Good thing some females also have that "DNA" Natillus

texazzpete:

There's another story you guys aren't picking up on.

The girls's parents encouraged her to go visit the guy who eventually 'caned' here. That means the parents are VERY amenable to the idea of her marrying this other guy.

What sense is there in you keeping on with a girl whose parents will be opposed to your marriage anyway?

That's what I was wondering about. Do the parents not know of the OP's existance? Are they aware of his intentions with their daughter? fsb should come answer these questions

and it means that it must all be a lie. He could never be pampering just more than one chick



Girls are so funny

hehehhehehe

Some dudes (supposed missionaries), were in this war torn community where they were killing peeps on the regular (like rwanda). So on this fateful day, the pastor in the story and his sidekick were out for a walk when they stumbled upon a massacre in progress. According to the preacher, there were dead bodies spewn all over the place. So the killers came upon them (the missionaries) and asked them to get on their knees and do somethnig (I didnt quite hear this part). But the next thing the killers started shooting at the missionaries and (In the exact words of the preacher) "when the smoke form the gun shots cleared, they saw both missionaries jumping around speaking in tongues and praying with not even a single bullet wound on any of them". (At this point I shouted "Odeshi", laughed myself to my satisfaction, picked up my bible and went out for a beer. I had heard enough.) And you should have seen the entire church clapping and screaming praise the lord.

In fact last sunday should be called sunday of a thousand laughs.

What a bunch of suckers. Smoke from gunshots??

Lmfao. I've heard pastors say such crap. It's hilarious how common sense and logic escapes some people when they are listening to these people. Trying to fill some sort of void.

I know of one service went to where the pastor was talking about pastors who compromise the messages of the Bible to please their members esp the ones who "give the most" and he went on about how some pastor was preaching against immorality and a congregation of the church got together and decided to kick him out because his being immorality offended them blah blah, im was just rolling mys eyes and thinki9ng of which kain "congregation" be this, Hoq can you try to make me believe someone was kicked out for preachig against immorality, why not go IN DEPTH of what he was supposedly preaching against and HOW he was doing this instead of trying tohave us believe that people et kicke out for preaching against "evil", abegi

are you drunk? wetin concern TOH with the matter?

Hero:

Right you are. Is that suppost to be an excuse for such actions or something?

Never said it was an excuse. I'm sure Learn To Read is still on PBS

My problem is with your garbage of "this is why I hate Africa. so backward" thus my REMINDING you that such isnt just restricted to that continent alone. Ok?

and as for you being sick and tired and hating the place. That's good to know so how about you and your crackhead alter-ego Exponent leave this place?

It was meant for that bonehead Hero

Dude shut the fuk up

and last i checked the same is done in the Middle East

natalya:

It's not that he doesn't pick the calls. Even though he denies it, most of his calls are from ladies, but these two particular ladies call him very frequently. Maybe i'm just being jealous. I must confess, he has really pampered me ever since we started dating, and since then(it's about a year and a half now, we met on camp) he has been calling me everyday. Maybe that idea of him talking to another lady on phone is making me unreasonably envious.

If you still feel uneasy like others have mentioned, have him invite all of you to dinner so you can gauge for yourself, what's going on

micklplus:

Since, u have talked about the girls with him, would u all want to have a dinner together or something?? its sure would work wonders especially when they find out how good you guys are in love with one another. Also, have a dinner together could be a revelation to lot of things ! If he says NO ! then, TAKE it THAT SOMETHING IS FISHING !!!

Good idea. Consider this suggestion, natalya

Sisikill:

Seriously, you will know. When women say they didn't know about their husband/boyfriend's cheating, I just roll my eyes. This is the man I've laid with ^{(i'm being biblical here. . . lol)} , slept with, drank with, breathe, inhaled his scent, know every mole, scar, scratch on his body [sup]do I sound psychotic?

lol, it usually takes a year or so before you know THAT much. what about those who've only bee in it for like 5-6 months.

