My dear, it is well with you. But my pastor do say something, he said God doesn't answer why, he only aswer what i.e asking him what to do to what has already happen. So dear, pray to God and focus only on him. Concerning the pregnancy, there is no need of worrying yourself, cheer up, dress well, get a nice job for yourelf, so that you can be cater for the baby when you give birth to him/her. Dont give yourself to pressure or bad thinking in order for you to see what God has in store for you. God is looking at you and know what you are passing thru, If you can give him chance and see beyond what is happening now, be sure that you will surely laugh at the end. Take care there. If you know you can stay alone without thinking, i will suggest you join choir in your church or anytime it comes to your mind, just be praising God and before you know it, you have put satan under your leg. Lookin unto Jesus the author and finisher of ur faith and cast all ur burden upon him, for he cares for you. shalom!

@ poster, CONGRAT bros. frank, or what did you call urself, i am very sure you must not up to 20 yrs. why do you always talk like a primary school boy, why are you always @wrong end, anyway i will advise you to change ur thinking. Even though u're small, because u're walking with elders, i espect you learn from them.

She must gooooooooooooo. I know nemesis will catch up with all this people one day.

@ sweet T, This person is seeking for advice and not abusive word. if you dont have any advice for him. why not leave him. it is not proper.

@ topic. I think some people are so blinded by love when they are still courting to the extent that they overlook some things and when they get marry, they begin to see where their faults lies.