Liftedhands:
@tipsyjules1 see me laughing at OUCH congrats once more and kisses to bobo

Na so na.Them say I too local ,so I was trying to form but I guess it was at the wrong place and time.

BIRTH STORY!!!!!
I will try and make it as short as possible.I had so many EDDs o.I had 7,9,12,15,17,18,and 22.I past all o.The midwife had to call me in for an induction, that was why I came here to seek advice or should I say assurance that everything will be fine.When I heard "INDUCTION" my heart jumped! What came to my mind was normal labour raised to power 4.Life tire me.Before now hubby has been bragging that his son wants to come on Christmas day!! That talk dey vex me ehn,because I was already tired of the pregnancy right from when I discovered I was pregnant. The first 4months of my pregnancy is usually hell for me.I vomited so tey I my throat started bleeding. I practically slept in the toilet ,no be joke o.If you come to my house and you don't find me just enter my toilet you will see there. I had to move to the toilet because I was so weak to even walk to the toilet to vomit because I couldn't even drink water.
Fast ward to my induction day.My appointment was for 9am but my friend advised I go late so that the delivery can enter 25 like my husband wanted.I sha got there 12pm with fear of them cancelling the appointment because of their time consciousness. After all the procedures ,I was taken to the induction ward.I changed and was placed on monitor. They said baby's heartbeat was too fast and needed to be stable before they could administer the thing .I was kinda happy because at least I was sure it will enter 25th.They gave me drums of water to drink,I drink water so tey water nearly comot for my nose.At a point they removed the monitor so I could rest. I come say make I try my luck do small exercise weda labour go start on its on.See me foolishly dey do squat and fast walking round the ward.Las las around almost 5pm they inserted the Almighty rope kinda stuff in my body after plenty lectures. I was expecting immediate reaction but for where!!,i no feel anything. I just lie down dey watch film just to distract myself.My friend started calling to know if it has started ,I kept telling her no that I was even surprised. I finally slept off as i no feel anything. I was already giving up since the midwife said if the one she gave me doesn't work she will try another one.I later woke up around 3am to mild cramps.Then I started timing it,it was 3mins apart but I still wasn't sure because I was expecting mad pains.Around to 4am the pains from no where just hit me.I did not know how I rushed to the bathroom to shower and before now I was peeing like puppy.The other white women were busy crying and calling their husband's name,as me no get husband around me,I was just shouting OUCH!!! I say make I follow posh too but my sisters when the pains increased I almost lifted my bed ,i no know when i begin shout woyoo!!!!When the midwife checked I was just 2cm jeeeez after all these pains I started shouting for epidural because I already booked for it, but instead she gave me gas and air,I almost threw it away when it wasn't helping in anyway.As she saw how the contraction was progressing she put a call cross to the delivery ward that they should prepare for me
but me I wasn't even expecting anything since I was just 2cm. Na so she trick me say she dey wheel me go epidural ward by this time other women don come my side dey look me probably out of pity.When I got there I felt like urinating as I enter toilet pee no gree comot o.I couldn't even come out.Them too come dey fear,so they kept shouting please don't push !!!!.When I finally came out I immediately felt the urge to push.See the way they were rushing to set things.I still wasn't expecting to push out baby because when the midwife checked again I was still 2cm.I over heard them saying "she's gonna pop out very soon" .At this point I was still believing I was in so much pain because of the induction. To cut tory short I sha pushed out my lil nigga at the 3push.Oga came out giving me 2nd degree tear.They called the doctor to come and stitch me.When she came she kept contemplating whether to carry me to theatre or not.They kept calling different doctors to come and check and this checking dey pain die.My jajaina turn tourist attraction .Las las she stitched me and I was OK.My sisters all these pains my labour was just 18mins.It was so fast but the pains na die.At a point I was begging them to tear me so that baby could come out because I was so weak and was struggling with sleep same time o.After cleaning up I immediately called hubby because I off my internet so nobody could get me on WhatsApp ,I wanted surprising them.Hubby couldn't even talk ,he was just staring and smiling while my father in-law and sister in-laws almost brought down the house with shout.I was the celebrity of the day o.Christmas baby and another boy,hubby won again.We just got circumcised few days ago.Please pardon any typo you see o,na left hand I dey use type because I dey breastfeed oga so no time to edit.I wish everyone a swift delivery. Thanks to everyone that replied me.

Jennykoko3009:
Congratulations to joyfulmama and nimi22, your bs are really testimonies, may God Almighty be praise!!

@ tipsyjules1 we haven't heard of you, please how are you and have you gone for the induction?

