I used to think depression was a joke, that it can never happen to someone like me, till I lost $100k in business deal. I have not been the same since then, these days, I’m so scared of everything, just name it, I have serious anxiety creeping the hell outta me. I don’t know how long this will last, I keep reassuring myself that I’ll get back to where I was before, but this situation scares the bejesus out of me. The severe headache after overworking my brain with thoughts now give me serious migraine

LaMujer:
NPFL is currently ongoing. There has been 40 matches scheduled to be played between now and the qualifiers in Asaba. MFM will be playing 2 matches at home. The league has not been asked to be played behind closed doors, not been suspended. No one here is even mentioning MFM and NPFL. According to you guys fears, MFM and NPFL constitutes much more fear than qualifiers in Asaba. Unless you're telling me Asaba match would pull more crowd than 40 NPFL matches.


Charity begins at home. Let LMC call for league suspension and we can begin to talk about our qualifiers

They should equally call for the markets and religious center to be shut down since we all want to copy what’s happening in Europe. I don’t know the basis people here are clamoring for the match to be played behind closed doors when everything else in Nigeria is going on as usual.

Subzero047:


Person go die one day no be say im go dey block moto for express

So because people congregate in markets and churches that's why you have to ignore common sense safety precautions and put people's lives in danger?

For your mind now, the match is the only place people can contact the virus?

Subzero047:


It would take only one Coronavirus carrier in that match at Asaba to cause a serious epidemic crisis

Don't let your fake 'wokeness' affect your sense of reasoning

You are the one with fake sense of “ wokeness” have you been to ogbogonogo market in Asaba? Are you going to shut that too since you don’t want people to contact the virus? the same people that goes to that market will be the ones to come watch the match, the ones coming in from abroad will be checked at the border......markets,churches, mosque and other businesses in Asaba has been operating in full capacity, yet you want them to play the match behind closed doors, because it was done somewhere else. Now ask yourself, me and you, who dey reason well?

andrewbaba44:


Safari you no talk this one well

So you want make Africa reach 100 people wey contact before them go begin do what’s right abi ?

The earlier the better

What subzero said is right

Right in what ways? The people at the helms of affairs are already taking precautionary measures, what else do you guys want? Seems like Nigerians likes it when they get associated with everything that happens in the rest of the world. Corona is not an epidemic here, yet you guys wants the system to shutdown as if we are China or Italy

Subzero047:


Sativa leaves are wider than that, that's normal shrubs

That’s a lie, sativa leaves are slim and long while indica are wider.

ChrisKels:


This is the first time I am taking a close look at this meme, is that not cannabis sativa at the background of the pic?

Oboy, your eyes clear like dstv. Na sativa farm be that

witorwitoutyou:



mtweeh you c say d guy na mumu laslas

You need to stop throwing insults around

Bolowolowo:
Shehu??

This guy must have Rohr's nudes

That guy has a strong backup at the nff.

Naija marriage these days don tire person walahi

I think there’s something wrong with this Ikorodu Kendrick Lamar. How can someone be so sure and hell bent that a 21 year old Osimhen will not best drogba records in the future? Man if you have the crystal ball with you there, go ahead and tell us what will happen in the future since you have already seen it all.

IdeyFindWife:


Boys wanna knock up chics and pay for child upkeep, free to roam around as randy dandy-dads and chikcs wanna receive any c0ck, from Jupiter to Jake's, as long as car-keys and easy-life's hanging from the balls!

But "wifeing up" is the only reasonable way to go. Most pple haven't seen the damage multi-parent families do so the idea of 'breeding' women around and littering the whole place with babies seems to hold some novelty for them.
I'm all for sowing your wild oats if you dare but once you're talking kids, don't intentionally sire kids-out-of-wedlock, and if you're wedding the lady, plan to be as faithful as your nuptial bands.

We grew up hearing of the horrors of polygamous homes, seems the curse of our time is baby-mamaism and both guys/chicks are falling for it, fancying themselves as some hood/ghetto Tyga/blac chyna, amber rose/wizkhalifa etc forgetting that traditional white families and celebs would rather divorce and remarrying than whelp babies all over the place doing that kinda ghetto ratchet crap that seemed to have found roots, first, in the Black lower-class communities. Am not putting any kid thru that much less mine.
Plus, the whole package smells like sh!t & smacks of kids in adult bodies wanting to do adult stuff and enjoy adult privileges without paying due adult prices like loyalty, making choices-living by them, owning ur sh!t and working your reality till it's your fantasy.

