I was in an abusive marriage till about two months ago wenn i had to take a walk. It was more of emotional abuse and some degree of physical abuse and i just knew if care wasnt taken i will evantually result to a mental case.Anyway, am glad i left,one thing i will like to advise singles out there is that once you start seeing those red flags,abeg take a run,not even a walk,a run is the best word to describe exactly wat u shd do. Cos being in a marriage with the wrong person will eventually destroy u,reduce you to nothing and make your life just miserable,its best not to have ventured into it at all rather than thinking u do cope after marriage. Am quite young but at present i think my marriage is the worst thing that ever happened to me safe for the adourable kids God blessed me with. I know some day my dreams will be true cos i know God loves me.

Thy word have i hide in my heart that i may not sin against thee.