Good morning my people. I sincerely appreciate your concern.Am seriously sorry for taking this long.I gave birth on the 25th DEC.Baby weighing 3.5kg.Am still battling with sore nipples and stitches.Thanks to everyone that responded to me.I love you all.Dropping BS soon when jajaina don heal small.

spixytinxy:
I don't have any experience ooo, I just wanna encourage you, don't b afraid, am very sure u will forget about the pains the moment u see ur little one, I pray u come out victorious. Mama, pikin and papa in good health. Oya catwork and go for the induction, nothing do u. Bs very important ooo

Amen ooo.Thanks sis.

forzarush:
. I experienced same as a FTM. I tried all means of falling into labour, drank zobo, danced,walked,ate pineapple and all but I eventually went for the induction. it was not painful o! In fact,nothing out of the ordinary and it was a vaginal delivery without complications or tear sef. just keep an open mind and be prayerful.

Oh thank you so much.This actually my 2nd .I went into labour naturally with my first. I no understand this one.Please how long does it take because the appointment is by 9am and I want Xmas birthday. Am already having headache because of fear of pains.

Hello mamas.Merry Christmas in advance o.Bikonu egbami o!!What I have always been scared of is on my way. I I have passed all my due dates and I am been scheduled for induction 2moro.Please mamas that has experienced this should gist me abeg.I have googled tire and I learnt its painful biko I want to read from mamas that have experience this.And will epidural ease the pain ? Biko make una no pass me by abeg.I have lost appetite since I was told.How long does it take before delivery I want make e enter Christmas day because my birthday is still a bit far (29).Sorry for the long post.Biko don't ignore me.

hapiness44:
Experienced Mamas please help me o.

I just had another small quarrel with hubby over my sudden low sex drive.

I am in week 11 and recently, I am too irritated to even allow sex, ' unfortunately' for me, boo still feels like during it almost everyday

On Saturday, we had sex, and I noticed bleeding ( not the first time, but this was very pronounced), pinkish intially and brownish later. I told him I need to start antenatal to be sure that it's ok to continue but he does not want to hear any of it.

This evening, ( I came home early from work was having serious side headache)he initiated it again and with all my body language he knew I was not in the mood. Right now he is angry and I actually feel for him. I have tried to read materials online to him but he obviously feels deprived.

How do I handle this house?.. We are just 6 months into marriage

I can relate very well.It was during antenatal that the nurses talked about it and all our husbands were there.They really talked about low sex libido .I just kept straight face Sidon .Me I can count how many times we did it and its usually to please him not for my sef o because that's the last thing on my mind.Na because na first time father ,with time he will understand. And if you're lucky your libido will return after some time.Tell him to read about it in Google that you're not faking it and besides its risky for now.

Prettyuche:



Noo.I am the definition of elephant.so huge.can't stand for up to 5 mins.can't walk long distance. Bp going up and down.I am counting days.its well

Chaiii I can relate.Me I dey sleep for toilet.I no dey go anywhere that doesn't have toilet. Very annoying tiny drops eyt e go be like say na one bucket I wan pee.I can't wait o.

Nimi22:


I'm an hippo from the way I walk plus my right hip is the definition of painful.

Hahahaha.Me I will trying to control my walking steps for where e no dey work.I just keep seeing myself walking like my jajaina wants to pull out

Hello my fellow team December. How is it going? Me I can't even stand straight or walk well at times.This one pass elephant walk o.Am I the only one feeling this way.

jazzyjazz:



Yayyyy I remember you jare.

Welcome welcome

I wish you a swift delivery

at my name. No be small something jazz

Lol.pardon me jare. .thanks sis

Liftedhands:
No more tomatoes ooo!! Tomatoes that zainab used to build house in banana island lolzzz

Hahahahahah

Liftedhands:
Sure you can, we no longer charge for late coming (efcc is still probing our account ) your team mates will identify with you.

Wooow thank God o.So no more basket of tomatoes .Lol.Thanks o.I have many Edd o.Dec 17,18,22.Sex another boy.

Liftedhands:
Welcome back sis, it's good to have you back congrats and safe delivery.

Thanks sis.I don miss una tire.Hope I can still register?

enque:


I remember ur moniker tipsy mama
Congrats

Thanks so much o.Longest time.

Good evening my beautiful mums.Dunno if Anyone will still remember me o.I was very active here 2016 with Edd sept 21.I have suffered before I could finally get back online.I have changed phones so many times that coming back online is a problem. I don even open plenty emails yet e no free work.I have really missed you all .I won't get the names well but I will still try.Blessedmum,liftedhands,something jazz.make I stop before I murder names.I am sorry for coming this late. Abeg make una forgive me.I am a DEC mum o.make I stop here.