Words written on marble

Depends on why you want to leave. Traveling or spiritual matter?

Oracle55:
I agree with u bro though she complained that her parents don't have,,she is too broke for my liking

That’s what broke girls do, they demand like their life depends on it. Most girls from poor family assumes a man owe them the responsibility of taking care of all their needs once they start dating

See how he embarrassed himself. A nairalander daddytime was once in the same shoes, but he didn’t take it that far like the op. His wife will find it very hard to forgive him. Lesson for unmarried men, don’t judge a baby’s beauty at birth

Utonwanne:


There's no mediocrity.... Paint it whatever you wish.

You just dey talk rubbish all the time. What’s wrong with you??

Man, this op is very hard to read. Bottom line is look very well before you reap in marriage

Nigerians deserves whatever they get in terms of leadership. Imagine some folks here defending the appointment of Yobo, just because man played 100 matches for Nigeria, he should now mount leadership of the nations apex team with no credible qualification. This is how we support mediocrity then cry foul when illiterates gets appointed into other spheres of our national life. Pinnick is just giving out jobs based on paddy paddy levels. No single credibility, what is Yobo bringing to the table when we already have a tactical deficient Rohr In charge? it all amounts to square peg in a round hole

Lol.......bunch of obotes.

That lady Na pure con. She’s in Canada now, Na format wey she take enter that side be that

cassidy1996:
fake story

Dey there make you pant dey wear you. Go Malaysia, if you try toast those beautiful Indian Malay women, Na helmet their bike riding young men in their large numbers go take shatter your skull. Them go just mob you to death.

crackkhaus:

Wow, we were actually typing the same thing at the same time using China as an example.. amazing..

See this is how I know people who are truly exposed about world issues. Not like a lot of these ones whose every behaviour is designed to be American-like or British-like because they know nothing else.

You are always spot on bro. The one thing that amaze me about these foreign lifestyles that our women copy is that the core westerners not British and Americans still maintain a close knitted family circle. They don’t joke with it, Italians and Russians and some other Europeans are just like us. They know the essence of it. Yes, we know that’s some siblings are troublesome and never do well, but that can never change who we are as Africans, women should learn to live with that

ImaIma1:


Being wealthy doesn't mean you condone bad manners. You cannot just got to someone's kitchen and take food from the pot. There are silent codes of conduct in some situations. A brother that does that doesn't respect his brother's wife.

A kitchen is place where you cook food, an intelligent woman would never lay claim to it. This is what women in the olden days used to do, you don’t expect someone that live in the same house with you to take permission whenever he/she wants to eat?

it’s only unintelligent women that I see fighting over kitchen and food, creating boundaries where there should be none. When you taste real wealth, you will know that food is meant to be eaten when cooked and a man siblings is part and parcel of him that no one should ever try to cut off

Go on Twitter and escalate the whole thing, since you have evidence that you were wrongly arrested. Tag all the influencers.

Danteeee:

Nwanne no talk Wetin u no sabi.. sustain the moral weh u dey give ooh.. one love!

Aboy use your head, don’t go about dishing out threats! Nobody wins when the family rows, learn to choose your battle wisely, y’all better get off nairaland and solve this amicably. Tell your sister to stop with the receipts, the internet never forgets!

The drama these days is on another level.

Aboy don’t allow this family to use you like this. You should have shut down the brother the moment he interfered without reaching out to you first. In fact, your wife’s brother is a very stupid guy, I don’t even want to talk about the money ish, you should have called her bluff when she tried to leave. Don’t go about apologizing when you have done nothing wrong

Oga allow this woman to be great, she needs comfort too. Do you want her to crash from stress just because you want to make an investment? There are cheap cars all over Abuja, and she’s not even asking you to buy her one. For now do everything possible to make her comfortable, you said it yourself that she’s a good woman. Don’t be a typical Nigerian that will be living in squalor while trying to acquire all the wealth, healthy lifestyle matters a lot biko.

Samuel1402:
No issue yet bro

Marriage will be outdated soon with the number of scary stories we read online daily. Try to find out why she values the salon business more than you

You are not married bro, what about your kids? Do you have any? Who takes care of them?

Who jokes with a king cobra? The length of that snake alone scares farmers to the marrow. A large tea farm was evacuated just because of this snake.