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Romance / Re: What If You Discover You're Pregnant After Breakup? by Tushed: 8:26pm On Jul 08, 2020 |
Egungun don enter express be that oooo |
Politics / Re: Ize-Iyamu: I Was A Member Of Pyrates Confraternity But Didnt Pour Acid On Anyone by Tushed: 12:26pm On Jul 06, 2020 |
Pyrates are not cultist |
Politics / Re: Obaseki’s Disqualification: Odigie-Oyegun Reacts, Says APC Will Suffer by Tushed: 7:16pm On Jun 12, 2020 |
Wasn't Oyegun the chairman of APC when primary election was rigged in favour of Aketi in Ondo State? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Politics / Re: Emmanuel Oscar And Yohanah Kilus Executed By Boko Haram In Borno by Tushed: 2:20pm On Jun 12, 2020 |
Soldiers shouldn't dies like this...as a soldier, you fight to the end! |
Politics / Re: Tinubu Is Not My Man - El-Rufai Says, Congratulates Aregbesola At 63 by Tushed: 9:03am On May 31, 2020 |
Tinubu remains they greatest Nigerian leader in this contemporary time. 4 Likes |
Romance / Re: He’s Very Stingy And I am tired by Tushed: 3:40am On May 28, 2020 |
The fact that he is idle is my major concern here...I attach a lot o to importance to getting busy doing something, even if it is selling pure water. Be that as it may, he mayn't have to give you, but I noticed he spent money on his own birthday. So if he truly loves you, he should have endeavour to get you a gift on your own day because ladies attach a lot of importance to such gesture. Good guys are very difficult to come by nowadays. So I advice you to sit him down and trash the issues with him before taking final decision to quit. I urge you to work on you grammar too. I wish you success. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: 3 Weeks To Wedding & I'm Confused! Please Advise Me by Tushed: 3:50pm On May 26, 2020 |
I think she is suffering from hormonal imbalance. You can help her by making love to her , it will relieve her tension. |
Business / Re: Joseph Wayas Celebrates His 79th Birthday Today by Tushed: 2:13am On May 22, 2020 |
Unfortunately as at 2004 when I served in Obudu, you cannot drive a car to his village. The roadswere so bad that only a bike can access the clan(Basang) |
Crime / Re: Lady, Whose Death Was Announced By Friends, Resurfaces (photo) by Tushed: 11:30am On May 20, 2020 |
She don get belle |
Business / Re: Otedola Visits Dangote's Fertilizer Plant (Photos, Video) by Tushed: 4:21pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
I can see gas being flared. That is not friendly to the environment and economically wrong 1 Like 1 Share |
Celebrities / Re: Sweet Steve Dies In An Accident (Photo) by Tushed: 8:00pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
RIP Sweet Steve 1 Like 2 Shares |
Celebrities / Re: Kate Henshaw Shares DM From Instagram Follower Worried That She Is Not Married by Tushed: 12:08am On Nov 26, 2019 |
Marriage will spoil her business naaa. When politicians can be shining her congo for millions.. |
Culture / Re: An Igbo Woman Farting In The Presence Of Her Husband Is A Taboo - Young Lady by Tushed: 1:23pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
Not really. It's not just sexy. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Education / Re: International School, University Of Ibadan Suspends Student For Wearing Hijab by Tushed: 10:29pm On Oct 03, 2019 |
Take your child to another school, shikena 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: Tiwa Savage, Jidenna And Carmelo Anthony In New York (Photos) by Tushed: 10:12pm On Sep 07, 2019 |
Looking for big d**k around the world. |
Celebrities / Re: My Real Life Is Complicated And Unglamorous – Dj Cuppy Cries Out by Tushed: 4:42pm On Aug 24, 2019 |
Honestly, she is right. |
Politics / Re: Ondo Deputy Governor Divides PDP by Tushed: 12:53pm On Aug 18, 2019 |
Aketi is doing fantastically well in Ondo State. APC cannot give him Ambode Treatment because he is not a coward like Ambode. For the good of all, let Aketi's good work continue. God bless Ondo State. 1 Like |
Crime / Re: Sharon Ojong Takes Rapists Spiked Drink, Escapes Death by Tushed: 10:47pm On Mar 18, 2019 |
Ok
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Family / Re: I Was A Good Girl But Why Did God Allow This To Happen To Me? by Tushed: 5:19am On Aug 31, 2018 |
What exactly is the the problem here? |
