@D-sense,  thanks brof,  i appreciate alot !

@ Everyone,

Thank ya'll  for the comments,  Its really interesting reading your different views.

At least it has given me some idea's on what step to take. Not all comments has been so right but a few made some point which i appreciate and for Mr. or Mrs. Whoever was talking bout being layed or something like dat, LMAO, ( Your Thinking Bad O! ) but hey, I don't think i needed the harsh words tho,  but all the same,  Thank you!


Smiles, "( -  -  )"

@livedit - Thanks for your comment though, Really, she comes up with different stuffs whenever i am out of the country like that. But once I'm in town she would just apologies for everything t, I think i'll just quit from the relationship what do you think?

I'm confused, i don't need the headaches, lol

@Ujujoan - Thanks for your comment you made sense there, Your funny tho but i dont talk much i just had to explain what it is, I'm not a stalker FYI, She been the one wanting to know my family, asking for marriage and all those stuff but i kept saying she'll know and meet my fam when i am comfortable!, i dont introduce a girl to my fam just like dat i have to be sure bout her, u know what i mean, Who knows she might be doing those to pressurize me? what do u think?

About the call, she calls me more than i do and actually kept dialing that day cos i only wanted to know what was so important and was worried something might had happened to her.

I was suprised she asked for my account balance the last time i came to Nigeria to see her, "Hows that her business", lol

Newayz, I have never trusted a girl just like i trust her tho,

Thanks for your comment Ujujoan!


@bforce - so sorry i forgot to state she was asking for my account balance the last time i was in Nigeria, LOL (was carried away )


@olax44 - I think your making sense there, but the problem i have is , "I dont mean to be full of myself" but i have got too many better girls wanting to date me but i just got attracted to her and i really don't enjoy double dating u know what i mean! If i give her time then i'll be stolen from her, LOL


Thanks Ya'll tho

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I have been dating this lady for about 9 months now and i love her so much, I sure have done a lot of things to prove my love to her.

Basically, I'm not based in Nigeria but i come home as soon as often just to see her and spend time with her ,   I come home to see her at least once in 3 months, 

I am not used to a distant relationship myself but she is just so irresistible ,  I send her Monies and carter for her lil needs,

Sexual Life is very poor,  She claims she doesn't enjoy sex at all but she does everything to satisfy me sexually and Yes,  she don't seem to enjoy it cos she tells me its hurting her,  ( I get confused on that side)

She is Educated and wanting to take Acting as a Career which she keeps telling she got passion for,  I have always supported her in that not until this day she sent me an sms saying she wanted to talk to me and it was urgent, 

She had gone for an advertising job outside the state she stays in naija.

So,  I got to my apartment and returned the call,  She wouldn't answer the call for about 20 something times and when she finally answered she said i didn't need to call over 20 times , i could have simply sent an sms,  I was surprised ( she sent me the sms about 10 minutes before i returned the call)

They had accommodated them in an hotel for the advertising Job and she does have a room mate ( as she said) So if she never heard the phone ringing wouldn't the other girl hear the phone ring? Fine!

She got back to her home after the whole job thing and called me again,  We spoke well but she was acting strange so i was like "Whats Wrong With you, I don't like the way you sound"

All she said was i'll send you an SMS.

She did send the sms and the content was " Hi Hun, I met this guy and i really liked him, but it took me the good times we share together and the love i have for you to say NO to him"

Oh my God,  I felt heart broken and couldn't eat my food ,  I hurried to get calling card and ringed her,  "What was that for",  After i had said all and that and told her everything i could that came through my mind at that time,  She sent me another sms saying " I only wanted to get excited, i wanted to know if you really do love me, i have gotten the fact i need to know but i realize u don't trust me and I'm not gonna forgive you on that"

WTF,   Your Playing games with my emotions,  Is that the new game now?

Seriously, I have been having too many running through my head and i dont need all this from that girl

I'll need your Advice "Nairalanders" on this,  What do i do?

Does Love Has Anything to do what my Account Balance?

Does She Really Love me Or I have Spoilt her way too much and now its about the gift and money?

Do i just Quit ??

Im confused,   HELPPPP!!!!, lol


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