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Religion / Re: "Husband Means Master" - Chris Oyakhilome by tourgist: 5:54pm On Sep 08, 2016
I have heard a lot of women say that they started enjoying their marriages when they stopped proving to their spouses that their opinion matters, and learnt to listen and respect his opinion. Some Men cant do a thing without consulting their wives because those women knew what their role in the marriage is.

Why do u think women who cant separate their career role as a CEO and that of a wife either remain single or dont have peaceful homes? because if you take the same attitude from the board room to your bedroom then there wont be peace in that home.

Men thrive on respect and they love it when a woman submits to their authority because that is where God has placed them.

Ibukun Awosika once said she is still happily married because she knows how to switch to both roles of a wife and a Boss. You can command or other Men but not your husband that is why the bible says "women submit to your own husband".

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Religion / Re: "Husband Means Master" - Chris Oyakhilome by tourgist: 5:39pm On Sep 08, 2016
It is quite unfortunate that we human beings Qoute people out of context. i have listened a lot of Pst prince joseph messages on youtube and i have not heard where he says women are equal to their husbands. it is vice versa A Man that loves his wife makes it easier for his wife to submit and a woman that submits to the husband makes easier for the husband to submit. I don't know if you are married, if no when you get married dont submit to him then come back and tell us how much he loves you. The bible says work out your own salvation, You do not know what goes on in people's home so the fact that someone has been married for a decade does not mean the have been happy or got it right.
repogirl:
there is no where it says in the Bible that a woman's submission makes it easier for the man to love them. Infact it is the opposite.

The instructions were first given to the man,

Likewise, husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way, showing honor to the woman as the weaker vessel, since they are heirs with you of the grace of life, so that your prayers may not be hindered.

So whether you wife is wicked or not, whether she submits or doesn't , if you don't honour your wife, then your prayers won't be answered, simple!

Read the words from a true man of God that has stuck with his wife for decades.

http://www.josephprince.org/daily-grace/articles/single/secrets-of-manly-leadership/

I bet you if Pastor Chris had been more understanding with his wife instead of the master slave relationship he was enforcing, they would most likely still be together.

Men love your wives, same way Christ loves the church, such a simple instruction.Christ didn't wait for the church to submit before he loved them. He didn't wait fr submission before he died for their sins, so why are you MEN turning it all around.

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Religion / Re: "Husband Means Master" - Chris Oyakhilome by tourgist: 4:46pm On Sep 08, 2016
I am not a fan of Pastor Chris but why do Nigerians always speak publicly against what they secretly desire.

For the guys against what the Pastor said it is either you are single or living in denial. and for the Ladies here i will say if you want peace in your home follow this principle and your husband will love you forever.

If you read the post properly you will see the part he said a woman has influence on her husband not by forcing her opinion on him.

The bible is clear on the issue of Marriage: Men love your wifes and Women submit to your own husbands. Women in the bible called their husband's LORD which means Master in Hebrew e.g Sarah, Ruth etc. A woman that submits makes it easier for the husband to love her.

I'm a christian and would not oppose this teaching because it is coming from Pst Chris, We should stop taking things personal.
Any Man who desires a woman that has same authority with him in Marriage, God will answer your prayer and give you your heart desires.

And for those saying he could not hold down his marriage: it takes 2 people to be married and when one party says i want out you can't force them, some of you will understand what i'm saying because there might be 1 or 2 people around who have gone through divorce, it could be your parents, sister, brother, cousin, uncle or aunt.
Religion / Re: "Husband Means Master" - Chris Oyakhilome by tourgist: 11:51am On Sep 08, 2016
I am not a fan of Pastor Chris but why do Nigerians always speak publicly against what they secretly desire.

For the guys against what the Pastor said it is either you are single or living in denial. and for the Ladies here i will say if you want peace in your home follow this principle and your husband will love you forever.

If you read the post properly you will see the part he said a woman has influence on his husband not by forcing her opinion on him.

The bible is clear on the issue of Marriage: Men love your wifes and Women submit to your own husbands. Women in the bible called their husband's LORD which means Master in Hebrew e.g Sarah, Ruth etc. A woman that submits makes it easier for the husband to love her.

I'm a christian and would not oppose this teaching because it is coming from Pst Chris, We should stop taking things personal.
Any Man who desires a woman that has same authority with him in Marriage, God will answer your prayer and give you your heart desires.

And for those saying he could not hold down his marriage: it takes 2 people to be married and when one party says i want out you can't force them, some of you will understand what i'm saying because there might be 1 or 2 people around who have gone through divorce, it could be your parents, sister, brother, cousin, uncle or aunt.

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Properties / Re: Executive Mini-flat @ Ayobo by tourgist: 8:25pm On Aug 20, 2013
Is the road motorable and tarred. How is area during raining season. Be honest pls
Properties / Re: NO MORE by tourgist: 8:19pm On Aug 20, 2013
Still available
Properties / Re: Urgently Needed: Flatmate Or Roommate by tourgist: 2:32pm On Aug 20, 2013
Properties / NO MORE by tourgist: 2:21pm On Aug 20, 2013
NO MORE STORIES

NO MORE BULLIES

NO MORE CRYING
Celebrities / Re: Wunmi Obe Reacts To Stella Damasus's New Marriage by tourgist: 5:07pm On Apr 26, 2013
plane crash?Huh shocked shocked

Pls get ur facts right before commenting.
Jaiye died of high blood pressure, he slumped while playing basket ball.
Celebrities / Re: Wunmi Obe Reacts To Stella Damasus's New Marriage by tourgist: 4:46pm On Apr 26, 2013
Just pray and hope she will be faithful this time. seriously, why get married when you know u cannot be faithful to a Man.

