Hi guys! It's been awhile, but am here to say something.

Today a female friend came crying to me. Her boyfriend of 3yrs had broken up with her to be with some other girl. She kept saying "after I stayed by him all those years he had nothing. Now he is ok, he left me."

Now the above, (in quote) is not something we all haven't heard before. Ok., I happen to know both of them as they were my friends, even if I was closer to the girl being an old friend from childhood. Grew up in same neighbourhood and attended same primary and secondary sch.

I know how they lived their relationship, and I am not blaming the guy for leaving her. Yes I said this to her face.

Now girls shd know guys are not entirely stupid. It doesn't matter if u stayed 100yrs with a struggling guy, but if in those years you didn't respect him as the man in the relationship, it shouldn't be a surprise he dumped you when things got better.

Most girls are fond of disrespecting boyfrnds who are struggling. Funny thing is they stay in the relationship, but they aren't loyal. They undermine his feelings and take him for granted. The struggling guy sees all of this, he either doesn't complain much, and sometimes doesn't complain at all, because in his heart he knows he is belittled bc he can't afford d luxuries of life, and he says or does nothing bc he is challenged and redirecting that negative energy into achieving his goals. Then he makes it.

Yes u as the girl, was instrumental to his success, but only because the stones u threw at him, he used as stepping stones out of his pit. He will remember you for that, but he won't see you worthy enough to partake.

I stand firm right now to say NO GUY EVER FORGETS WHO WAS THERE FOR HIM 100%. These kind of women are worshipped.

If you are in, u should be in. Don't be one leg in, one leg out.

That was the way of my female friend in her relationship.

Some girls will not agree with me, others know what I am talking about because they are like that. Comparing their struggling boyfrnds with other guys not knowing how deeply that can hurt a man's ego.

You tell him you want to go swimming or doing anything fun, he pleads with you that he can't afford it, and promises you he will take you when he can, you say hurtful words to him. Girl, that's not being there for him. No its not. Some will even go as far as secretly dating other guys. You can't say you were there for someone you only kept as a spare of some sort.

TheTruth.

urchbarbie:
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Hey guys!

I asked a female friend to visit me and she said no, she doesn't visit guys anymore. I asked her why and she said she visited a male frnd once, and he almost raped her.

Ok... guys trying to rape gurls when they visit is not news anymore, but I think d gurls are responsible in a greater number of cases. (wait)!

Knowing she might have caused it, I asked her what kinda frnd the guy was to her, and she said the guy was asking her out, and he used to take her out on several occasions, that on that day, after one of those their outings, the guy asked her to come know his house, and then tried to rape her.

Ok. Is this gurl naive or stupid or just selfish? I have always told gurls. If a guy is asking you out, and you know you don't like him, then don't even go on dates with him. I am not justifying the guy's act, as he was an asshole, but gurls should learn to be wise. Some don't even know what a date is. Some will have a boifrnd and still go on dinner or movie dates with guys that are asking them out. That is telling the guy "even if I have not said yes, I will very soon". And pls pls pls gurls. When a guy is asking u out, he is not a platonic frnd anymore. Don't assume he is. Stop visiting such guys especially in their homes.

*TheTruth*

Freemanan:

Illorin is not a state... Onitsha is not, Ibadan is not... Sokoto and Enugu are cities inside the main state... They are all cities...

Which kind sandywatever be this one?

My girlfriend left a note on the fridge. "It's not working. I can't take it anymore. I am going to my Mum's place" I opened the fridge, the light came on, the beer was cold. Now what the hell was she talking about?

Arbiola:
End Time Signs oh...Before u know,they'll stop us from from going to church... Iránu!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Why not Clubhouses?
Why churches?

Shutting down churches for the benefit of their pocket,will never make this country a better place.

FYI Club houses are sound proof. If these churches want to burst their ear drums, must they burst the ear drums of their nebos too? They shd make their buildings sound proof too.