Care to give examples?

Sisikill:

I say, cool your heels and strike should the iron get hot.

and when is that usually?

and lol, like i said calling is for irrational

Sisikill:

Actually, I prefer to pay my in the early stages. I don't want the guy thinking I owe him something because he bought me buns & Coke. No way, Jose.

Exactly.

offtopic yes but I like your hairstyle spiked.

Embarrassing.

Anything to escape Nigeria.

IMO= In my opinion

erico2k2:

TOH
I know what you meant, I was just correcting you on what you idea of confortable pay structures are OK! and the term DUDU is not aplicable to us in the Uk, Germany,Holland and AUstria Ok!, we in the Uk just go with the flow and our planned life
if E easy gather you buck come do shopping for oxford streeet if you fit full paperbag you try
fellow UK people abi I lie eh??

Paranoia sha. The first line of that post was to DUDU19. Not you. Olodo!

and why would I take dollars to Oxford street? What part of in the states, you get more for your money than you guys do with your money despite the difference in currency dont you understand?

Or perhaps I need to learn pidgin before you can get it?

I dont think you are IMO

It's like people arent even creative in their lies anymore. Reading his explanations made me roll my eyes. Usual stale lines.

If you wanna be rational, start withdrawing from him. Dont go cray but dont hang around him as much. If he cares he'll be bothered by your actions and will wanna know what's up nad point blank you tell him to tell you the truth cos the pit of your stomach is telling you otherwise

Wanna be irrational, lol call those girls up youself and ask them their relationship with the dude or have some other guy do it, whatever and see what they have to say. Also ask if he ever mentioned having a gf.

wish you luck on whichever you pick

No. You dont try to hurt the one you claim to "love"

If you need to "cheat", first break off the current relationship, Simple

If someone wanted to kill the joy in their relationship, they should most likely contact you

Sisikill:
"Oh Ken? Yeah, that's just a guy I kick it with. . . nothing serious. Just something to tide me over until you get here. Oh man, I can't wait for you to meet him. There is NO doubt in my mind that you two will get along. He reminds me so much of you. Like one time, we were kissing and he did something with his tongue and I swear for a moment there, I thought I was kissing you" [Insert 10 sec Giddy Laugh here & then sigh] You have to SIGH. I can't stress that enough.

Lol Sisi, you slay me

gmcln:

Call your real estate agent, Your plot in Hell is ready

Is that what you learned in your own "church"?

Who died and told you to say who is or isnt fit for hell/heaven


Go and sent down jo. People like you are annoying.

You dey craze osisi

Hail Mary wetin? I dont do the Catholic church o. At all. bunch of guilt trippers with fancy costumes.

It's about 1hr and 15 mins, maximum. Friend invited me a couple months back and been going. Nice small place. No loud obnoxious pastors and their evil looking wives. Thought provoking sermons and if you have a different interpretation, at the end you can discuss with the man sef. That's respect right there. Not Im "all knowing, dont question me"

Look at your mouth . 3 collections for what? I no want your alajenu church. Thank you

phlex, send him an email explaining the situation eg tell him you love him but cant do it anymore, etc and pray that eventually he understands.

If he hasnt truly wronged you there's no reason for you to burn bridges, you might have to revisit that "bridge" in the future. You never know

my post wasnt in necessarily in response to you. just a general observation of the "Brits" on Nairaland, dudu

erico. better bang for your buck here is what i meant

If you made a topic about the US, I am wiling to bet you wont find people screaming on her behalf because frankly we don't care.

Too many UK fiends around here however. They actually take criticism, constructive or not against the UK so much to heart, you'd think you were bahsing their family

Btw $8/hr stretches more than 6 pounds/hr

Free transports for the under 18 and over 65
Free schooling

davidylan:

Nwam, you are forgiven for changing your mind 2 times but u still deserve a big kiss for praying for him.

Lol it's a trick of mine jare, Im sure he knows I didnt mean it.