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Do you agree with this? •You need empathy not sympathy... the painful feeling one gets when things do not go as expected. Never judge the size of the heartbreak on the size of the cause. My neighbour's cat died and their heartache was the exact depth as my client whose relationship crashed. Heartbreak is heartbreak, no matter what the trigger. But two heartbroken people do not make one better. You want to find someone to be a friend or supporter who does not have an emotional engagement with your loss, or be that person for someone in need. If you love cats and your friend's cat died, you can only offer sympathy which is fine but it actually can prolong the pain. What is needed to help people through heartbreak is empathy. Solid ground they can rely on that's not caught up in the pain.

• Find a Substitute... You need to replace the thing that's lost as soon as possible. Whether it's a relationship or a cat or a job, the key to recovery is replacement. The vacuum that is left when there's an unexpected loss is the real cause of pain. The empty space, the hole, the lack of a companion, the break in routine. It's not always wise however to replace like with like. Sometimes it's better to replace a relationship with a sport, a holiday, a movie, a camera. Sometimes it's better to replace the loss with an icon, a picture or a plant. Activity based replacements are best. Internet based replacements are worst. Stay away from computers during heartbreak for as much of the day as possible. Sometimes TV is a help but really, getting outdoors is the key.

• Get Outdoors in Nature... Heartbreak thrives indoors. Pain and suffering is harvested indoors. Grief multiplies in isolation. This isn't to suggest that you go down the pub, or go back to work straight away, but three hours spent walking in nature will do more for you than 24 hours locked up inside. Stay warm, keep dry........ http://triolas..com/

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Have you been wondering what your man is up to when he's not with you? Do you have a sinking feeling every time he doesn't answer his phone? Is he regularly leaving you in the dark when you ask about his day or his time away from you? There are several ways to figure out whether he is cheating or whether you are just being paranoid.
Of course your relationship started out with generosity and chivalry. He'd pick you up for your evenings out, plan a series of activities that he knew you would like, would be affectionate in public. Nowadays it seems that things have fallen flat. He doesn't hold the door for you anymore and he'd rather order Chinese and watch a movie than take you out on the town. These changes in his behavior are not necessarily indicative of cheating, but they are a sign that your relationship is in trouble for whatever reason. Pay attention to his actions and try to address the problem before it gets worse. If he is unwilling to make an effort on your behalf, perhaps the relationship isn't worth it - regardless of whether he has been with other women.
If you have regular plans with your guy and he's starting to bail on them, it could be a bad sign. Perhaps you and he get together every Friday after work for cocktails with some friends... but all of a sudden he is unavailable for these outings. If he doesn't have a good excuse, your relationship could be in trouble. You don't need to be accusatory, but it is perfectly acceptable to ask him why he wasn't there for you. If he doesn't have a good reason, address the problem with him and try to gauge his response from there.
Learn to read into his excuses. People who are lying tend to have thought out their alibi prior to delivering it. Are there too many details? Does something seem off about his story? Does he get defensive if you question any aspects of his explanation? Verify his whereabouts if you deem it necessary. If he claims to have been with a certain friend, work it into conversation the next time you see that friend. If he's lying, it's pretty likely that he will get tripped up.
While cheating may seem heartless and insensitive, it doesn't mean that your man doesn't feel guilty about it. When guys feel guilty, they tend to express it outwardly. They will become aggressively defensive and even pick fights with you to change the subject. This is a pretty common trait among cheating men, and one that can be extremely emotionally damaging to you if you don't nip the problem in the bud.
Think about the past. Did your relationship start out with you being the other woman? Chances are his next relationship will, too. Is he still friends with any of his ex-girlfriends? Most adults in relationships can maintain at least a casual platonic relationship with their exes unless the romantic relationship ended particularly tragically.
Whether or not you can prove he's cheating, the important thing to keep in mind is that if you are concerned, there is a reason for it. If his behaviors have changed and you don't feel that the relationship is what it once was, perhaps it is time to move on regardless of whether or not he has been faithful.
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It is said that women are smarter than men. If this is the case, do they have the ability to do everything better than men can? It's been proven that women can do a job just as well, if not better than a man can. That's all great in this day and age of women being independent.
If they're so great at everything, as well or better than a man, can they be better cheaters than men? Hands down a woman can actually get away with cheating better than a man can. Not because men are dumb, but because a woman methodically will plan ten steps ahead rather than taking quick shortcuts like a man would. Let's just be realistic about it. Men are more likely to get caught cheating than a woman is.
Let's compare the difference as to why women could be better cheaters then men...
Women would plan and think about how they would cheat.
Whether the woman trying to cheat would do it alone or with the help of other women, they're likely to better their chances of accomplishing the task of cheating either way. They will plan ahead of time. The how, when, where, and even have a back up plan in case something goes wrong will already be in place. Women are more capable of being on "stealth" mode and a man will not have a clue she's stepping out on him. To read the full caption story
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