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Offpoint, you have really shwn that you have a good and large heart. I like you and your courage. I apologize for any misinformation about you. Please forgive me. How ever, you can still help her if you wish to. God Bless You!

. Offpoint:
Are you out your freaking mind? if I were to be a scammer will I risk using my main nairaland account? if I were to be a scammer will I dropped the said girl bank account details instead of mine? do you read anywhere I mentioned the girl base in Lagos? or you have problems comprehending what "just relocated from Lagos" mean? or you can't differentiate different between FROM and TO? did I specifically mentioned she's 17 years old or I said "from her facial look, she should be between 17/18"?
Do you want me to upload the application letter I typed and printed out for her here?

please before you term someone scammer, you should do proper investigation before draw your conclusion. you should have listened to my side of the reasons I had to take the post out. please, next time make a proper finding.

I had to take down the thread cuz she asked me to... I remembered saying I didn't informed her about my intentions.

Offpoint, I didnt call you a scammer but your thread is a scam. Why dont you tell us the girl is your girlfriend? You got her account number promising to help send her something and you end up using it here to open a thread and you painted the story so well t get people's sympathy? Well, you are busted. The girl in question called me back few minutes ago to inform me that she told you to bring down the thread, because that was nt what you promised her.
please don't come here and call me a scammer, cuz you can cause a lot of damage to personality.

Can you get in touch with me? I am 47, gainfully employed. Call me on 08027575816

Ofpoint have to erase the thread because the story he painted here is fake. I called the said girl Odukoya Temitope Ruth and she confessed to me that her parents were not dead. That she is in Akure and not Lagos as I thought. That her age is 19 plus and not 17 as Offpoint said. That her parents were not dead but were separated but did not care for her. That herself and Offpoint were friends. Please Nairalanders don't send a kobo to that account number because it is a scam. The girl hang on me while asking her questions. In fact, she told me her parents were in Lagos while she is in Akure, later she said she is going to meet her parents in Ondo tomorrow. In a simple term the thread is a SCAM.

Re: Why Are Some Men This Heartless? Now I Hate Men! by Mrs.Chima(f): 12:18am
Get a white man.

Unlike Mrs. Chima

Frustration. I agree with you. How can a christian marry an Alhaji if not because of frustration!

Send him to Aro in Abeokuta. He is not a human being but an animal.

What if the man has tried several times to no avail? What must he do?

To the best of my knowledge, Marriage should be based on Trust, Love and Understanding. But what should one do if he/she feels that there is no more Love and Trust in His/her Marriage?

This sound like April Fool to me

@op,write the words SEARCHING FOR TRUE LOVE on a placard and hang it over your neck front and back.
Take pictures of you in different poses and upload them on this thread.
Its a straight way to jackpot!

That is madness, why will I do such. Please be serious

killz The possibility is LIMITLESS!

Why did you say this? Tell me your own view

Please, teach me the ways and method. I am dead serious.

Many times I read thread on Nairaland which made me wonder if one can truly get LOVE, a honest and genuine wife on Nairaland. Is ther a possibility?

So the man cannot go to the kitchen and serve his food abi? if cooking was the issue here, i will say No it is not good for her not to cook, as long as there is food in the house, how many seconds will it take a man to go to the kitchen and dish himself a plate of rice and ten chiken thigh in the pot? People should start learning how to do things on their own. Kai!!!

I always have repsects for you when I read your comments, but this one made me loose one of the respect. How can you say such. A wife's duty is to serve her husband inrespect of quarrell or no quarell. It is not right for the woman to ignore her responsibility, no matter what happens.

To start with, for raising his hands to hit you in the first place shows that he is not a man. He is an animal. Any man that raises his hands to hit a woman is an animal. Both men and women has given you their candid advises, beware. A word is enough for the wise.

Why now? Where do they expect someone looking for job to get #3000? They are thieves, don't fall for them

The Testimony of of Bro Paul Ado Bayero is nothing but the TRUTH, so all the Muslims on this forum saying jagons are saying it to defend their BASTARD religion.

I was a Muslim by birth. But i got converted into Christianity and I was severely beaten by one of my uncle that my left leg was broken. It took the grace of God to heal me.

My conversion took place in 1988 and up till today, my family are yet to accept me as a true child of that family. They treated me as if i am an alien.

Read more about me in my website: www.thebrideng.webs.com

Please to know more about how Muslims treated anybody who get converted into Christianity from their religion - ISLAM, look for these two books: (1) In Search of Assurance by K. K. ALAVI and (2) God's Salvation is Ready for you by Abdul Masih or download them at www.call-of-hope.com/

Let me tell you that it takes two to make a covenant. If one breaks the covenant, then the covenant is no longer holding.

