PoliteActivist:
*Politeness*
Why would they want to contact you. Just asking

For friendships, my hubby , I and kids needs friends

I am married with 2 kids we have relocated to the UK precisely in Nottingham. I am looking for Nigerian people living in Nottingham. If anyone is in Nottingham please contact me.

Ishilove:

I hope you are in a better place now, and how is your relationship that woman?

Yes God has been faithful to us we are doing so much better , hubby got a better job and I am into business. As for my dad and wife I cut contact with them.

Ishilove:

So how did you later handle your evil stepmother?

I didn't do anything to her my dad told me to keep quiet or else he will send me packing, I kept quiet because I was helpless

Aurelius1:
Thank God for his mercies on your family. Have you and your husband been able to get your own place?

Amen , yes we got our own place since 2021

Wow can't believe this thread it is almost 3 years and my daughter is almost 4 years. I thank God for everything.

cococandy:
OP how’s the baby doing today?
Don’t forget to keep him/her hydrated
Burns are no joke

Baby is not doing fine I noticed the wound is bringing pus and blood , am not sure if it’s infected, I have called my husband is on his way to pick us so we can take her to the hospital

iphonehobb:


Were do you reside and how much is rent for a self contained?

I live in Abia state , am not really sure about the cost of a single room

OsuMustGo:

Your husband or your baby daddy?
From your story, you must be a teenager or someone in early 20s.
You don't have any business in that house anymore.
Go and hustle to be alone or just go and stay with your "husband".
You are a burden in that house.
Pity your dad nau

He is my husband , we did TM , court and church

CreamyPatty24:
Try and get something to do so you can support your family. Please also go back to your husband to avoid story that touch

I can’t stay with my husband because he is staying with his sister , even his sister husband don’t want him there

MrMcJay:
Tiarababy, where are you located? If in Lagos, send me a PM.

If outside Lagos, I suggest you snap pictures of the baby and take the baby to a government hospital.

Thereafter, get a Doctor's report and go report to the Police. Give the police copies of the doctor's report and pictures of your baby's injuries. Tell the Police the woman wanted to kill your baby but she got caught. Insist that the matter be charged to Court.

If the police try to play games or delay things, pls send me a PM or let me know.

Thanks so much , I live in abia state

frozen70:



Hmmm, leave revenge for God, in this circumstances, you are too poor and weak to fight a battle with a devil's advocate

Now the main advice

How come you allowed your husband to stay alone and deceived you to pack to your fathers house because he lost his job ❓

This is the height of your mistake and you will loose your husband to a woman before you know what is happening

He has no job, where did he get the money he sends to you ❓

Don't you know that you are supposed to stay with him and face the challenges together because of the followings

He may get a woman, who is working and ready to accomodative him and before you know it, voom his attention is gone

Your father's house is a no go area because your step mum doesn't want any of you and your dad is a weakly over her because he doesn't have a firm grip on your step mum

If you are staying with your husband, he will be forced to get something doing, even you too, because it seems that you don't have any income

You are supposed to be leaving with your sister of five years so that she will be far from that wicked step mother

What happened to your child is a sign that the worst thing will still happen to her

Just pack your things and take your little sister along to baby seat for you, whatever you and your husband sees you eat and you too start thinking of something

I just want to believe that you married early just to leave your father's house

Your husband can aswell tell a woman that he is single and the woman will allow him to be passing night with her

Dont ever trust a man especially when they are in a tight corner

A man can tell lies to get himself attached to a woman who is capable of herself


Think over it pls because you are still young to experience emotional pains

As for your step mum, just leave her, go back to your home and don't tell hubby you are coming, just pack and go there for your little child is no longer safe

If he deceives you again to go and meet his parents and leave with them, tell him that you will stay with him and suffer together

He will not like it because you are spoiling his plans, yes let it be so, stand on your feet but don't use force rather cry out your life for him

I don't support the idea

There is no way he would be living in an apartment he could nit afford the rent even when the chips are

There won't be any need for that, time will come when she will work on her step mother

For now, she is helpless and if she does anything funny, she goes in for it

Let her find her bearing first

You need to take action, what's the action, pack your things to your husband and let him come back to see you there without notice

You can go to hospital from there and make sure you go with your little sister if you dad permits you

Our rent expired that’s why I had to moved to my dad house and my husband is staying with his sister. We don’t have a place of our own yet , my 5 years old sister is my step mom daughter . It’s only my brother who is same mum with me

Ahmed0336:
Most Women are naturally wicked.

Op just leave her nemesis ll surely catch up with her in the future.

It is well..

She is so wicked to pur hot water on my innocent 10 months old baby ,am so angry I just want to pur hot water on her face to give her a scar she will never forget all her life

merahki:
Babies can get really hurt from having seemingly small areas of burn/scald injuries though. An example is immediate kidney shutdown (I will not use medical terms) with can lead to death.
So while you are pondering what to do, you have to take her to the children emergency of the teaching hospital near you. They will rate the degree of injury and treat accordingly. She will likely need fluid therapy, ointment, maybe antibiotics and or other supportive therapy.
This is very very important dear poster.

After ensuring the baby is okay (or after starting therapy if it’s not), you can come back and negotiate how you have to go back to your husband. How you can help your situation. How to fight your stepmom, etc
The immediate need is to ensure your child is all right .

My neighbour who is a doctor cleaned and covered the wound and am waiting for my husband to give me the money next week so I can take her to the hospital

JONNYSPUTE:
....Don't pour her hot water. Let her concience judge her.
Go back to your husband's house and manage with him so you don't lose your baby. Bet you can't say what her next action will be.

Our rent expired we moved out of the house that’s why I moved back to my dad and my husband is staying with his sister

I'm married with one kid. My husband lost his job when I was seven months pregnant. We are no longer living together. I'm back to my dad's house with my step mom and 4 siblings.

Things are not easy for us here because my step mom hated us from day one. She only cooks for herself, my dad and her children. She don’t give me and my baby and my brother from the same mom food. I have been managing with the little money I get from my husband. I do cook for us to eat that’s a story from another day.

Last week I went to meet with my husband to get money he promised to give me to stock up foods for us during this lock down. I left my baby with my brother only for me to come and meet my brother carrying my baby. She was screaming in pain and when I looked she had burn in her body from her right chest to her right hand. I almost collapsed because I left my baby very fine in good healt.

My brother said my step mom was preparing tea for her kids so she had left the hot water in the pot and my baby fell on the hot water. I got angry at my brother how could he be careless not to watch my baby when he knew our step mom don’t like us. I almost hit him and my step mom didn’t care. She acted like nothing, not even a sorry to me. My dad says I should be quiet accidents do happen and it’s nothing to be angry about. His words really shocked me but what can I do.

What pained me is my little sister of 5 years opened up to me that it was my step mom who poured water on the baby because she caught my baby eating her bread she left and she told her to keep quiet if she tells she will beat her and she pleaded with me not to tell her mum.

I knew she did it because she is very wicked but because I had no proof, I had to be quiet but now her daughter has confirmed she did, I want to deal with her because am so angry seeing my baby in so much pain.

Why pour hot water on a baby just because of bread? I hate her and I want to pour hot water on her too while she sleeps so she can feel the same pain she put my innocent baby.

Should I pour hot water on her too or what is the best way to deal with this witch?