LastProphet:


i have heard this same thing severally, wow. but you can be sure instead of eshan learning how to change after hearing people like you they will come online and call you tribalist, quote me

Am surprised o. We keep hearing stories of old men raping kids, women committing adultery, broken marriages and these stories are always about yoruba people. Then we hear rituals mostly abt Igbo people. How many times have you seen Ishan in the news linked with such evil?

Deejavuu:


I rep Iruekpen/Ekpoma..

#Esan naigbe#

I am from Iruekpen too

Relationships take a lot of work, compromise, and understanding. A lot of people are misled into thinking that the best way to avoid having to deal with dispute is to end the affair, not realizing that they will have to deal with the same issues in the next relationship.

You are very wise.

Am I alone in this? Or has anyone else also noticed the frequency at which marriages and relationships fail before they even start?

I mean, it's surprising how u love someone one minute, u decide to marry d person, and the next thing u are falling apart.

It's simple. Aside pride and ego, the biggest problem is lack of communication. When you don't communicate u leave room for assumptions and then wrong conclusions.

You can not have a relationship with someone and have a best friend who knows you better than your partner. Once in a relationship, your partner should become your best friend, while you can have a second best if you wish.

What do you guys think?

*TheTruth*

If you are not friends yet, you don't talk, but she just dislikes you for no reason and always trying to piss u off for no reason, then She likes you actually, only just doesn't like that you aren't noticing her, and then taking her frustrations out on you.

Benswaggy:


Yes, even in Marriage. sometimes u have to do ur own things and sometimes u also have to do things together. d fact dat a partner locked his phone with a password doesnt neccessarily mean he/she is cheating, he could as well be protecting it from being accessed by strangers.

Protecting it from being accessed by strangers. That I understand. But you are supposed to be one with ur husband or wife. He or she isn't a stranger.

Yes for the ladies... Is not a question. 95% of them will make an instant call...... But Guys. Would you?

I have a frnd who is also a nebo, and we are close. We usually hang out a lot together in company of other friends. This day, at about 11pm Wednesday night, I had a lot going through my head and cudnt sleep, so decided to go to a karaoke bar and listen to the good and bad singers. There I saw my friend's gf loving up with another guy. (I am very sure abt what I saw)...... I see my friend the next morning, and I am feeling bad I can't tell him what I saw, because within me I knew I would have wanted to know if I were in his shoes. Guys! what wud you do?

*TheTruth*

Benswaggy:
yeah. sometimes u need ur privacy.

Even in Marriage? Privacy?

Hey guys.

I think it is kinda weird to be in a relationship and your partner have reasons to use your phone, brings the phone to you and tells you to unlock it. (in most cases, the owner asks "what do u want? Probably waits and supervises you while at it) Why can't he or she just have access to your phone? What secret can a man or woman, boy or gurl possibly be keeping from his or her partner in his or her phone? What do you guys think?

Bullcrap. Funny but all lies. Just as some women have a boob bigger than the other, biologically, one of the scrotum drops lower than d other in men.

UdohOby:


Hmmm! Nland guys really believe they are the best in the world. I bet your sis has a guy that is treating her cruelly just like other girls deserve.
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Lest I forget, ur written English is the best. Keep it up.

Lol.

bewla:
jakulis u not a man only have a pipe u call dick

Really?because I didn't beat em up or slap them Back?. That wudnt have hurt em half as much as what I did, did.

Eya sorry Bros. I.Q wahala.

I have been slapped twice by 2 different partners. Okay, the first one wasn't my gf, but we were bleeping each other. We were together by the road side, I saw two very cute gurls and went like "OMG. These gurls are dope" and the next thing black fire landed on my face.

The second one was my gf. She made a statement while we were argueing. Like "I don't even know what am doing with u" I replied. "I don't even know either" and I collected. Lol. This wasn't as embarrassing as the first because it was indoors. Funny thing they both made me laugh.