Her first Marriage almost crashed because of infidelity before her husband died( Slumped and died while playing basketball due to high blood pressure). Her second marriage lasted few months due to same infidelity.

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Celebrities / Re: Wunmi Obe Reacts To Stella Damasus's New Marriage by tourgist: 4:29pm On Apr 26, 2013
Vindicated for
1)Jaiye died of high blood pressure which his family believed was as a result of Stella's infidelity which they quarelled about severally.
2) Doris Simon and had issues coz her husband wasn't faithful and and she accused the husband of having affair with Stella which they both denied.

I will say she is Lucky to be married three times in a space of 10yrs when some people have not been able to hook one in 20yrs but i dont think anyone should envy her.

If you were in Wunmi's shoes you could do worst but i honestly think Aboderin Family should have forgotten all dat happened between Jaiye and Stella.

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Car Talk / Re: Pls Help! Engine Always Hot by tourgist: 2:44am On Mar 24, 2013
Thank you all! Am glad I joined this forum. I was referred to a more experienced Rewire and he asked me to change d 2 fan coz they are not blowing very well which makes d engine hot. Am waiting till Monday to do this.
Car Talk / Re: Pls Help! Engine Always Hot by tourgist: 3:24pm On Mar 22, 2013
yes, i use water what type of coolant should i buy. thx
Car Talk / Re: Pls Help! Engine Always Hot by tourgist: 12:23pm On Mar 22, 2013
Thank you so much. but i think there is more to it than Lagos sun because it has happened even in the morning before and when there is no traffic.
Car Talk / Pls Help! Engine Always Hot by tourgist: 11:16am On Mar 22, 2013
pLS I URGENTLY NEED HELP. I drive a 2002 Kia Optima and i recently noticed something.

Firstly, i noticed my battery don't last long, the recent one i bought lasted only 4months. I took to rewire who checked the alternator and confirmed it was working perfectly, he also checked the kick starter and told me it was okay.
But i noticed if i drive the car for like few mins and open the bonnet it will be so hot and one of the Fan will be working. I later met a battery charger who told me it was the heat from the hotness of the engine that kills the battery cells

My Car temperature have never gone beyond the middle, so i wont say it is over heating.

I have been advised to remove the thermostat and connect the two fan together.

what should i do?
Travel / Re: Yellow Card For Travelling by tourgist: 1:43pm On Mar 19, 2013
You can get yellow card at the Local Govt as someone rightly said but it is advisable to get it at the port health center in MMIA. Most local government health staff don't know the basic requirements.
Webmasters / Re: Website Design In Nigeria by tourgist: 12:09pm On Mar 11, 2013
check out Cyrus Thorpe Ltd. A UK based software company owned by a Nigerian, came into Nigeria about two months Ago.
www.cythorpessoftware.com
Travel / Virgin Atlantic Set To Launch Domestic Flight In UK by tourgist: 3:49pm On Mar 01, 2013
Virgin has confirmed its airline that its new domestic airline set to launch at the end of the Month, will be called LITTLE RED.
The carrier will launch on March 31st in Manchester, on April 5th in Edinburgh and April 9th in Aberdeen.
The airline will initially offer four daily round trips between London heathrow and Manchester, six daily round trips to Edinburgh and three daily round trips to Aberdeen.

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Properties / Re: Invest In Ogun by tourgist: 12:34pm On Feb 22, 2013
how much is a plot of Land in papalanto( that shares boundary with Ofada).
secondly do you have land for sale at Owode Egba around ofada very close to yotomi estate.
Properties / Re: I Need A Mini Flat Asap by tourgist: 3:33pm On Feb 14, 2013
@beila I dont want to go beyond 180k per annum coz i know other charges will still be added to it.
Let me knw if you have something within my range.
Properties / Re: I Need A Mini Flat Asap by tourgist: 3:31pm On Feb 14, 2013
@civory I only need somewhere around Oko oba. Akowonjo is too far for me.
Properties / Re: I Need A Mini Flat Asap by tourgist: 1:40pm On Feb 12, 2013
I will appreciate swift response.
Properties / I Need A Mini Flat Asap by tourgist: 1:31pm On Feb 12, 2013
I need a Miniflat around new Oko-oba, Haruna, or any of the Estates in Agege
budget is between 150-180k
1year preferably.

Decent environment
Packing Space
Water
Fenced
Travel / Qatar Airways Goes Mobile With New Blackberry, Android And Iphone Apps by tourgist: 4:31pm On Feb 06, 2013
With such busy lives, customers need to be connected to Qatar Airways’ services as well as the latest travel information from anywhere around the world. To meet this growing customer need, the airline has launched a new mobile application for BlackBerry, Android, and iPhone handsets has introduced a new mobile website.Through ease and convenience of using their mobile devices, customers can search for, and book flights, check their flight status and follow travel alert.
In addition, members of the airline’s Privilege Card frequent flyer programme can fast track their booking by logging in with their membership number.

Customers can download the application at qatarairways.com/mobile and follow the links to the iPhone, BlackBerry or Android smartphone app store.

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