude wada U are d side chic or not. Communication is important In relationships

Exactly what I'm gonna do, thanks much.

Thanks to you all that has contributed.

endy4oxide:
First--- why wld you chk his fone. *i guess he was nt aware you did that

Don't react yet... Observe carefully . No your position if you the main chik or d side chik...

Ok, but why would he delete them? Its not as if the contents of the texts were erotic or something like that. Thanks though.

I was surprised and sad when I checked his phone and realised that he doesn't keep my text messages even the ones he sends to me but he kept one other one from another lady, what could this mean please? I'm anticipating your opinions o cos I don't want to react wrongly. Thanks.