Bro I’ll advice you to follow your heart, because I was in the same position as you in 2014, met this sweet young black American nurse in 2010 and in 2014 she was into me So bad she sent me all manner of gifts and was ready to come naija and I told my mom and sisters bout her but my mom was against it and I had no option but to obey, she felt so disappointed in me and moved on, now she’s married and I’m full of regrets and my mom can’t even help my life in anyway, and naija girls just dey use person dey play ludo if u no get money, my brother marry her because if u hid to ur parents advice u’ll leave to regret this chance
Because ur parents can’t propel u to ur destiny

About 10months ago, I met this girl and we connected well like never before and the chemistry Btwn us was intense, we knew we really liked each other so much, we couldn’t go a day without talking to each other, I am in my middle 30’s and into real estate and the business hasn’t really been good nor bad and she is in her late 20’s and in medical school and will be graduating next year.
when I met her i made my intentions known to her bcs she’s the kind of girl I want to be with for a long time, prior b4 we met she told me that her prophet prophesied to her that she will meet someone she really likes but if the guy asked her to marry him she should say NO that she should wait. I told her I’m not asking for her hand in marriage now that I want something serious that will lead somewhere, she said okay let’s see how things progresses, we talked about anything and everything and she was very happy meeting someone like me and she said I was man enough for her.
As time progresses we became so close we had a one time thing but the experience was awkward.
And after that day her mood about everything changed, she didn’t want to talk to me so I had to beg her to forgive me that it won’t happen again, it took about a week before we reconciled and we kept the communication as effective as ever, at a time she said she doesn’t want me to do anything for her so she doesn’t feel indebted to me I said no problem, then problem started last month when they left school for there 3months program in a hospital in the same state which I reside, we do see twice or three times in a week so one of those days, we were in my house and we’re talking and something led to another we kissed and romanced but I didn’t go further I had to stop and boom the next morning she sent me text that she’s not happy and when ever she’s around me she’s not at peace and she’s troubled within her and doesn’t want to be with me so I ignored her, I had to let her be for a while, then we later met and she told me she doesn’t feel her self when ever she’s around me and it takes her days before she can pray and all that and she doesn’t want us to be talking anymore so I was already fed up with her attitude meted towards me and I decided to let her be.

fast forward to 2 weeks ago, my sister was sick and I took her to the same hospital she’s doing her program and accidentally we met and got talking and after my sister was discharged from the hospital she called me that she wants to check on my sis and know how she’s doing so I took her to my family house and after the visit I drove her back to there hostel and when we’re bout saying our goodbyes I told her can I get a peck but she refused and I let her be, and later she texted me that she just wants us to be normal friends and nothing more than that, this was a girl I dedicated 10months of my time to when I already met beautiful and good women I had to let them go because of her.

We were so good to each other but all of a sudden everything changed I’m tired of her flimsy excuses towards everything and from my observation I feel she’s already admiring someone else that’s why she’s giving me this kind of attitude, we have not communicated in about a week so I’ve made my decision already and moved on
I am suspecting 95% she might be the one that wrote a topic few days back that hit the front page with the subject (
I Easily Lose Interest In Guys, Will I Regret This? ) because it sounds very similar, but niaralanders, ur candid opinions would be of help