Politics / Re: 100 Most Reputable Africans: Nigeria Tops List By Reputation Poll by Tushed: 11:42pm On Mar 20, 2018 |
Where is Wole Soyinka? |
Family / Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by Tushed: 11:02pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
Just pretend as if everything is normal. He will come back to you. Don't just worry yourself my dear |
Celebrities / Re: Does Davido Really Have 30 Billion In His Account ?? by Tushed: 1:55pm On Jun 10, 2017 |
na song naaa>haba. Anybody can sing about anything. |
Politics / We Will Pay All The Arrears Of Workers’ Salaries, Even If ...akeredolu by Tushed: 8:46am On May 14, 2017 |
WE WILL PAY ALL THE ARREARS OF WORKERS’ SALARIES, EVEN IF IT TAKES ALL THE STATE’S RESOURCES-AKEREDOLU Ondo State Governor, Arakunrin Oluwarotimi Akeredolu, SAN, has promised to off set the arrears of salary left behind by his predecessor, Dr Olusegun Mimiko even if it takes the entire state resources. The Governor made the remark today while receiving the report of the committee set up to look into the Salary Arrears of the state public servants. The committee is chaired by the Deputy Governor, Arakunrin Alfred Agboola Ajayi. Ajayi while submitting the report thanked the Governor for the opportunity given him to serve in that capacity. He expressed hope that when government look into the detailed report payment may not be difficult. The Governor also thanked the state civil servants for their resilience and doggedness during the difficult time. “We can’t ask the workers to forgo their salaries. We have to pay even if that’s all we are able to do as government. http://blog.pleromaintegrated.com/2017/05/14/we-will-pay-all-the-arrears-of-workers-salaries-even-if-it-takes-all-the-states-resources-akeredolu/ cc:mynd44 lalastclala |
Politics / Buhari Nominates Lucky Ayedatiwa As Ondo Nddc Representative by Tushed: 8:30am On Mar 31, 2017 |
The Senate has confirmed the receipt of the nomination of Honourable Lucky Ayedatiwa as the Ondo State Representative on the board of the Niger Delta Development Commission,( NDDC). In a nomination letter by the President, addressed to the Senate, which was read at the plenary session earlier today, The President, Mohammadu Buhari requested for the confirmation of Ayedatiwa as Ondo State representative on NDDC board. When confirmed, Mr Lucky Ayedatiwa will fill the vacuum created by the Senate rejection of Tokunbo Ajasin on the account that he was not from the oil producing areas of Ondo State. Lucky Ayedatiwa was the APC’s candidate in the 2015 House of Representative election for Ilaje/Ese-Odo Federal constituency and a close ally of Arakunrin Oluwarotimi Akeredolu, the Ondo State Governor. Ayedatiwa is from Mahin ward IV of Ilaje Local Government http://blog.pleromaintegrated.com/2017/03/31/buhari-nominates-lucky-ayedatiwa-as-ondo-nddc-representative/
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Career / Ten (10) Tips On How To Handle With Rumours About Yourself by Tushed: 11:09am On Feb 06, 2017 |
Ten (10) Tips On How to Handle With Rumours about Yourself One of the worst things ever, especially in school and workplace, is having to deal with rumours about yourself. One thing I’ve learned over the years is that no matter how “popular” you are or not, you will have to deal with at least one nasty rumours about yourself. Rumours happen to all of us, and even when they’re not that bad, they’re still horrible. Since I know a lot of you have to go through the same thing, I put some tips together so you can get through this rough time with grace and maturity – unlike the people spreading the rumours. Here are 10 tips on how to deal with rumours about yourself. 1. Ignore As Much As You Can When you hear a rumours about yourself, one of the first things you should do is try to ignore it. Sometimes, if you ignore something like this, it goes away. It also shows that you're above the rumours, and if you show that you don't care, other people will stop caring. 