Crack Speaking

Ask him now if he pays minimum wage

Aside having a very low self esteem, you are wired to think that the assessment of a good relationship is the ability to give you cash.

I want to ask, don't you have any dignity? That your birthday is approaching and you said he would be giving you some cash on the day.. From where?

You sounded like you would mind he was an armed robber as long as there's is cash to "go fund you".

Listen, no body owes you shit...in any relationship the goal is to find out if both of you are compatible. Ladies, y'all need to drop this ownership mentality and understand that sex is not an exchange for money in any relationship. And you must not have sex to have a relationship with your partner.

That doesn't mean he cannot give but STOP assuming your partner is bad because that cannot meet your monetary and hungry tendencies