However, I believed what you should do is to call the lady in question and break the covenant officially. Believe that God did not want both of you to marry each other, that was why she went ahead to marry someone else. (Omi ti eniyan ba ma mu, ko ni san koja e)

There are millions of singles out there looking for wives/husbands. Why not try someone else and forget the girl. break the covenant officially with her. But to me, it is no longer binding on both of you.

I wept when I read this tread. In my friend's case it was reversed. He married his wife 11 years ago, she worked, but he did not know how she spends her money. He don't even know how much she collects. She does not support him in anyway in the house. He gives her transport and feeding allowance everyday. Yet she will never respect him. They married in the Church and that is why he kept on with the marriage. He confesses to me that he is fed up with the marriage.

If truly this type of love exist, then I need one, my friend need one and every true man needs one.

But where can we find it?

Anago is a tribe between kwara and tapa people (Niger state). If anybody refers to Yorubas as Anago, it is incorrect, perhaps you meant AWORI which are even some Lagosians and not yorubas in general. Anago is tribe which is partly yoruba and partly tapa. I have them as neigbours.

You may be right. But Anago is a dialect in Yoruba and is spoken by the Yorubas in Ipokia Local government area of Ogun State. Infact these towns in Ipokia Local government speaks Anago: Idiroko, Ipokia, Agosasa, Ihunbo, Idosemo, Ibatefin, Idopetu, Ajegunle name them.

You are Banker how much do teachers earn that will service car loan. Or was the car pure water? even as that it is not advisable because is forking liability and not asset. It only pull money out of your pocket and doesn't put back

Hear this Ope Alaimokan.

Teachers are earning better than you think nowadays.

Come to Ogun State to verify my write up about the Loan, UBA Kolobo - Abeokuta gave out the loan in 2008.

I am a TEACHER and proud to be one.

Na now i know say ignorance is a disease. Chei!

Why are you people talking as if you don't know what you are talking about?

I got a personal loan from UBA in 2008. Many of my Colleagues got car loans from them too. We finished our payment in 2010. It was a two years repayment plan. My friends (teachers) bought different flashy cars with the loan. Anyway i set up a business with mine which I'm still enjoying till today.

We have all finished paying the loan back and the cars and businesses remain our own. There was no hidden charges but quarterly deduction which they discussed with us before we got the loan. Even they print out the deduction schedule and they strictly followed it.

Wake up people, this is your chance to own something.

Presently, UBA, WEMA and First Banks are giving out loans. Visit a nearest branch and obtain your form. The form is free of charge.

ANyway, I am a teacher and not a banker. so don't say i am advertising.

Thank you all for your comments. But it seems some people are really confused here by saying the Bible contradict itself. Anyway everyone has a right to his/her opinion.

But let me tell you this that I am a firm Believer in the BIBLE. I believe it is the WORD of GOD and IT does NOT CONTRADICT ITSELF.

But on the subject under consideration let us consider these Scriptures:

MATTHEW 19:3
3 ¶ The Pharisees also came unto him, tempting him, and saying unto him, Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife for every cause?

MATTHEW 19:4
4 And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made [them] at the beginning made them male and female,

MATTHEW 19:5
5 And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh?

MATTHEW 19:6
6 Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.

MATTHEW 19:7
7 They say unto him, Why did Moses then command to give a writing of divorcement, and to put her away?

MATTHEW 19:8
8 He saith unto them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so.

MATTHEW 19:9
9 And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except [it be] for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.

MATTHEW 19:10
10 His disciples say unto him, If the case of the man be so with [his] wife, it is not good to marry.

MATTHEW 19:11
11 But he said unto them, All [men] cannot receive this saying, save [they] to whom it is given.

Please House

Is There Any Bible ground Whereby a man can divorce his wife and marry another without committing SIN against GOD?

Please give me a BIBLE Quotation either for or against.

Thank you all

Some say there is a ground, Others say no way. But you, what do you say? Is there any Bible ground where a man can divorce his wife and marry another without sinning against God?

Please, give me a Bible quotation to support your claim, either for or against.

Thank you all.

@omo_to_dun (m) Is it not this same God who ordered King Saul to murder innocent women and children and animals? And later punished the latter for chosing to spare some of the creatures he was ordered to obliterate? I do not have proof whether or not God told the pastor to behave as such, but I do not put it past God. That Man has done worse. Na today?

Do you know what you are saying? Innocent women and Children? Read your Bible well.

old boy, you are funny o, nigerian visa lottery? may be when revolution take place in nigeria. until then ,

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