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Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by Bluffly: 10:55pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
herveze:So because you are a slut then every other person is a slut 9 Likes |
Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by immortal145: 10:56pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
hey woman, ur man is hanging out with d very wrong kindof people... u shld pray to God... dnt worry so much...so it doesnt affect ur present state...u must try to remain excited at all times... a battle line has been drawn...so its time to fight...but this u must do in a very positive way so dat God can back u... u&ur husband will become stronger!... 1 Like |
Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by adedehinbo(m): 10:56pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
WiredLeggings:so basically u re trying to fight for her?instead of you to give her best advice u re there busy castigating the husband, so if they finally break u will wife or accommodate her,some drastic measure doesn't requires drastic movement 2 Likes |
Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by Omolope4real(m): 10:57pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
For me, I would advice u neva go through his personal stuffs again if u don't want to have HBP. The day I went through my wife's phone was d day I realized she has been lieing to me tho not on cheating level which gave me headache. Since then, I stopped checking her phone oh. Man can not come and die young. To the topic, I really feel ur pain. Have u asked him why it has to come to this stage of him cheating. What does he see in d oda lady he is not seeing in u. Sit him down and have a heart to heart talk. Confronting him will make matters worse. I am just surprised he is not remorseful, prob he is fed up about something and wants a way out. Remember to pray. All d best dear |
Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by Slurity(m): 10:57pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
tomi87014:my sister, you have noting to worry about, the only error that is about crushing your happiness is confronting him. you have blown the perception out of proportion. call him and beg him that you are sorry for over jealous and nagging. pretend that he has stopped and surely he will 1 Like |
Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by Freelancer007(m): 10:58pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by muller101(m): 10:59pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
Op drop ur main Monika. Then I will lead u to that woman. |
Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by Nobody: 10:59pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
Honestly I know how you feel but you should know there are men that don't pride themselves in sleeping around it's not natural it's a spiritual battle you can only fight from your knees |
Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by zicoraads: 11:00pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
But, what makes you think he will cheat on you? Except the content of the chats were raunchy, it may probably just be a casual hangout. The guy was most likely angry when he told you he owes you no faithfulness. That sounds like anger talking. I know I don't like it when any lady goes snooping in my phone. I know your husband said that because he was unhappy about your doing it. Still, the two of you need to have a conversation like people are saying. He owes you an explanation to why he was arranging a rendezvous with another lady. And also limit the way you go checking his social media pages. I am not married. So take what I just said with a pinch of salt. 2 Likes |
Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by Edkoliba: 11:01pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
herveze: So u would have cheated on her. Mtchewwwww. All men are like that abi? Unfaithful. Nonsense and Apc 4 Likes |
Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by obataokenwa(m): 11:01pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
for him to be bold like that... my sister use prayer cos most girls nowadays use juju. I hope you're not based in PH 1 Like |
Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by Seguntimmy(m): 11:01pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
D picz downward tels u my thought on these 1 Like
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Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by LorDBolton(m): 11:01pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
tomi87014: Lemme be honest with you... In every marriage , yes I'm generalizing and I repeat in EVERY MARRIAGE At least one party cheats... If not both sha Now men who respect their wives(and vice versa) covertly cheat... Those who don't overtly cheat ... It's all about respect He said he doesn't owe you faithfulness... Something's VERY intriguing about such statement , you haven't told us the full story 1 Like |
Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by Sapiosexuality(m): 11:01pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
You don't owe your partner Faithfulness? This is a big one. This one is too much to handle. Once a person begins this show of unfaithfulness, I honestly don't think any advice will make them stop. You'd need a miracle for him to shelf that mentality. This one is big. I think there are two options. Manage him and try to talk him out of the madness, talk with an elder if it fails, his family, whoever wedded both of you. Or quit. For a man to say he doesn't owe you faithfulness tells a lot. Is he tired? Didn't make those oaths? Do you irritate him now? Even if you do, where does such boldness come from? Are you doing something that's shrinking your worth in his eyes? And even if your worth fell, the question still is, where does such boldness come from? 2 Likes |
Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by Tushed: 11:02pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
Just pretend as if everything is normal. He will come back to you. Don't just worry yourself my dear |
Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by Mdaz(m): 11:04pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
tomi87014: Pray and be patient.... Request he run some STD tests eventually just to b safe on ur part.... It's well. Have no trust in man but Allah. |
Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by Originalsly: 11:04pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
Op...my question to you. ..why were you going through his phone? Whatever is your answer... it will boil down to trust... you do not trust him. How do you expect to have a smooth marriage without trust? You don't trust him...why would you trust/believe whatever he says if you sit him down to discuss the issue? Your marriage was fine until you start digging for dirt. If you dig for dirt you'll bound to find it. Then for your husband to say he never promised you faithfulness.... oh well. .. I can only guess it's not the first time he be drooling such words.... and I guess before marriage it was no secret that he was not the faithful type. Maybe after the baby pops out he will begin to behave like a husband. 1 Like |
Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by adedehinbo(m): 11:04pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
Jahblessme:Mrs adviser when u done breaking her home,u will take her responsibilities upon yourself, so many of u young girls out the don't know what marriage is all about but u wanna advise the married ones,u re indirectly advising her to take a drastic measure to this sensitive issue,to the op Abeg don't listen to most of the opinions here,try seek advise from couples who had experience abt this nd maneuver 2 Likes |
Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by Donjazzy12(m): 11:05pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
tomi87014:Divorce him immediately and become a single mom! If Tonto Dike can do it, why can't you? Fight him, sieze his phones, shout at him, refuse him sex. Even join a lesbian relationship. Men are scum, they are worthless, they are all heart breakers! Or..... You can really make a turn around difference in your relationship by taking the following steps... The choice is yours! 2 Likes |
Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by Kokaine(m): 11:05pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
do not seek to make your self loved all the time. sometimes, a little dimension of your readiness to break ties and dispense with him, or ensure his or any other persons ruins, in the event that you are toyed with is necessary. this is because, men are more likely to be bound by dread of consequence than by a feeling of obligation called love. 2 Likes |
Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by rikamann: 11:07pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
Do not mind home breakers, I don't think he intends to cheat on you he should probably be discussing things that might benefit the both of you. Forget what he said, he never meant it. Enjoy your marriage! 1 Like |
Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by luminouz(m): 11:07pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
humeeh: Counselor of laive |
Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by Nobody: 11:08pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
herveze: Speak for yourself I sure won't be like that when married If one will cheat like a goat why get married ? 3 Likes |
Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by luminouz(m): 11:09pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
Donjazzy12: U well so?? Shey o ya werey sha Abi werey n shey baba werey e ni? |
Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by Richy4(m): 11:11pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
Hmmm!!!!! I don't even know what to say in this... when a husband says he does not owe the wife faithfulness What did they use to officiate the marriage.. Amadioha or Sango...even these deities love faithful followers |
Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by David0809(m): 11:12pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
Really sorry about all what is happening to you now and all that you are going through but my Advice to you might sound somehow but i believe that if you will do what i tell you now and pray and believe it with all your heart it will work out. Get this Movie "War Room" it comes with great empath. Thanks |
Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by demefa(m): 11:15pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
PaperLace:Nice finishing 4 Likes |
Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by guru03(m): 11:18pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
Don be hard on your husband if not you will lose him, pray for him, and advice him even if he will cheat, let him protect himself, buy condom and give to him as well, he might be ashamed of himself. |
Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by demefa(m): 11:19pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
YourCoffin:Nt all men, only he goats take the easy way out. |
Re: I Caught My Husband Chatting With A Lady On Facebook & WhatsApp & Confronted Him by dunamis321(f): 11:21pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
Every marriage has its storms, good thing is that with wisdom and fervent prayers, God will definitely calm this storm. Sit back and think, have u offended him in anyway, is there something you think you have been doing and he has consistently complained about? Are you still doing the things that got him attracted to you? There might be something behind that statement of him not owing u his faithfulness. I don't know your religion or level of faith but my first advice for you is that you take out time to pray, this is because there are somethings we can't change by our powers alone. Secondly, show him more love, care and attention, always dress well, give him a good treat at night then probably when he is relaxed you could tell him you are not comfortable with those chats that he should not give room for things that could tear your home apart. Say it once and let it go, then act like nothing happen. I think men are even more scared when u show them love knowing fully well that they have hurt you. Two shall become one but respect his privacy, even if u see stuffs on his phone, jokingly ask about them when he is in a happy mode, don't make it too official. I know its easier to proffer advice when you aren't going through the challenge but I hope things work out for you both. Cheers babe. 2 Likes |
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