I don't think u have a bad character neither am i saying u r a saint, but am simply saying is that u r just a simple lady looking for her heart desires. One thing about love is that true love builds up with time and not first attraction, so it can stand the test of time.

So just clear ur mind, socialise more and give 'em guyz more oppportunity to know u better.

I think u need to losen up abit, no one is perfect we all work towards perfection.
I would advise that u try another approach, i.e. friendship first then u can take it to any level u want after assessing the guy but it doesn't imply that u know everything about him.

So all u need is just be focused and i believe ur dream guy is out there waiting to meet.
Oh and pray about it first before committing urself and its lovely that u know who u what as a partner.

I wish u all the best.