2. Don't Deny Too Hard Whether the rumours is true or not, our first instinct is to defend ourselves. This is understandable, but defending yourself too much will make you look guilty, even if the rumours is completely false. Instead of running around yelling at everyone that it isn't true, or writing about it on social media, ignore it (like I said before). Or, if you're asked about it, simply say, "No. That's not true." And leave it at that. 3. Make People Feel Stupid for Talking About It Go a step further than just simply saying, "No." Make people feel stupid for even bringing up the rumours, or for believing it in the first place. You can do this by laughing it off and acting like it's the silliest thing you've ever heard that you also don't care about. For example, if someone asks you if it's true, laugh casually and say, "Um, no. That's not true." Roll your eyes and then change the subject like it was never brought up. Blowing it off like this will make some people feel really silly for even thinking it could be true. 4. Stay Calm and Don't Let Them See Your Reaction Part of ignoring a rumours is to not let other people see how upset or angry it is making you. Again, seeming too defensive and angry will make you look guilty. Crying about it isn't going to make others feel bad - it's just going to add fuel to the fire. People can be really mean. They want to see you react, because they want to watch the drama. Don't give them that satisfaction! Instead, blow it off, like I said before. If they don't get the reaction they're looking for, they will eventually stop. If they do? They'll keep going. 5. Confront the Person Who Started the Rumour If you find out who started this rumour, say something to them! It's probably better to do this privately than publicly, as that can get messy and just make people talk even more. Confront the person in a calm manner, and say, "Why would you say something like that?" Make it clear that you're angry, but also show that you're the mature one here. Find out what their problem is and try to get to the bottom of things from there. 6. Lean on Your Friends Dealing with rumours can be tough. Don't feel like you have to go through this alone - lean on your closest friends for comfort. We don't always feel comfortable going to our parents for this kind of thing, so instead, go to your besties. Talk to them, vent to them when you're angry, and cry to them when you're upset about it. Let them help you feel better. 7. Don't Plot Revenge I know that sometimes it's tempting to fight fire with fire - or, in other words, start a new rumour to battle the one about you. But don't do this. It's immature, and you shouldn't stoop to that level. The best revenge is continuing to live your life by acting like nothing is bothering you. Trust me. 8. Stand Up for Yourself When Necessary I know I just spent this entire time telling you guys to ignore the rumours, but sometimes you just need to stand up for yourself. If things get out of hand and people are being really horrible, don't be afraid to defend yourself. Don't do this by whining "it's not true!" or crying. Do it by acting assertive and in control, and saying something like, "This is getting ridiculous and needs to stop. I really don't appreciate what's going on." 9. Talk to an Authority Figure If Needed If things get really out of control, you should definitely consult an authority figure, like a teacher, guidance counsellor, or parent. If people are harassing you, that's not okay. You should feel safe in school or work, or wherever the rumour is happening. Don't be afraid to fill someone else in. They may have more power than you do to stop it. 10. Accept That There May Be Nothing You Can Do The worst thing about rumours is that sometimes, there is nothing we can do to stop them. Most of the time you need to just ride them out and wait for people to get bored, or find something else to talk about. I know it sucks, but sometimes it's best to just accept that and try to ignore and move on. It will give you a better piece of mind. http://blog.pleromaintegrated.com/2017/02/06/ten-10-tips-on-how-to-handle-with-rumours-about-yourself/ |
Politics / Re: NNPC Engineers Mount GPS Monument As Search For Oil In The North Intensifies by Tushed: 10:37pm On Nov 12, 2016 |
Who oil don epp? |
Events / Re: Nigerian Twin Sisters Wed The Same Day (pics) by Tushed: 8:59pm On Nov 12, 2016 |
lovely |
Celebrities / Re: Kenyan Reporter Shades Nigeria As Zuckerberg Leaves Nigeria For Kenya by Tushed: 11:21pm On Sep 01, 2016 |
wft? |
Career / Re: 10 Jobs That Makes It Difficult For Men To Intimately Satisfy Their Wives by Tushed: 11:02am On Aug 13, 2016 |
which job come remain? |
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